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    Atta boy Hef. Get all you can, while you can.

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    Ok, this is bizarre and let's be honest, he can get women because he's wealthy. I don't care when a celeb dates or marries a much younger woman, but then many average think they can too, and most can't.
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    This comes off as really kind of sad & pathetic.
    I mean really.....c'mon!
    What is he? Like 700 years old?
    It makes them BOTH look like jokes.

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    Holly must be steamed. She stuck it out for years with him while he called her the one true love of his life. She made it clear that she wanted to get married and he wouldnt do it

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    Didn't he have some awful saying about not marrying (dating?) anyone over 24?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    This comes off as really kind of sad & pathetic.
    I mean really.....c'mon!
    What is he? Like 700 years old?
    It makes them BOTH look like jokes.
    I know.. he knows he is getting to his prime time... I dont get why get married.. she must have some evil mind powers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    This comes off as really kind of sad & pathetic.
    I mean really.....c'mon!
    What is he? Like 700 years old?
    It makes them BOTH look like jokes.
    Absofuckinglutely.

    But I lost all respect for Hefner long, long ago, after reading a well-researched book about Hefner, the sexual revolution, wife-swapping, etc, written by Gay Talese, called Thy Neighbor's Wife, which exposed him for the fucking hypocrite he has always been.

    http://www.amazon.com/Thy-Neighbors-.../dp/0385006322 (only 3$ used)

    Not that Talese actively sought out from the beginning to discredit Hef, when he started the book--far from it, I think he admired Hef. Certainly at first he did. But you can't read about the way his much-vaunted 'sexual freedom' was freedom for himself alone, and never, ever any sexual freedom for any woman he was serious about, without wanting to vomit. The book is very old, written in 1981, so you can imagine that he's only gotten worse since then.

    Then I read several other accounts of what really was going down at the Mansion, the way no guys were ever allowed unless they were celebrities, no dates or boyfriends for any of the girls at the parties, the Linda Lovelace dog shows, etc., etc.

    They say Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. That goes for the power to dominate women sexually, as well. And I'm not talking about some geek pretending to be a dom and spanking an idiot he convinced to fuck him once in a while. I'm talking about the ridiculous, contrived, restrictive rules Hef has increasingly laid down on the women he is involved with, with no rules whatsoever going the other way.


    The entire nation has been buying into this myth of an enlightened, progressive champion of Sexual Freedom for 50 years, but for 50 years he's been devoid of any real respect for his SOs, and by extension for women in general.


    And the women who have been pretending to love him for the last 10 years or so? Come on, who the fuck with three functioning brain cells is going to believe they love a walking, talking mummy like Hef? Other than as a kind of relaxed grandpa who makes them come home early every night (or else), and they have to fuck periodically...
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    marriage doesn't 'count' for playmates as much as it once did ... just ask Anna Nicole Smith !

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    Quote Originally Posted by CKXXX View Post
    Holly must be steamed. She stuck it out for years with him while he called her the one true love of his life. She made it clear that she wanted to get married and he wouldnt do it
    That was my first thought too! I was under the impression he and Holly really cared for each other aside from the money. Oh well. I find this news disappointing. And that poor young woman who's going to marry him - she's going to get so much flack.

    I just don't get it.

    Why marry at this point in your life? I get the 'age ain't nuthin' but a number' bit, but this is sort of silly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    marriage doesn't 'count' for playmates as much as it once did ... just ask Anna Nicole Smith !


    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post

    Why marry at this point in your life? I get the 'age ain't nuthin' but a number' bit, but this is sort of silly.
    Yeah, it really is pushing the limit!
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    Were I 84, with the capacity to have gorgeous 24 year-old girls, I sure as hell wouldn't defile them with my decrepitude.

    They say Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. That goes for the power to dominate women sexually, as well. And I'm not talking about some geek pretending to be a dom and spanking an idiot he convinced to fuck him once in a while. I'm talking about the ridiculous, contrived, restrictive rules Hef has increasingly laid down on the women he is involved with, with no rules whatsoever going the other way.


    The entire nation has been buying into this myth of an enlightened, progressive champion of Sexual Freedom for 50 years, but for 50 years he's been devoid of any real respect for his SOs, and by extension for women in general.


    And the women who have been pretending to love him for the last 10 years or so? Come on, who the fuck with three functioning brain cells is going to believe they love a walking, talking mummy like Hef? Other than as a kind of relaxed grandpa who makes them come home early every night (or else), and they have to fuck periodically...
    Well said. It's a disturbing charade that no one on the outside believes to be true.

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    You know, CO, I really have to wonder--even at 84, if I could have hot beautiful centerfolds at my beck and call, could I resist?? How many men could??

    But still, even if I gave into temptation, I can't see making a big giant public display out of it, and expecting people to buy into the schlock.

    It's not so much that he's still apparently banging a bunch of bimbos (or trying to make us think he is) that's disturbing, and makes me think he has gone off the deep end a bit due to the asskissing over the years, it's the way he continues to play this role at his age. I really view this as a kind of mental aberration.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    Absofuckinglutely.

    But I lost all respect for Hefner long, long ago, after reading a well-researched book about Hefner, the sexual revolution, wife-swapping, etc, written by Gay Talese, called Thy Neighbor's Wife, which exposed him for the fucking hypocrite he has always been.

    (only 3$ used)

    Not that Talese actively sought out from the beginning to discredit Hef, when he started the book--far from it, I think he admired Hef. Certainly at first he did. But you can't read about the way his much-vaunted 'sexual freedom' was freedom for himself alone, and never, ever any sexual freedom for any woman he was serious about, without wanting to vomit. The book is very old, written in 1981, so you can imagine that he's only gotten worse since then.

    Then I read several other accounts of what really was going down at the Mansion, the way no guys were ever allowed unless they were celebrities, no dates or boyfriends for any of the girls at the parties, the Linda Lovelace dog shows, etc., etc.

    They say Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. That goes for the power to dominate women sexually, as well. And I'm not talking about some geek pretending to be a dom and spanking an idiot he convinced to fuck him once in a while. I'm talking about the ridiculous, contrived, restrictive rules Hef has increasingly laid down on the women he is involved with, with no rules whatsoever going the other way.


    The entire nation has been buying into this myth of an enlightened, progressive champion of Sexual Freedom for 50 years, but for 50 years he's been devoid of any real respect for his SOs, and by extension for women in general.


    And the women who have been pretending to love him for the last 10 years or so? Come on, who the fuck with three functioning brain cells is going to believe they love a walking, talking mummy like Hef? Other than as a kind of relaxed grandpa who makes them come home early every night (or else), and they have to fuck periodically...

    I've always thought when it came to nude magazines he had more respect than most. After all, Playboy was a far classier magazine than the others. However, I've heard a lot of what you mention and it changed that opinion. He dumped his first wife when he started Playboy because he wanted to have sex with other women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I've always thought when it came to nude magazines he had more respect than most. After all, Playboy was a far classier magazine than the others. However, I've heard a lot of what you mention and it changed that opinion. He dumped his first wife when he started Playboy because he wanted to have sex with other women.
    Yeah but get this--in the book by Talese he tells the story--Hef's first wife cheated on him. That's some hella way to get revenge, lol. 50 years of being the most famous playboy in history. Except maybe Khublai Khan "In Xanadu did Kubla Khan a stately pleasure dome decree..." Or maybe Ramesses II, who had about 150 kids, 200 wives I think, I need to look it up. I bet Hef has them beat for numbers, still.
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    His wife cheated on him first? That I didn't know. I had heard the story of how he cheated on his wife with one of the first Playmates (Janet Pilgrim I believe)and they eventually got a divorce. I had also heard of how his daughter actually disowned him for many years until she worked for Playboy. I can't remember the specifics of this though.

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    Personally.. I think THIS is sad. Why the hating ass comments? Let the man enjoy his life. If I were that 24 year old I would do it too. I would also talk his ass into NOT signing a prenump. Seriously .. she's just being smart. LOL!

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    Quote Originally Posted by islandgirlcoco View Post
    Personally.. I think THIS is sad. Why the hating ass comments? Let the man enjoy his life. If I were that 24 year old I would do it too. I would also talk his ass into NOT signing a prenump. Seriously .. she's just being smart. LOL!
    I dont think he would marry someone without a prenup hes not stupid and my first thought was wow holly must be pissed.

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    You know, CO, I really have to wonder--even at 84, if I could have hot beautiful centerfolds at my beck and call, could I resist?? How many men could??
    I have to say, as I gracefully enter middle age, I'm just not that into young girls--I still gravitate to the 27-35 age range, and I can't imagine a sixty-year gap being mutually arousing. Don't misunderstand--I absolutely love (and have loved) girls with Daddy issues, but sixty-years just pegs the wrongness meter in every way, for me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bexxx View Post
    I dont think he would marry someone without a prenup hes not stupid and my first thought was wow holly must be pissed.
    I know that I wouldn't either if I were him. I would still TRY to talk him out of it.

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    As was said, my first thoughts were of Holly. She was hoping to marry Hef and from what I have seen on the shows she would have been a much better choice than Crystal.

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    Publicity stunt or not, that looks fkn disgusting. Grandpa & grandchild

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    Quote Originally Posted by islandgirlcoco View Post
    Personally.. I think THIS is sad. Why the hating ass comments? Let the man enjoy his life.
    I don't hate him. Believe it or not, I feel sorry for him, he has become a pathetic figure, even if the masses still worship him. I would not want to be in his shoes right now, not for all his money and all his bimbos.

    What I hate is the hypocrisy. He has been pretending to champion Sexual Freedom (and gotten rich in the process) while keeping every SO he has had for the last 40 years or more in increasingly restrictive sexual confinement. You can say 'Well they chose to go along with it (be enslaved)', but enslaved is what they were. That to me is disgusting, and I can't possibly take him seriously because of it--as a man, or as the publisher of a supposedly progressive magazine.
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    'Well they chose to go along with it (be enslaved
    My dear, Look up the definition of slavery. Those women are not slaves. They know what they're getting into. They have brains to think for themselves. Money is the root of all their doing. No-one is going to them, putting a gun to their head and saying "You must be with hef, "You must have sex with hef".. nope noone. They know exactly what they're doing. I'm sure they don't feel like victims. Honestly? If I lived closer to Hefner and I had a chance, I'd try to get a Bentley out the deal and bounce... LOL. Just keeping it real mehn.

    Gross but I'd keep my eyes closed. LOL!

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    Quote Originally Posted by islandgirlcoco View Post
    My dear, Look up the definition of slavery. Those women are not slaves. They know what they're getting into. They have brains to think for themselves. Money is the root of all their doing. No-one is going to them, putting a gun to their head and saying "You must be with hef, "You must have sex with hef".. nope noone. They know exactly what they're doing. I'm sure they don't feel like victims. Honestly? If I lived closer to Hefner and I had a chance, I'd try to get a Bentley out the deal and bounce... LOL. Just keeping it real mehn.

    Gross but I'd keep my eyes closed. LOL!
    Ewww!



    I see your point.

    But what I'm looking at what all this is doing to the cause of sexual emancipation, though. Are young women and teenager girls going to look up to these women who are fucking a mummy and being restricted to Junior high type rules of existence to get ahead? What do they aspire to in life? Using their pussies or their brains? The ones who willingly enslave themselves (OK, submit to contrived rules and regulations) aren't using their brains--except to say yes I will take this money for letting a mummy fuck me and tell me what to do 24/7. That's what I see happening.

    Or are they going to try to emulate women who are fiercely independent, will make their own money and their own way, and will take no shit from any man alive? I know what kind of woman I want...
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