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    Crossfingers Oh shit... It's crunchtime!

    I am finally ready to audition for a dancer position. I was supposed to audition on Friday, but that didn't work out because the state of Minnesota "lost" my damn ID for two MONTHS. Ha! Saturday afternoon, I got my new ID in the mail.

    Anyway, I'm going to audition tomorrow afternoon... Nerves are all over the place, but I feel well prepared. The funny thing is that I'm not nevous about having to audition, or even being nearly naked in front of strangers, I'm more nervous about not making much/any money as times are HARD in my household.

    Wish me luck!
    "...No bullshit, she had one eye. She used to go to VIP with custies and be in there for HOURS... All with one eye!" -Veteran stripper: Shawna

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    Default Re: Oh shit... It's crunchtime!

    goodluck!

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    Default Re: Oh shit... It's crunchtime!

    When I first started dancing (well... I did private shows via intercom) I made a little journal with tons of lines from Hustle Hut or whatever I thought of. I made different categories, like "dirty talk", "lines to close a sale", "coversation openers", etc. as well as a list of things to remind myself of (Smile!, Always Be Closing, nod head "yes" when asking to go to VIP/upgrade toys).

    That way when I felt bad about not talking to a customer well or whatever, I could take a break, read my journal, and feel completely fresh with some new lines I wanted to try out.


    Good luck! Hustle hard!
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    Sometimes when you are first learning its good to just go into the club & work as long as you can, just so that you know at the end of the shift you'll be walking out with something decent.
    Don't you ever sleep?
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    Good luck today! In my area, December (especially before Christmas) is pretty good money, I guess everyone is feeling generous and wanting to spoil themselves for the holidays, so hopefully that's the same in your area as well.

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    Where do you work Shanna? The holidays (days before christmas) are SLOW where I am. I worked 7.5 hours last night and barely left with 300 dollars.

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    Goodluck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by XAnastasiaX View Post
    Where do you work Shanna? The holidays (days before christmas) are SLOW where I am. I worked 7.5 hours last night and barely left with 300 dollars.
    I'm in Ottawa, Canada and I've been making really good money on 5 hour day shifts lately (apart from one Tuesday where the weather just went to shit). I hear from other girls around town that December is busy and January and February get pretty slow, but I hear that in Toronto December is pretty slow as well. Yay regional differences!

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    ^ Boo for regional differences! (*is in Tdot).

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    Well, I auditioned and got a big, fat "we'll pass." Too angry to share details. BBL
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    Default Re: Oh shit... It's crunchtime!

    ouch. What happened? Is it something you can either work on or fix?

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    Aw, I'm sorry to hear that! Are there any other clubs in your area that you can audition at?

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    Default Re: Oh shit... It's crunchtime!

    Yeah what happened?

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    Default Re: Oh shit... It's crunchtime!

    I've finally cooled down. I think i might have to wait a while on dancing.

    So, I auditioned. I talked to the female bartender who schooled me on the ropes of the club, gave me an application and told me to get ready. The club was nearly empty, Save for about 2 customers who were busy with dancers. This made me nervous, as I really had hoped there would be a few more custies as custies = money.

    While getting dressed, i had the opportunity to talk to all of the dancers working there. They were all very nice, however, I'll never know what their motive was. Anywho, I got on stage, where my nerves about not having ANYONE watch me (because customers watching me = potential tips) went into full gear. So I danced around stage looking all "new" and awkward, until a custie came up to the tip rail. In an instant i went from being awkward to sex kitten and even managed to talk said custie into a private dance! (I wasn't even hired yet!)

    Here's where a potential probem showed up: custy asks if he can touch my bottom. In a temporary moment of insanity (or was it self-sabotage IDK) I wiggle my bottom in custies face and he GRABS MY ASS. I finish my set and walk off stage 5 dollars richer and ready to rock this custies world and collect my cash. When I'm stopped by the owner/manager who hands me back my ID and says "We'll pass."



    Too disappointed to ask why, I tell him "i'll be back in 6 months." and sulk into the dressing room. That was the extent of our convo.

    I'm not sure what went wrong. I feel like there are so many reasons that could have caused me to not get hired. Here's a nice list:

    1. I'm larger than most of the dancers. Not in height, but my ASS is a size 16.
    2. Read my other post about my body. ( I'm fxcking done with retail)
    3. The owner/manager guy, whom i suspect was watching me in his office the ENTIRE time on closed circuit TV, just was not feeling me.
    4. I let that customer touch me. This would not have been an issue if the contract hadn't been so clear about not letting customers touch you.
    5. My"look" wouldn't sell (Bullshit. I had a customer ready for a dance from me!) And I'll be damned if my ass aint a money maker on its own.

    I'm still playing with the idea of going back to audition again, but what's the point. I already got a no.


    The other club i went to audition at was a disaster. It was two days before christmas, I was broke and desperate and i happened to show upto my audition late because traffic was a bitch because it was snowing heavily here AGAIN. Finally, I get there, but I took too long to get ready and wasnt able to audition, then I had a meltdown in the dressing room, and was too mortified to do anything else but leave. I'd like to go back to this club too, but i'm too embarassed and i'm not totally sure if my look will sell there.

    There are still two other clubs that i'd like to check out, however one of them is closed due to construction, and the other one is NUDE. (AhHa. Not too sure about going nude.)

    Argh I'm so discouraged!!!. I think once i get my damn computer setup together (i had to sell my beautiful monster of an iMac to pay bills.) I'm gonna give camming a shot.

    Sorry it's so long. What do you ladies think?
    Any and all kind words are appreciated.
    "...No bullshit, she had one eye. She used to go to VIP with custies and be in there for HOURS... All with one eye!" -Veteran stripper: Shawna

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    Ugh wtf. That makes me mad that they didn't even tell you why.. I guess ever club has its rules but if you were new, they could have just given you a warning about the touching :/ they shouldn't have expected you to remember everything.. god what jerks!

    I would definitely try the other club and see how it works out. To me it seems like it was just the management that was rude. I doubt there's anything wrong with your looks. Good luck girl<3
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    I love big booties! I would try the other club again! Go in there half ready like makeup and hair done and change clothes and dont let the customer touch you! Also see if you can watch someone go on before you.
    I have faith in you my friend!!

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    Blackbetty - don't give up! You'll get hired, just keep working at it.

    Looking at the potential list of reasons why you weren't hired, I'd say the most likely reasons are either 3 or 4. If the club is serious about not letting custies touch you, then it might have irked the management that as a new girl you were so brazen on stage. I get that you were nervous, but he might have just assumed that you lacked regard for the rules. The other possibility was that he just wasn't feeling you; could be due to anything. Your size, race, hair, the time of day you came in, something stupid and random.

    Chalk it up to experience and don't give up looking for a good club.

    Honestly, I'd recommended a nude club because theres usually more potential for big money. After a day or two the nude-ness really doesn't phase you.

    Keep trying love. Good luck to you!

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    ^^^ I agree!
    I believe if you know what it maybe that you can change it and try it again in a couple weeks. If it was your body, go exercise and do some crunches. You dont have to be perfect but you also dont want to be sloppy. If it was your hair, get a wig lol no really aint nothing wrong with a little weave and its really simple to do on your own. Plenty of videos on youtube about it. I would just go back and maybe ask what went wrong or chalk it up and go to the other club. So what you were late. Next time be ready to go when you get in there and that wont be a problem!
    Like I said before I have faith in you!
    Know go get that big booty in another club and make your money!

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