I find with token sites its much more likely you'll be recorded as bots will do it than with private only. Also having music on in the background of your show, can prevent recordings being successfully leaked if they do it due to copyright infringement.
But yeah you can't stop recording happening at all.
I usually ignore stuff like this but I was in a snarky mood tonight.
I can't even remember what he started with but whatever it was, his poor little feelings were hurt.
"You are going to have zero viewers again". "You're way too old to be here anyway."
Me: I would rather have zero viewers than a bunch of douchebags.
"I was going to do a private".
Me: I don't do shows with assholes.
"Why are you here then?"
(No reply)
"Why is everyone on this site so rude?"
Hmmm, I can't imagine why.
Last edited by ~Carmen~; 02-22-2021 at 02:56 AM.
After having 2 stress free nights some dick had ro come in this morning and go on about my rate but as in per hour!! Like who does that?! Then complain about it. I didn't once mention about an hour only asked how is he lol
Ok this was funny, all on PM, you guys are right I am getting more random PMs but this guy actually wasted my time in free chat too.
Him: I am new to the site how are you
Him: Hey I don’t have any money at the min but I wanna call you
2:47 pm
Him: Do you wanna stay in touch with me get to know each other
2:53 pm
Me: No.
3:00 pm
Him: Oh right
(last night on cam I was wearing a hoodie)
guy: someone with clothes!
me: people don’t wear clothes where you live?
Whatever he’s probably really into older women, or why else did he come to your room in the first place. I’m not saying your old, but I assume your like me and present as a mature model. I had a guy say something similar to me. I was like if you want me to be your step mom in private I can be. Sold. As I friend once said, “we all got titties and ass.” I use to be overly harsh on myself, but guys really only care we have a vagina. The ones that are overly critical are just being assholes.
Focus more on what you want than on what you don’t want
I am older than most and I used to be harsh on myself too. I think guys like that are scared to get old so they project their fear onto older women. I guess it makes them feel better. The great thing about being my age is, I no longer care what anyone else thinks. I'm so much more secure with myself than I used to be. It's a feeling of freedom when you get to that point.
I love how you sold that guy a stepmom show. That was brilliant! "We all got titties and ass". Love it! I find that a lot of young guys, even in their early 20's are very respectful.
Rock your age ladies! It's all about confidence.
Last edited by ~Carmen~; 02-23-2021 at 01:42 AM.
This guy was an old ass freeloader who says dumb shit EVERY time LOL
On a scale of 10 I'd give u 9 and I'm the 1 u need
-- i dont need u
Suck a dick i was gonna tip but hell no
((meanwhile other ppl are tippng LOL))
-- LOL I will, a bigger 1 than yours too, and u werent tipping, no point in lying, u never have tipped and never will
9 inch i hv bitch
-- is that all ? my dildo is bigger and he doesnt whine as much as u, too bad u only have 9 inches and no tokens
Get a job
-- a job LOL why tf would i want 1 of those? u could use1 since u cant even afford to tip 1 token
I tip girls not bitches
-- u dont tip ANYBODY u lying broke ass
Gain some weight lol
-- Get some tokens
(in messenger after guy asks why he always gets kicked and i accuse guy of having no $)
guy: actually i do spend a chunk on here
He then proceeds to send half a dozen screenshots of what I can only assume were cheap buy ins to gold shows *golf clap*
2 balatzar04 Hellp Goddess
2 balatzar04 How are you ?
2 balatzar04 Im good thank you
2 balatzar04 Mm
2 balatzar04 ..
Then leaves. Nothing irks me more than a level 1 or 2 acting like they want a show then bailing. My stream is fine. Stats are all excellent. FUCKER lolollll.
Sha
^Those level 1-2 types are the worst. I am the ultimate brat so I have no problem kicking them and then they get the hint and tip or take me to a show![]()
For me, kicking people makes them wake the f up! Some have flat out admitted it turns them on
This really stressed me out and upset me so much to the point that I'm physically shaking, any support from others would be much appreciated as this has never happened before. I have learnt a few lessons.
Lesson 1. Always question the silent ones who just jump in to a show, premium no less. Doesn't matter if they stay or leave
Lesson 2. If someone is being nasty, rushing you, you don't need their money, end the show
This happened:
Jimmy: Shiw tits x
Jimmy: Faster xxx so hot
I said 10 gold or we go exclusive if you want it faster
10.00 GOLD from Jimmy
Jimmy: Finger fuck yourself
I said 20 gold if you want to rush to that.
Jimmy: What no thats scamming, i done wot u said
NOTE should have kicked out right there and then, I was scared of a bad rating so I went along with it, explaining that I said 10 for rushing to showing tits not fingering. Anyway I moved quickly, thinking get it done and over with, avoid the bad rating, get the money and block afterwards.
Idiot says:
Jimmy: Ur not enjoying this very much r u
I explained well yeah not when you rushed me into it
Jimmy: Look where u r in life ts ts ts ur mum would be ashamed
I stopped the show, you can do that, it is your right as a model, you don't get a rating or comment. This has never happened in a show but I will NEVER take that behaviour again, have slight soreness from rushing to fingering. No it's not worth it. They can fuck off. I am far more intelligent than this illiterate fuck, have held many educated jobs and could be in the corporate work force. Look where I am in life? Happier than I've ever been with the financial freedom to pursue and work on what I'm passionate about. Ladies don't pay attention to scum like this who is supporting the very industry they say is shameful, get rid of them.
What a asshole, you did good by stopping the show!
He is even boiling my blood and that only by reading your post.
You always have the right to kick, ban block or stop the show. When you get a undeserved bad rating you can mail support and ask them to take it down. In this case: when you use a screenshot it will be very clear why you blocked.
Never be afraid and go on for a good rating. Streamate is there for its models, they will def help you out in such cases
You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help enough other people get what they want - Zig Ziglar
"Be thankful for the troubles of your job. They provide about half your income Robert R. Updegraff
You can’t be scared of getting bad ratings, so long as you are the customer will always be the one in control.
Look where he's at in life. He played himself. He's complaining about $20 on a sex website. He's the same loser who wouldn't take a woman $20 Mcdonalds trip and wonder why no1 gives him pussy.
So sorry that happened to you. Somedays we get affected mentally more than others. Definitely need to always listen to our intuition with customers. I flat out tell some of them in free chat "you are annoying me so I dont want to cum with you now". Or "you are too clingy and turning me off". We have the pussy we have the power never forget that
Well done you! & IDGAF about a bad rating. It's easier for me to be assertive as my role is a Domme, but every woman needs to do exactly what you did. We are not emotional punching bags or just fuck holes.
It's great you've reflected & taken a couple things away from it.
& the adrenaline rush? Normal reaction to a very toxic vibe like that.
FUCK HIM GOOD!!!
Sha
Genoveve, Miss Adriana and Miss_Sha Sha, thanks so much ladies, honestly has brightened up my morning so much. Having that support and advice really makes a difference to your mental health and goodness knows in this field you need to be resilient. Ordinarily these guys get filtered out in freechat but when they just jump straight into private like that without a word, well needless to say I was caught off guard.
All you girls are amazing. Pussy power! We hold the power. It's a job like any other and it's the only one where we can get rid of an angry customer with click of a mouse, we DON'T have to see them or be harassed by them. It's funny how it's always the cheapskates who can't get a girl in real life (for obvious reasons) that think you are just DESPERATE for their measly $20. I'm good mate, I'm good. They literally pay for the privilege of seeing our bodies and watching us masturbate, in the case of domming they pay for the privilege of being degraded. I don't even see it as virtual sex, I see it as them paying to watch me have sex with myself haha don't mind if I do. Lots of love, good energy and vibes to all you girls and if anyone ever feels they want to talk, you are always welcome to message me <3
Brit, that guy has probably spent his entire waking life struggling to attract women and now he's paying and he still can't get a woman to enjoy herself in his company. It must have been a massive kick in the teeth for him when you said you weren't enjoying yourself. He was probably playing mind games and expecting you to start grovelling and tell him you were enjoying it then start hurrying up to please him. You're stronger than him though so you didn't give in to his shit.
The longer you do this job, the less their bullshit will phase you and when they realise they can't hurt you, they'll soon fall away. Some of these men hate themselves and it really is so obvious.
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