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    Question Please take a quick look, I could use some help

    ok I am trying to delete all the info I can about my online persona and the websites have takin them off but when you google it keeps coming up. I have tried looking up people to hire to delete this info but I dont want to pay $$$$ but I am willing to pay someone but I would like to do it myself so I know its done right. If yall have any idea I would appreiate that.

    Also the reason I am doing this is one, I havent done any type of work like this in forever so I want it off, and I am going to court (child custody) soon and I think their father has seen some of the stuff on the net and I wouldnt like him to be able to have concrete evidence. so what would you say in defense if you advertised as an escort? I am an excellent mom and my kid has no idea about any of that, and neither does most of my friends and I would like to keep it that way but If it has to come out then It has too, I talked to a lawyer and I told her that I was a stripper before but I didnt have the guts to tell her about this and it really worrys me, bc most people associate sex work with drugs and other bad things, but I have never done anything like that.
    So if it was you and your children's father brought that up what would you do, or say? Thanks yall I really appreiate it.


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    Default Re: Please take a quick look, I could use some help

    Only a small note: The internet "caches" alot of information and images. So you can never truely delete yourself from it. If someone really realy wants to find evidence and they are good at it then they will eventually find it.

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    Default Re: Please take a quick look, I could use some help

    I would talk to a lawyer and tell them everything, honestly if it were me. They are supposed to be on your side, not his.

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    Default Re: Please take a quick look, I could use some help

    ok, thats what I thought that you cant delete things- Im gonna try, it would just make me feel better.

    I am planning on telling my lawyer but I wonder what would you say if that was you and they question you about it?


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    Default Re: Please take a quick look, I could use some help

    ....You just tell them the truth. That's their job, to sit there, ask only the pertinent questions, and figure out how to make you more credible than your ex.

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    Default Re: Please take a quick look, I could use some help

    TELL THE TRUTH....if not, it wil bite you in the ass.

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    Default Re: Please take a quick look, I could use some help

    Quote Originally Posted by babybambi08 View Post
    ok, thats what I thought that you cant delete things- Im gonna try, it would just make me feel better.

    I am planning on telling my lawyer but I wonder what would you say if that was you and they question you about it?
    Honestly? I would be embarassed to tell my lawyer that I was an escort, honestly.

    But, then I would try to remember that they deal with all types of characters. Lawyers deal with murderers, child molesters, woman beaters, thieves and so on. I doubt the lawyer will even bat an eye if you tell him what you use to do. If you don't tell him then he can not help you. Just remember that. You will be paying him/her to win your case. They will do what they can to win. They don't care if you were an escort. They care about the checks you will be signing over. Just remember that, and hold your head up high.

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    Default Re: Please take a quick look, I could use some help

    think about it!

    as an escort... havent you "heard it all, nothing shocks you?"

    so have lawyers.

    Make sure you dont seem embarrased to say you are. Be assertive.

    in telling my freinds im a cam girl, I am blunt, assertive, and dont bat an eyelash. I just show them its not up for discussion, but hey this is what i do...respect it or check it type of thing...ya know?

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    Default Re: Please take a quick look, I could use some help

    It's much better to tell your lawyer NOW that you're an escort, rather than for it to come up in court because your ex has a screenshot of an ad you posted or something. You don't have to shout it off rooftops, but I think it's a crucial piece of information, especially since there's evidence of it online. It'd be really bad if your lawyer was blindsided by this, and they'd be able to come up with a stronger counter-argument if it does come up having prior knowledge. Just bring it up matter of fact: don't apologize for it or anything, and say you had information posted online that you got rid of to the best of your knowledge. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Please take a quick look, I could use some help

    definately tell your lawyer!!! they hate being in court and all of a sudden the other side aka ur ex brings up shit like that and they are standing there with out a rebuttle or anything to really say but i need to have a recess.. at least if u tell them they can find ways around it, or present it in a way if ur ex tries to slam u with it, the lawyer can come back w stuff...aka, how did u find the info, were u harassing her?stalking her? up on child support $ so she wouldn't have to do it ect...
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    Default Re: Please take a quick look, I could use some help

    Hello Bambi,

    Contact the escort malls and tell them your situation they will delete it.
    I know

    xoxo

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