http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_1...42-504083.html
I thought this was on 1000 ways to die and it was during sex. Ouch!!!!
See this is why chubby chasing can be hazardous to your health![]()





http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_1...42-504083.html
I thought this was on 1000 ways to die and it was during sex. Ouch!!!!
See this is why chubby chasing can be hazardous to your health![]()
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
...She will, however, be serving time for shoplifting.
http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=146378
Seriously though... that's horrible.
Like... I'm sure it's hard enough being fat... but being so fat you killed your boyfriend by sitting on him could really make a person feel bad.





Her boyfriend was 5'10 and 126 pounds. He was skinny. Note to self: If I want a skinny boyfriend I need to gain 200+ pounds.





"According to her lawyer, there was a history of domestic abuse between Landingham and her boyfriend, FOX News reports. "
I'm surprised she got off so lightly, then--unless it was very clearly mutual abuse, but even then?
I do know that domestic abuse is with surprising frequency female to male--you never hear about it but it's true.
I will never forget the story I saw in the news in Austin TX, a few years back. Another big huge fat woman used to beat shit out of her skinny little boyfriend or husband. She pushed him through a big sliding glass door, which broke--but then lost her balance and impaled herself on a big spike of glass and died.
You kind of have to wonder what the guy felt at that point.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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This fat-bashing is getting really tired.
I'm all for sharing interesting stories (and this story is interesting) but why is it that 'fat' is something that some people think its okay to actively hate people over? I'm surprised its considered socially acceptable on SW to throw around No-Fatties-Allowed/anti-chubby chaser type statements. If this was a question of race, height or any other physical characteristic women would be up in arms.
As sex workers oughtn't we understand what its like to be in a marginalized group and treat others the way we would like to be treated? Promotion of a healthy lifestyle is cool but fat-bashing is ridiculous and insecure. I wish we'd go on rocking our gorgeous selves without going out of our way to put others down![]()
You can't choose your race, height, or physical characteristics.
This comparison does not apply.
And honestly... I don't think that MOST of what's been said could be considered 'fat bashing'... there's a difference between "damn this person is disgusting for something they did" and being insulting towards fat people in general.
Actually, this isn't true. It may happen more often than people would think (maybe this is what you were trying to say), but it's relatively rare.
And anyway, Male-->Female domestic violence is very different than just straight up violence. It's all of the fucked up manifestations of power and control that go with physical violence. Emotional abuse, etc.
I work for a DV shelter and went through extensive training on this...so I'm purrrty sure this ain't the case.





I too don't think this is fat bashing. Do I hate fat people? Not at all. Do I think they are unhealthy? Certainly and this is a problem WE all pay for. If we get universal healthcare obesity is the biggest problem we will face and obesity carries a lot of problem. Do you know that a healthy 40 year old woman is more likely to have a healthy baby than an obese 25 year old? This is true according to my doctor. Do you know diabetes and heart disease is on the rise due to obesity? This is a problem. I've had to share seats on the bus with a large person and this makes me uncomfortable because they took over half my seat, though we paid the same.
I have a friend who's 5'1 and 300 pounds and her husband (who's a normal weight) is convinced she will die within a few years. She's fat because of her own poor diet. I went out for ice cream with her and she bought 2 double scoops ice cream (no, that's not a type, she bought 2 ice cream cones). She eats those KFC bowls every day for lunch.





Good for you for doing that! I think that's a great cause. Last year I interviewed with a battered woman's shelter for a pr job and I had to meet them at a place where they didn't work. The reason is they didn't want many people to know where they are because of the men. I think it's awful when anyone beats their spouse. I think though that too many people (mostly women but some men) miss the warning signs.





She explained that to me, hoping I'd understand and I did completely. I know if I was a battered woman I wouldn't want my husband to find me.





If you can conceal $2,600 worth of stolen merchandise in your fat rolls including boots and jeans, there is a problem.
If you can kill your much skinnier boyfriend by sitting on him, there is an even bigger problem (no pun intended)
And if you're sitting next to a 300 pounder on the Greyhound from Minneapolis to Philly THERE IS DEFINITELY A MOTHERFUCKING PROBLEM!!!!!! (yeah that was me) not the 300 llber -_- I was squished against the window.
What's worse is that Greyhound doesn't make them buy 2 seats. I don't fly because quite frankly I don't want to deal with all the bullshit. I shouldn't have to nearly be suffocated to death. -_-
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





More often than you would think, that's what I meant to say. You never, ever hear about it, but it does happen.
I can't remember whether it was my mom who told me this or not. She worked with the State of Florida on Domestic Violence, I forget the title of the programs or whatever, but she was pretty heavily involved with this and other feminist issues. I just found more letters from the governor thanking her.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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This is definitely true. Probably a more accurate way of saying this would be to say that violence against men occurs more often than one would think. Because the issue of domestic violence is much more complex than just violence. The insane power/control dynamic involved in DV only very very rarely occurs in a woman-->man relationship. I'm nitpicking a bit, but still...it's an important distinction.
Feeling like your personal space was invaded must have sucked. You come off as intelligent; its a shame you couldn't find any other solution for the situation.
Just because someone else has a problem doesn't give you the right to incessantly bash them for it. I wish you would cut out the No-Fatties-Allowed/Be-Glad-She-Wasn't-250-lbs/other random, irrelevant and hateful comments. We get it: you don't like overweight.
On a board whose women are constantly scrutinized for their figures, some of whom have confessed eating disorders/body image issues, etc., I think the way you're presenting your opinion is uncool. You seem like a nice chick with a sense of humour - could you maybe consider posting in a more considerate way? I can't speak for anyone but myself but I am offended reading your no-fat/I-hate-fat/fat-is-disgusting. Otherwise I find your comments amusing.
I think DesuvsDeath and KellyDancer do a marvelous job of expressing their weight preferences in very tasteful ways. Thanks ladies, I agree-ish with both of you <3
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