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    Let him keep buying you stuff

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    Hmm tricky one. I would love the gifts too, but the meet up? I feel you on that one. I wouldn't want that either. I think if it was me, and I have had generous custies before, I would just ride the gravy chain till it stopped. And it might eventually end when he realizes you wont meet up.

    These guys usually don't get that you don't want to meet, and no matter how much you try to explain, they still think the extra tips, and gifts will butter you up. That you MIGHT just give in because of all the gifts. Be careful though. I noticed that my address and name was showing up on my wishlist!!!! I had to disable that, and don't know what to do about making it anonymous?

    It's good to tell them the truth that you wont meet, but honestly he probably doesn't care. Just keep getting the dough and gifts till he gets tired of you holding out lol.

    You go girl!

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    Another DUH moment for me. P.O. box. Don't know why I didn't think of that before. Thx

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    Quote Originally Posted by nikki-chan View Post
    omg

    so this guy has been buying me a ton of stuff for no reason from my amazon wishlist. he wants to like pay me to fly out and spend time with him but i don't know what to do.

    i need advice from my sisters!


    If you don't want to meet any of these guys in person (I don't either), make that clear to them. If they still wanna buy you gifts, then that's awesome!

    I really just want money/gift cards (especially a Walmart.com e-gift card), so what I just started doing the other day on MFC is mentioning on my profile and in my room topic that 'for every $10 on a Walmart.com e-gift card sent to my e-mail, I will give 5 minutes of Skype chat.' I figured that'd be cool since on Yahoo! Cam Girls Online and xxxcambabes my rate was $2/minute.

    One of my regulars who is a sweetheart and adores me just bought me a $50 Walmart.com e-gift card the other day! I was so happy, and this is my first time doing one of these 'Send me a gift' promotions. I should start doing this more often even when the holiday is over! This same guy also did a long true private session on MFC (the other day when NO ONE in free chat was tipping). I've done group shows and private shows on there, but had never done TRUE private before. That was so cool. I think it's very cool how much money some guys are willing to spend on us...I love it!
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    Never cross your comfort zone for gifts or money, its not worth it! If I were you, I'd let the gifts keep rolling in. Be gracious and thankful, but never make any false promises of things you aren't willing to do.

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    If he wants to spend money on you, cool. But he has to accept that NO MEANS NO. He might seem like a sweet guy, and I don't mean to scare you or anything, but could you imagine if you did fly out to him...how would he react when it's time for you to go back home? Would he accept that you're leaving, or would he be frighteningly persistent (and even use force?) to get you to stay at his place longer? When your mind is made up about NOT wanting to meet a guy in person, that guy HAS to respect your decision. If not, then it's time to cut him loose from any form of contact. Very persistent guys who are spending money on you, and getting more and more pushy and determined to meet you...be careful with that and also be careful that, during any conversations with him, you don't accidentally let it slip where you went to school, real names of your family members, etc. I feel like when I'm on MFC, I have to be careful about every word that comes out of my mouth, because there are lots of horny guys watching and listening.

    I know that when I was in an AW paid session and mentioned that I was going to New York this month, a guy was talking about giving me money for us to hook up. As much as I could've used that money for Christmas shopping and bills, I told myself that I'm not doing any in-person meetings with these guys (same thing with my MFC raffles...no in-person meetings). I like making money being comfortable in my own home.
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    WELL! Let's be honest. "I'm shy, I'm just not comfortable with it yet". Meanwhile he pours on the gifts. Theoretically there is a point where we all would meet up, right? After falling madly in internet love (LOL) or maybe to pick up that one gift worth meeting over.

    There is the POSSIBILITY so just let him keep buying while you play the "I'm just not sure yet" game

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    Get as much as you can without meeting him first. While doing so, try to research him. Find out his full name, ask what cities he's lived in, maybe even ask him to scan in his ID & cam with him to make sure its actually him, try to find out where he works. Then VERIFY everything. Run background checks on him, call the office as a client & ask to speak with him, etc. Doing this doesn't mean he's 100% safe, but if you need to eventually meet him at least you'll know who you are with. If it gets to the point that you need to meet him - have him fly to you... & he needs to arrange for his own hotel. You can meet him in public places, do not pick him up, possibly take a friend, or have someone watching in on you from a distance until you are comfortable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by nikki-chan View Post

    btw he found me in a transgender dating site if that changes anything
    Well, he found you on a dating site so what did you expect?

    Dating sites are for actually meeting! It is not a cam site. I honestly think you are taking advantage of this guy.

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    All the gifts that I have received on Amazon include the buyer's name and address. The only advice without getting all up in your shit I am going to give you is: ADD MORE AWESOME THINGS TO YOUR WISHLIST!

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    lead him on. then cut him off!

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    If he found you on a transgender dating site, then I'm sure he believes you want to meet people, since it is after all a dating site...

    I think you should tell him you're not interested in meeting anyone outside of the interwebs, but don't be harsh about it. Just explain... and try not to use dating sites anymore if you dont want to meet people (or if he wasn't your "cup of tea", try not to communicate with guys like him!)

    best of luck, hope it all goes well ^_^

    and dont sweat it!

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    Milk him for every single thing that you can get out of him then chuck him. I seriously have NO LOVE for men right now.

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    i think since he met you on a dating site he assumed a meet would take place eventually. If you're not comfy- for ANY reason- DO NOT GO. Your safety is 10000% more important than the possiblity of not getting more gifts or scaring him off by saying no.

    There is a reason you are nervous/hesitant to not meet this dude, listen to your gut.

    In the meantime, if he's willing to buy you stuff, then by all means let him buy you stuff! It's his deal to purchase, you aren't bound to him by any means by receiving those gifts =)

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    It's not a vanilla dating site- it's an alternative dating site. Completely different dynamic, in my opinion.

    If someone only wants to date me because I have a penis, there's the chance that I only want to talk to them because they have money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nikki-chan View Post
    see this is just the thing, my profile states that i am looking for women or transgirls only, not men, but still i get 82930239 messages a day from creepy guys. if i thought this guy wanted me for more than what i have down there then maybe i would consider meeting him quicker. sadly we are like novelty items to most of these people, guys only want us for one thing, a fullfillment of a fantasy... =/
    OK, well that is a different story entirely. If he gets his fantasy... you should get a cut:-)

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    Even if he DOESN'T get his fantasy you should get your cut because he's such a creeper and doesn't know how to read *eyeroll(

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    Quote Originally Posted by amazingjane View Post
    WELL! Let's be honest. "I'm shy, I'm just not comfortable with it yet". Meanwhile he pours on the gifts. Theoretically there is a point where we all would meet up, right? After falling madly in internet love (LOL) or maybe to pick up that one gift worth meeting over.

    There is the POSSIBILITY so just let him keep buying while you play the "I'm just not sure yet" game


    LOL. I did something like this recently. I was going to New York the same time one of my chatters was there, and he wanted to meet up and pay me for my time. I was all "Hmmm, that's tempting...I'm gonna have to think about this." LOL.

    Just be sure that you when "suddenly decide" that you're not meeting, you put your acting skills to work and be all like "I'm sorry, hun, but I'm still just not comfortable with it" with a cute lil pouty face and all. You don't want the guy thinking you've been playing him all along and then getting all pissy and giving you a bad rating and doing a chargeback (if the particular site has cb's). Guys don't like being played for a fool...haha. :

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    Quote Originally Posted by nikki-chan View Post
    i dont mind feeling like an object on a cam site but on a dating site, meh. i go there to find someone that appreciates me as a girl not a toy.

    I feel ya on that one. I had been on Match.com for the purpose of finding love...not a fuck buddy. If I just wanted a quick fuck, I'd text my friend Kyle.

    On Match.com I was so happy when I met this sexy Science teacher from Delaware, but it became clear to me after a while that he wasn't about to pursue a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with a Marylander...especially when he'd occasionally bitch about the drive from Delaware from Maryland (Um, you've driven farther than that to go watch the game at your friend's house, but whatever...). And all he did was go on and on about how much he loved my sexy brown ass...lol.

    It wouldn't have lasted anyway...dude didn't wash his hands after he pissed. That's one of my biggest pet peeves...people who have the nerve to walk right out the bathroom after they pee...
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    Quote Originally Posted by nikki-chan View Post
    ewww!


    That's what I said!
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post

    It wouldn't have lasted anyway...dude didn't wash his hands after he pissed. That's one of my biggest pet peeves...people who have the nerve to walk right out the bathroom after they pee...

    sorry but i just LOL'D at that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by amberluv View Post
    sorry but i just LOL'D at that.



    Hehe.

    It's a shame when a guy is so hot, and then you learn something like this about him...damn!
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    Hehe.

    It's a shame when a guy is so hot, and then you learn something like this about him...damn!
    if he was extremely hot.... try to train him to wash his hands LOL i think peeing and not washing your hands is gross BUT if it was colin farrell, you damn right im gonna help him learn!

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    Quote Originally Posted by amberluv View Post
    i think peeing and not washing your hands is gross



    Me too.

    My sis' boyfriend does that shit (she said he "doesn't believe in hand-washing"...he just uses hand sanitizer...wtf?), but the last straw was the other day when he came into the kitchen putting his nasty hands all over my son's Frosted Flakes (I JUST bought them, and this dude goes and opens up the box and digs in) and putting his hands all over our utensils, bowls, and food in our fridge. Oh, hell no.....
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