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    Okay, I pretty much just started like camming on the steady and already I've had to bitch slap a couple of man-boys this morning. I understand it's the nature of the business for these kats to come through, casting out demands and whatnots (like as soon as they come in, without a greeting or anything). After a few minutes of this, I went hard...I'm like, just 'cuz this is the norm, doesn't mean I've got to be some type of way about it that fails to be inauthentic to me. I don't play this commanding shit in my personal life, when I was in corporate America and I refuse to take it with this.

    I understand this whole cam modeling gig to be about sexy chat on varying degrees. I don't think it automatically mean I just flash titties for free or first or at all. This is my room and I choose to attract customers that are coming to see me, not another cam girl (whatever that means...). I think every woman has her own style and I get mine is I'm cool with you when you're enjoying yourself, when you're requesting, when you're tipping, when you're taking me into private and watch me perform my show BUT when you come at me like I OWE you something, like I ought to be thankful that you dished out a few coins and therefore I should show and do all sorts of acts, I get to be like NOPE - No thank you, I decline and I'll block you if you keep coming at me like that.

    I revamped how my profile reads on 2 sites. I've had cool experiences at AW, so I didn't make any changes there. The only way these kats are gonna know how to treat me and how I roll is that I show them. That's my responsibility for I understand they're not mind readers and some just have no absolute understanding of consideration. So now, my new thing is 'Oh, take off my shirt? Please read my profile.' 'Cuz I prefer that they read the profile that I took the time to compose so that they'll know what's up, instead of getting upset because I didn't get down like they wanted me to. Who goes to Jimmy Johns and orders chitterlings? I get it'll be what it be, but I'm willing to take responsibility for what I offer and how I be.

    And you know what? After I made those changes, my morning transformed...The best I've had since I started doing this. It pays to be authentic. How dare I be any other way? I get because this occurred to me as so new or something. Anyway, pressing on...

    I just had to vent that out. I love this forum

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    Default Re: I Got Pissed, Then Fed Up

    So true... I get that the guys are paying us... but just let me do me lol. This one guy brought a private video and laid out what he wanted minute by minute... I tried to do it, but I didn't look or feel sexy because it just wasn't me... so I did it my way and he still loved it

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    Default Re: I Got Pissed, Then Fed Up

    Yeah just take the fantasy but put your spin on it.

    OP, I also feel we shouldn't feel that we HAVE to do free chat in order to be successful. We also don't need to "eat shit", in order to get a private show.
    At the end of the day I FEEL free chat benefits the site more than the girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CamWhore View Post
    At the end of the day I FEEL free chat benefits the site more than the girl.
    ditto on that!

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    Default Re: I Got Pissed, Then Fed Up

    Quote Originally Posted by CamWhore View Post
    Yeah just take the fantasy but put your spin on it.

    OP, I also feel we shouldn't feel that we HAVE to do free chat in order to be successful. We also don't need to "eat shit", in order to get a private show.
    At the end of the day I FEEL free chat benefits the site more than the girl.

    So i agree that you don't need to "eat shit" to get a private, but there is always going to be some sales involved to get it. You have to figure that all of the guys that get long privates and tip well, started off in free chat at some point. Granted they have differant views than a lot of the lurkers, they nonetheless started in a free room, so why not figure out a way to convert them. Free chat benefits everyone..... I think.

    Granted there are always going to be those that just sit in free chat and give you sh(t, but then there are those who are experiencing it for the first time. So why not do your best in free to try and land that regular without compormising your limits..... In the end I think it only makes money sense...

    PV

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