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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Dating back a couple of years, my estranged fav has a very nice laptop and an expensive flat screen TV along with many other things so it does happen even to Junkies who should know better. The Great Recession has taught me to be more hard hearted and frugal but I have to admit I enjoyed the days when I could spend thousands like it was nothing.

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    I hear ya. If I hadn't already been tied down (er...I mean happily married) during those early years of clubbing, I could easily see myself spending some serious money on wine, women, & song (& frivolous gifts). But for junkies like us, it would have been for fun & (hopefully) sex, not desperate loneliness like I see from some of my guy buddies today. It's really sad to see some of them spend wrecklessly trying to buy "love" and get taken advantage of by women who don't give a rat's ass about them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rookie2010 View Post
    And if you could, would you still be? & why?
    I find that very intriguing.
    I know you asked FBR but this is pretty much a no-brainer. Because it's fun!

    Regardless of the topic at hand it's fun to give hot women presents! Perspective is what's important when it comes to anything that happens in a strip club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I know you asked FBR but this is pretty much a no-brainer. Because it's fun!

    Regardless of the topic at hand it's fun to give hot women presents! Perspective is what's important when it comes to anything that happens in a strip club.
    I respect your opinion, but personally i have more fun giving myself expensive presents, sure that might include buying lap-dances for myself and having a dancer getting money in the process..but...to give away expensive things for free? it's more fun to actually have a true relationship with a woman and give her presents, than to give away presents frivelously (sp?) to one who is pretending to care for you, to me if i did that i would just feel pretty dumb and used, i doubt i could even phathom (sp? again) doing that, again just my personal opinion, im sure others will have different ones, including you

    But hey, To each his own... We all decide what is fun for ourselfs and do so accordingly

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    I like spending money on friends and even quasi-friends (strippers). I had an ATF for 4 years and I while I wouldn't call her a good friend (I have a very small circle of good friends), we were friendly, some days friendlier than others.
    She retired and moved from Vegas back to her home state and took a lousy job in retail. I would randomly send her gift cards on wierd holidays like Flag day or Admin Asst Day even though I doubted I would ever see her again. She never led me on or tried to hustle me in any way and I didn't mind rewarding that behavior, because she provided exactly the type of SC experience I like.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rookie2010 View Post
    I respect your opinion, but personally i have more fun giving myself expensive presents, sure that might include buying lap-dances for myself and having a dancer getting money in the process..but...to give away expensive things for free? it's more fun to actually have a true relationship with a woman and give her presents, than to give away presents frivelously (sp?) to one who is pretending to care for you,
    Well, who said anything about wanting to be in a "relationship"? Ewwwwww!
    I did that for 30 years and I ain't doin' it again lol!

    I don't think a person who likes giving gifts to people is ever going to change the mind of someone who doesn't so I won't bother to try. You should not however assume that the giver gets nothing in return. Relationships between a man and a woman take on many different forms. While I don't expect a dancer in a strip club to care about me as anything other than a good customer you should understand that it is possible for a dancer and a customer to actually like each other. Again, it's a fine line and the downfall for most guys is unrealistic expectations.

    I just got back from a club a few hours ago and I am currently transferring my ID, credit cards and cash from my old beat-up wallet to a brand new one that one of my favs gave me for Christmas, along with a very nice bottle of Brazilian cologne that she had her mother send to the US along with some gifts for other friends of hers. Now, is she my GF? No, does she like me? As a customer and a nice guy? Sure! Is she going to have sex with me? Doubtful but that's not what I'm looking for. I'm just a good customer and a nice guy who doesn't make her feel cheap or dirty when I visit her at the club the way a lot of other guys do. We have a very friendly albeit business relationship inside the club. I would visit her a few times a month and spend money on her regardless of whether she gave me a Christmas or birthday gift. So did she waste her money on me when she could have bought something for herself? I don't think so and obviously she doesn't either. The primary focus of our relationship is that I give her money and she dances for me. We are both very happy with that business deal. The small gifts are just a simple token of appreciation.

    The reason for this boring aside? Simply to try and help make the point that everything that happens between a dancer and a customer doesn't have to revolve around the money train though that certainly needs to be the primary focus. Being nice to a girl just for the sake of being nice is not a waste of time or money in my book. I would say "that's just me" but judging from the number of guys walking around the club with gift bags today it's clearly not.
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    Yoda said it all, no need for me to extrapolate.

    I have seen the "other" kind though, and it's kinds sad - but only kind of. I can't feel bad for a guy who tanks his business spending money on a girl that treats him like shit. That's just stupid. But I watched it happen, lol. Hell, once she called him and asked for $20k just to see if he'd give it to her. He said he didn't have it. Sh said she thought he loved her and that if he didn't give it to her she'd never talk to her again. She had within 2 hours. They've never had sex & he doesn't even know where her real house is, only meet & public where she usually humiliates him and leaves early, and this went on FOR OVER 2 YEARS. During this time he gave hoer a total of over $250k in cash, an Escalade, and countless gifts, dinners, etc. Now he's broke, and still calls her, and she hangs up on him. Frankly, he deserves it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rookie2010 View Post
    Don't you wish though that, that laptop and expensive flat screen TV and many other things were in your house right now and not hers?
    Not saying that it's wrong or judging or anything like that but you say you enjoyed it in a way that i'm seeing it as you wish you could continue to do so? Is this a correct assumption or am i wrong here? Just wondering..trying to learn from others experiences.
    And if you could, would you still be? & why?
    I find that very intriguing.
    A gift given should not be regretted and I don't regret a single one. I was just waxing philosophical about how enjoyable it was to be able to spend so freely because I had the means to do so at that time. I was already getting the maximum mileage available at the time so the extra gifts didn't get me anything more. I just wanted to do it.

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    Or maybe men buy us certain gifts so we can take pics of ourselves in said gifts and send it to them (private joke for someone on here)

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    I must have been a terrible stripper because I never got many presents from customers. I think I've been given lingerie and perhaps flowers before but not much else. To be honest I am glad about this because I tried not to lead anyone on. Besides, I only wanted the money anyway. I did work with a dancer who always played the poor me card and got a lot of presents.

    However, my guy friends (not club guys in most cases) have always been generous thinking that if they spent a lot I'd want to date them. Rarely worked that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slin View Post
    I can understand how a dancer can easily work a customer good enough so he drops all his money on her in either lap dances or the CR. Hell it's happened to me.

    What I can't understand, is how a dancer can get certain guys to buy them gifts; jewelry, dinners, paying off their bills; etc. unless they were ho-ing themselves out on the side. What exactly is going to make a guy to want do all this stuff, especially when there's no reward (ie. sex or a relationship)?
    It's pretty much the hope that there will be a reward.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    Don't need to be a stripper for this one ya'll. I have several male friends that have bought me stuff over the years. They know me from other places and have never seen me in the strip club once. Some people are more generous than others. Loneliness plays a factor. But the most obvious thing is that hope that the gift will facilitate some kind of romance.
    Now you see, I am a practical man.

    If I want to pay to play I'd rather know right up front what it is going to cost me. If I find it a fair exchange I'll jump.

    However, where true romance is concerned I know very well that no amount of "gift giving" actually affects the outcome. There is either chemistry or there isn't.

    Knowledge of the above has spared me no shortage of headaches.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Dating back a couple of years, my estranged fav has a very nice laptop and an expensive flat screen TV along with many other things so it does happen even to Junkies who should know better. The Great Recession has taught me to be more hard hearted and frugal but I have to admit I enjoyed the days when I could spend thousands like it was nothing.

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    Not knocking you or anyone else who spent BIG money in strip-clubs.

    I've never been truly able to do that though, even when I was getting something in return for it.

    Must be my roots. I am always thinking that there is something else I could be doing with that kind of money.

    For instance, if I had a choice of spending $1500 at Hustler, even if in doing so I was guaranteed first class nookie [pardon ladies, I know you don't fancy the notion but it is necessary to make my point] or spending a three day weekend in, oh - pick a fun place, I'd rather take the trip.

    Just seems a far more practical use of the money?

    I've done that Hustler/PEC thing a few times, always felt bizarre about it afterwards even though I could readily afford it when I did it.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    It's really sad to see some of them spend wrecklessly trying to buy "love" and get taken advantage of by women who don't give a rat's ass about them.
    Up to a point I agree.

    Past that point there is a place where personal responsibility kicks in. Believe me, I hate a grifter as much as the next fellow but you can't discount that in order to become a victim of a flim-flam you have to be that someone who wants something for other than what is usually required to achieve it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slin View Post
    What exactly is going to make a guy to want do all this stuff, especially when there's no reward (ie. sex or a relationship)?
    I am strictly friends with a guy I met through a mutual friend. He buys me things all the time & I have no idea why...I dont lead him on. Hes aware Im married and nothing sexual will ever come of our friendship...but still he spends! If I try not accepting his gifts he gets offended. So Ive learned to just say thank you. Hes also 15 years older than me so Im sure that has something to do with it. Hes told me countless times he just likes my company and "seeing my pretty face". I think its mostly that hes lonely.

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    I have a good friend who's well into his 70's and quite wealthy. He owns homes in3 different states including one in Vegas. He is happily married and fairly religious. He has lots of friends down here. He also never fails to call me, out of everyone he knows, whenever he's in town alone. He always asks how the girls are doing, and always invites us to a fancy restaurant for dinner. Sometimes he goes with just me for the company and we talk racing and occasionally business, but he always always asks about the girls, how are they doing, and jokes about going to the club to see them (never does, has never set foot in a SC and probably never will).

    I would not be the slightest bit surprised if as time passes little gifts start showing up for them from him. And little by his standards might be a car, lol. He has no intentions toward them at all - he loves his wife and sticks to his morals. But he loves hanging out with them and always wants to know that they're happy.


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    If one needs to forego something else in order to give a gift to a dancer, then he should scale it back or not give one. Obviously nobody is under any obligation to give a gift to a dancer. However, if giving a modest gift to a dancer will result in financial hardship then one should consider whether he should really even be spending money in the clubs at all.

    Until this year most of my clubbing activities occurred on the road and I never really cultivated a local fav, but did so this year. I've spent a lot of time with her, both inside and outside of the club, and thought it would be fun to give her something nice, which ended up being a gift card to her favorite makeup store. Now I did not go hog wild - and never will on a gift to a dancer - but did give her enough on the card to allow her to pick up a few items in what is a fairly expensive place (who the hell pays $50 for LIPSTICK?). But it was a win-win as I was able to do something nice for her and she received something that she will use.

    Now I must admit that before this year I probably would not have understood the concept of giving a gift to a stripper, but my perspective changed when I started interacting with, and getting to know, her more over time. Beyond the simple dancer/customer relationship there are human elements involved, but of course one can never lose sight of the reality of it and must exercise restraint in this as well as anything else involving a dancer.
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    Men like to give gifts to nice girls. It's something of an instinct. At some level they probably always hope for something in return, but there is just something about a nice girl which makes a man want to give her nice things or help her. They are not losers or manipulators, I've seen all kinds of men do it and I've felt the same impulse myself. It can influence a customer to spend more in the club on a stripper he likes. But it can manifest in forms which are unhealthy, like a guy who frequently buys things for a girl he likes but who does not reciprocate the feeling.
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    What I can't understand, is how a dancer can get certain guys to buy them gifts; jewelry, dinners, paying off their bills; etc.
    Some girls are just in the know.

    No ho'ing involved and it really has nothing to do with stripping either.




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    I have given (and received) a fair amount of gifts over the years to various dancers but never any of very significant value (<$100 afair), but I do have an interesting story of a girl trying to get something larger out of me..... I met a dancer in a club 75 miles from Providence who actually lived in RI like me. She suggested we meet up for dinner some time here in town since we both lived here and I said sure. We met for dinner the week before Christmas at a nice restaurant in the Prov Place Mall. After dinner she asked me if I'd care to buy her a little something for Christmas. I said we can go take a look. She made a beeline to the Coach purses in Nordstrom's which were in the $400+ range. I politely informed her I wasn't interested in spending $400+ on a purse at that point in time. The "date" ended shortly thereafter. In retrospect it might have been a P4P scenario but I was still very new to the whole SC business at the time. We subsequently laughed about it a couple of months later and just agreed we weren't on the same page that night.
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    So - time to address the flipside.

    All too common scenario (and this example happens to be true): Top earning dancer averaging roughly $2k/night (this was before the economy got really bad, though she pulls 4 figures more than half the time) is dating one of "those" guys. Abusive piece of shit that treats her like dirt. Over the course of 2 years, she buys him a brand new car in cash - pays for all of his school - buys him untold thousands worth of designer clothes - electronics - furniture - pays for every night out and they don't o to Taco Bell if you get my drift - EVERYTHING. In this time, this guy always has pocket money, is always gambling, and never has a job "because he's going to school".

    I have talked to this girl recently and determined that she could have retired by 23 if she would have toned down her lifestyle and not blown an estimated $200,000 on this one asshole.

    Not all of them make that kind of cash, but I see a LOT of dancers working to support their assholes, as the joke goes.

    MM & company have purchased me some nice things. And especially since the accident, they take a much more active role in paying bills and our nights out. But my TTD checks still pay most of the bills, I still treat them to things too, and I treat them like gold. I insist that they put money away, and I try to limit their shopping sprees for me or themselves.

    Why do so many of you ladies not require a similar level of reciprocation and respect?

    How do guys get girls to buy stuff for them? And why do so many of you let them get away with it?!

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    ^ I only buy things for people I love and I only love people who treat me with respect. Thats just me though, cant speak for all these other strippers that apparently have sponging boyfriends - even though Ive never known a single stripper friend of mine to be in this situation. I know a lot of the husbands and boyfriends because I actually hang out with the girls I work with and they usually are earning the same or more than their dancer counterpart, but maybe its a regional thing.

    As for gifts. I have received some small and some pretty large ones, but Ive never really done anything to ask for them. At least not consciously. Although I do point out things I like so if they do think this way they have some idea what I might be interested in. I dont really care though, its not necessary and I always assumed they did it because they made significant amounts of money (a lot more than $300K per year) and just wanted to show appreciation in a different way to make themselves stand out. I guess they were hoping something might happen in return. I will say I think ive only ever received gifts from customers who I did private dancing for or paid OTC dinners etc. So it could be their way of showing gratitude for allowing them to see me outside of the club and trusting them not to take advantage of that. I consider them "special" customers so I just assumed they were saying thanks. Every time it has happened to me though the guys make more money then I ever will dream of, so I dont think its a big deal to them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    She suggested we meet up for dinner some time here in town since we both lived here and I said sure. We met for dinner the week before Christmas at a nice restaurant in the Prov Place Mall. After dinner she asked me if I'd care to buy her a little something for Christmas. I said we can go take a look. She made a beeline to the Coach purses in Nordstrom's which were in the $400+ range. I politely informed her I wasn't interested in spending $400+ on a purse at that point in time.
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    Amost Jaded....what is TTD? I googled and can't come up with anything that makes sense. PM if its not something you want to disclose....

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    I know it's hard for some people to believe, but there are men and women who simply enjoy giving a gift to someone that they like.

    I've seen both sides of the spectrum. I've heard guys gripe that some bitch better bet taking it in the ass and swallowing his load if she expects so much as some cheap flowers and then I've seen guys who will give expensive jewelry to a stripper without ever asking her for any sexual favors or to meet them out of the club. They have the extra money AND they enjoy surprising a pretty girl with a nice gift. It's really not that big of a deal.

    If this is surprising to you, you should look up financial domination. I run a few phone lines for this and it basically consists of men paying me by the minute for me to scream at them and call them fat, stupid fucks who don't deserve the money they make so they need to give it to me. I had a guy last week who paid $20 for the pleasure of reading each email I sent him.

    The emails said things like "I bet you're a fag, cuz no woman would ever fuck you" and would include a picture of a penis or a man giving a blow job.

    So, if men will pay for that kind of thing, is it really so shocking that they might give a girl a present just to see her eyes light up?

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