A few years back I met a dancer in a club. We had quite some things in common. After a while we decided to have a drink somewhere in town. From there on a great friendship developed IMO. No sexual intentions, no sexual inuedo, no indications at all. We are both not touchy-feely people. We just enjoy hanging together. When we go out, she always insists on paying her part or sometimes she even treats. We watched many movies on the couch until late at night.
One day I was at the mall. She called and asked since I was there to buy her something. I would get the money back when I would come to her home. I bought it and went to her house. It appeared she didn't have the cash and spent it on her way home. Normally no biggie at all. Thing is, I got angry and showed it to her. I feel really bad about this, as she completely didn't deserve it! I realized that I wouldn't react to any other person in this way. I realized that because she is a stripper it is always somewhere hidden in the back of my mind that her profession is to make money (or hustling) from guys and therefore couldn't trust her completely, there is always this caution because of what she does for a living. I know, its completely not fair towards her. All is fine now, but it keeps bothering me.
Do other dancers also notice that other people and guys especially trust them less because of their job? Would guys ever be able to completely trust a dancer?



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