have ay of you tried to get back with a boyfriend after being fresh out of a break up? how did it turn out?



have ay of you tried to get back with a boyfriend after being fresh out of a break up? how did it turn out?
nope. they're ex's for a reason.
Yes and no- depends on if i viewed the relationship worth my time.




It depends on why you broke up and what your motivation is. If you just feel really lonely and are having a hard time adjusting to not being with someone, I would not call. If you truly miss the person and think the relationship could work, then consider it.
Regardless I think it is important to take time for yourself to reflect after a breakup before you make any rash decisions.
Not once the relationship was seriously over with. When it's the on-again, off-again shit, sure. My ex and I lived together for a year and a half, and during that year and a half he dumped me three times. We got back together about a month after each breakup, except for the last one. I started dating someone else, he got super abusive, and when my lease was up I moved back with my parents. He phone-stalked me for over a year after that one.





My exes always pull a Mr Big.... they come sniffing around when I'm happy
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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^^^ Exactly. I've said "I'm sorry" about things... looking back they were things I shouldn't have even been sorry for. However, I've never asked to be taken back or tried to mend things so much with the intent that he'd want me back. Regardless, they usually call/e-mail/text... even if it's years later. Sigh...![]()
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My ex fiance is the goth version of Mr Big....
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





Nope but have had guys pull this on me. I've had guys break up with me (or I broke up with them) then months, even YEARS later they wanted me back. One ex I consider getting back with (he's a great guy) and another I took back when I shouldn't, (we ended up breaking up forever not long after). The others I said "you blew your chance" when they wanted me back. One guy who was a con artist actually wanted to date again. I told him I would consider if he gave me back everything he stole (including money) but of course this didn't work. I would never go back with him at all, just wanted to see if he would. Nope, more than likely thought he could scam me again.
One ex we broke up mainly due to distance, three years later he came to my house, we spent the day together shopping, then couldn't understand why I didn't want to go back (mainly because he lived 6 hours away). Nice guy, but realized I didn't want to be with him. So through the years he'd periodically contact me and try to persuade him. So last year, 20 YEARS after dating, he found my email online and wanted to come visit me and "renew our love". I told him my "husband" wouldn't appreciate this. The husband is of course fake, but I knew if I said I was still single he would have showed up at my door unexpectedly, then be upset because I didn't want to reconnect with him.




Me and boy broke up, i lived four hours away so once i was home and he left my house texted to say thank you for bringing me, have a safe drive home. He rang me next day to see if i was ok, i didnt answer, went and had a cigarette, called him back, 5 min chat, went for a sunbed.
Next day he rang me and asked me to take him back, i did, and two weeks on im still getting there. I always thought exes were exes for a reason (and he has been a giant knobhead to me in the past) but im stupid and believe that everyone deserves a second chance. This is well and truly his last chance and if he doesnt make me happy then im scooting for sure.
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There's only one ex I would ever take back if he asked... but it would be under the condition that we never ever lived together again. Totally adore him... but he's a horrible roommate since he won't lift his finger to do a thing around the house & always shafted me on paying for things involved the house.
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