Okay, I pretty much just started like camming on the steady and already I've had to bitch slap a couple of man-boys this morning. I understand it's the nature of the business for these kats to come through, casting out demands and whatnots (like as soon as they come in, without a greeting or anything). After a few minutes of this, I went hard...I'm like, just 'cuz this is the norm, doesn't mean I've got to be some type of way about it that fails to be inauthentic to me. I don't play this commanding shit in my personal life, when I was in corporate America and I refuse to take it with this.
I understand this whole cam modeling gig to be about sexy chat on varying degrees. I don't think it automatically mean I just flash titties for free or first or at all. This is my room and I choose to attract customers that are coming to see me, not another cam girl (whatever that means...). I think every woman has her own style and I get mine is I'm cool with you when you're enjoying yourself, when you're requesting, when you're tipping, when you're taking me into private and watch me perform my show BUT when you come at me like I OWE you something, like I ought to be thankful that you dished out a few coins and therefore I should show and do all sorts of acts, I get to be like NOPE - No thank you, I decline and I'll block you if you keep coming at me like that.
I revamped how my profile reads on 2 sites. I've had cool experiences at AW, so I didn't make any changes there. The only way these kats are gonna know how to treat me and how I roll is that I show them. That's my responsibility for I understand they're not mind readers and some just have no absolute understanding of consideration. So now, my new thing is 'Oh, take off my shirt? Please read my profile.' 'Cuz I prefer that they read the profile that I took the time to compose so that they'll know what's up, instead of getting upset because I didn't get down like they wanted me to. Who goes to Jimmy Johns and orders chitterlings? I get it'll be what it be, but I'm willing to take responsibility for what I offer and how I be.
And you know what? After I made those changes, my morning transformed...The best I've had since I started doing this. It pays to be authentic. How dare I be any other way? I get because this occurred to me as so new or something. Anyway, pressing on...
I just had to vent that out. I love this forum
Happy Holidays!!!




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