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    Alright I have a regular who is nearing his breaking point, which I understand you can only be teased so much. However he still expects me to talk to him!? I have never once led him to believe at some point I would take him home so if he's done spending on me can I just tell him to move on to stop wasting my time? Also how do you girls handle guys that get creepy? For example I had a custy stand outside the vip while I was doing dances and tried to get dancers to see if I was in there. Other than make sure the guy didn't try and go in there the bouncer did nothing. So how do other dancers handle these sticky situations?

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    When he is wasting your time tell him "I need to get back to work, have to pay the bill you know." smile & leave.

    As for the creepy fellow, he may have been looking for you because he wanted a dance or to leave. If you see him again, inform the manager & bouncer of what happened the last time. Then ask them to keep an eye on him, & to intervene if he starts loitering in the lap dance area.
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    ^ Agreed. Saying you need to "get back to work" makes it seem like you enjoy talking to him and see it as a break (which is a pretty nice way of ditching him and leaves the door open for future paid visits) but reminds him that your time is money. If he keeps pestering you and isn't forking over any cash, don't feel bad about just walking away. You don't owe him anything just because he'd regularly buy dances from you at one point.

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    If the staff is cool you could ask the manager/dj/bartender/etc to intervene if they see him giving you a hard time and hounding you to "talk" everytime you are nearby they could run, grab you and say that someone is requesting you, be it customer or manager, etc. and if he has a problem, he can bring it up with the manager "


    if he is still there when you come back, you could always say that he is getting you in trouble, so he either needs to bring you to VIP/get dances/etc, or you have to move on because the manager is pissed off at you

    when my regular was near his breaking point (he got upset we wouldnt take and threw some chairs away from the stage), i brought him to VIP and sat there with my arms crossed, and didnt move or talk b/c i was "so hurt that you would treat me like this".....yes it got our normal VIP extended to double the time, but after that, it was over and he started stalking another girl.

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