This is going to be kind of long so i understand if you don't really want to read it...
So I started stripping in June with a girl I had just met. I'll call her AA. I didn't know her very well when I first met her but my boyfriend wanted me to start of stripping with someone I knew first in case I got in a dangerous situation, I would know somebody. Well this person had alcohol problems and wasn't very trustworthy. A week before we started stripping together she got kicked out of her house by her crazy parents, and all of my crap was in their house (the dancer stuff I bought, we were trying stuff on in her room). She ended up meeting a guy and then moving in with him after 5 days. At that point I had about $500 to my name and spent about $200 of that trying to get her life in order cuz I felt really bad about the situation she was in and felt like I couldn't just walk away and know what was happening. So we start working for our private party company and she gets really competitive and we end up fighting a lot. Long story short, I don't trust her any more, and she pretends to be my friend but I know she would do anything to make me look bad or throw me under the bus. She even purposely kicked me in the face with her 6" heel one time at a show cuz a guy wanted a dance from me and not her. I never retaliated, I have always just tried to be the bigger person, but its so hard when she doesn't get in trouble for the bullshit she pulls. Long story short, I was pissed off at myself for trying to help someone who in the end was just in it for themselves and backstabbed me like that. and if it wasn't for me, they wouldn't even have a job because she was such an alcoholic. she even went to rehab a month after working and they wanted to fire her for all the drama she had caused but I told them not to because I was trying to have her back.
So I got another friend a job about a month and a half ago, let's call her BB. She said that she couldn't pay her rent and couldn't even buy groceries. how do i not help out a friend in need like that? so i taught her all the dance moves, taught her all the hair and makeup, we went out and got spraytans, and i got her the job. now she is going around saying how much better she is than me and how shes gonna get me fired and shes gonna take my top spot and blah blah blah. and i'm like, really? who are you to say all that when apparently you couldn't pay your rent or buy groceries, your family cut you off, and i helped you get out of that terrible situation? how could she even do something like that?
So AA finds out that BB is going to work for our company now, and AA is pissed. shes like why the fuck did you bring BB into this, she is a backstabbing whore, will take our money, is fat and ugly, and I can't believe you are doing this to me because I thought we were friends, blah blah blah. So now AA hates BB with a passion.
she also started talking shit about AA, and even though i'm pissed at AA, BB had no right to say what she did. we were looking at AA's pics and i said "she has such a great body, i wish i had her abs" and then BB said "well, you know the reason why she is so skinny is because she is bulimic, right?" i couldn't believe she said that! BB was obviously just jealous of AA. so i told AA what BB friend said since they might be working together that night and i wanted to warn her not to trust this bitch. so AA confronts BB and BB blames it on me and says that i said it!! so AA is crying and is mad at me, blah blah blah. long story short, i confront BB friend, she calls me psychotic and says that nobody within 100 miles has anything good to say about me, shes gonna get me fired, blah blah. i should have said well if im such a bad person then get your own fucking job and go back to not having any food in the fridge and basically being homeless. but im a better person than that so I just didn't write back to whatever she said.
about a week later after this big blowup I got my breast augmentation and I was out of work for 3 weeks. during these 3 weeks AA and BB are all of a sudden best friends. like, INSEPARABLE. and now their favorite thing to do is talk shit about me and try to get me fired (which isn't going to happen because all I do is do a good job, make a lot of money, and make a lot of money for the company, and mind my own business unless I call someone out on their shit). And i'm like, wow, that's really funny because before my surgery AA and BB hated each other with a passion. AND, NEITHER of them would have jobs if it wasn't for me.
So basically idk what to do.. . I'm very pissed off.. and I'm very upset that after I went out of my way to help both of these girls and get them jobs, they turn around and stab me in the back like this. I try to be a good person and it always fucks me over. I don't see why I try to do the right thing. I do good things for people and it never comes back around.
I'm not letting AA and BB bother me because I know that I'm not gonna help them anymore or rally for them anymore to keep their jobs cuz they dont deserve it... they will get themselves fired eventually by themselves cuz these are the kinds of people that always fuck up... they've both been arrested before and its not their fault, one of them has been pregnant and it's not their fault, one of them failed out of school and its not their fault, and the list goes on and on and on. they think nothing is their fault and their shit dont stink and they always fuck shit up. i'm sure they will do the same with this job.
What should I do??




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