This has been my experience as well. All of the husbands and boyfriends I've ever met had jobs and were not shitbags.
On the other hand, I did overhear some rumors about my own husband at a club I worked at. He altered his work schedule so that he could pick me up after work every night (didn't want me driving home tired because he knows how much I hate it). Some of the bouncers assumed that he must not work because he always picked me up and spread around that he was a bum. Eventually one of the girls asked me why I supported his sorry ass and she was shocked when I informed her that my husband brings home just as much money as I do AND his job provides our family with health insurance.
I think a lot of the dirtbag boyfriend theories come from men who are jealous that some other guy is tapping an ass they'd like to get inside.




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Let me know if you need a surgeon referral, I have some experience with this through loved ones. Again, get well soon.

It's a nice feeling to give! Sometimes we can be seen as people rather than just a stripper.


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