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    um. I'd actually really like to be a stripper but I'm really insecure about my boobs, they're sort of saggy and I need to dance to make some cash to get a lift. Help?

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    Default Re: wanna dance but insecure about my boobs

    Suck it up. There are all kinds of tits in this industry. Fake ones, natural ones, big uns, itty bitty titty committee, tits that sag like old gym socks, good boob jobs, fucked up boob jobs.

    It's not your tits that you need to worry about. grow a pair of balls and audition. If you're insecure about your tits wear halters.
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    Try to go to a club and try working to see whether you like it or not... Boobs are the last thing you'll have to worry about when starting out. There are all different kinds out in the SC, I started off with AA.. had no problems, or complaints.

    You should go in first and work then decide whether this is right for you.. It took me a while just to enter a stripclub to work... Im sure you'll do fine if you're comfy with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Suck it up. There are all kinds of tits in this industry. Fake ones, natural ones, big uns, itty bitty titty committee, tits that sag like old gym socks, good boob jobs, fucked up boob jobs.

    It's not your tits that you need to worry about. grow a pair of balls and audition. If you're insecure about your tits wear halters.
    I just love you..

    LOL!!!

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    I have pretty saggy boobs and there DDs so they look even worse... this may sound silly but I dance in the mirror a lot and learned how to work my body... like what angles look the best, and what moves look the best and stuff... It just makes me feel more comfortable... I like my arms up bc my boobs look great then lol

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    I seriously wouldn't worry about your tits. You'd be surprised how few dancers have excellent tits. We don't all look like models. But the best, and the most, customers aren't really there for T&A...they're there for company and attention and validation. In that regard, an excellent personality goes much further and makes more money than a set of perky C's.

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    If it makes you feel any better, I'm a dancer in Vegas and my 4 best friends and I are all good at our jobs, make good money, and look VERY different - especially in the booby department!

    I'm a member of the itty bitty titty committee. I rock "large" A-cups on a good day.

    My two best friends both have bigger boobs - one has natural perky D's, the other has a DD boob job that looks INCREDIBLY fake (and sorta lopsided, honestly. lol)

    My favorite hustle buddy is an older dancer, in her 30's now (I'm early 20's for the record) and her body does show it. She obviously had nice B's earlier in her life, but now they're saggy and sort of starting to develop the "fried egg on a nail" look. She jokes about it all the time.

    All of us make good money. Guys tell her ALL THE TIME how much they love her boobs. She's a little thicker, taller, etc. and she still does very well for herself.

    It's less about how you look and more about your own confidence. Like tempest666 said - grow a pair and audition. Don't spend your time worrying that you're not perfect. Perfection is boring. Confidence in yourself is sexy as all get out. It's cliche for a reason.
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    Be confident and work your angles is the best advice I can give you. I spend lots of time arching my back at work to show off my stomach and my breasts to their best advantage, on stage and in dances. I len backwards and direct attention with my hands, the men look where I want them to look.

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    Yeah, don't worry about your tits. As long as you walk into the club feeling like hot shit, that's what most customers will pick up on and what will get them to go for dances with you.

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    I actually get more clients and repeat customers because I have natural breasts. Remember guys/girls all have different types and fetishes. What one may not like another will. Prime example I am naturally around 6 feet tall and 6 foot 4 in my heels and do have the occasional guy tell me I'm not tall enough for him. I am a natural 32C/34 D ( bras are weird these days) and I get customers who get dances from me because I DO NOT have a boob job.

    Just go audition and know that you are a goddess whom they would be lucky to have on their team at the club!! If by chance they do reject you hey one door closes many others will open!

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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    I seriously wouldn't worry about your tits. You'd be surprised how few dancers have excellent tits. We don't all look like models. But the best, and the most, customers aren't really there for T&A...they're there for company and attention and validation. In that regard, an excellent personality goes much further and makes more money than a set of perky C's.
    Very true!!!!!

    I have perky C's, and if I'm feeling depressed (usually because of something military related, like knowing I'll be recalled soon), I will go home broke (with like $120 or less). However, if I"m feeling very happy (like getting an award, going on a road trip, etc.), or very desperate for money (like paying a speeding ticket, my phone, etc.) is when I go home with the big cash (like $365 in less than five hours).

    So yes, personality and attitude goes a long way!!!!!!





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    Quote Originally Posted by XAnastasiaX View Post
    I actually get more clients and repeat customers because I have natural breasts. Remember guys/girls all have different types and fetishes. What one may not like another will. Prime example I am naturally around 6 feet tall and 6 foot 4 in my heels and do have the occasional guy tell me I'm not tall enough for him. I am a natural 32C/34 D ( bras are weird these days) and I get customers who get dances from me because I DO NOT have a boob job.

    Just go audition and know that you are a goddess whom they would be lucky to have on their team at the club!! If by chance they do reject you hey one door closes many others will open!

    XOXO
    Bra sizes are not standardized. Victoria's Secret, for example, varies a lot with their styles. For example, I wear 36C for most styles, but for the cotton VS bras, I wear 34C. However, with the PINK bras, I have to wear 34 or 36 D. Their bioft bras, I also wear 36C, unless is a demi bra, and I have to wear a 36D.

    Maidenform are more consistent; I wear 36C with them all the time. The same with Bali, Hanes, and their other brands (like wonderbra and barely there).

    So, for general purposes, I always say I'm a full 36C.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    Bra sizes are not standardized. Victoria's Secret, for example, varies a lot with their styles. For example, I wear 36C for most styles, but for the cotton VS bras, I wear 34C. However, with the PINK bras, I have to wear 34 or 36 D. Their bioft bras, I also wear 36C, unless is a demi bra, and I have to wear a 36D.

    Maidenform are more consistent; I wear 36C with them all the time. The same with Bali, Hanes, and their other brands (like wonderbra and barely there).

    So, for general purposes, I always say I'm a full 36C.
    Yeah, I've gotten wicked frustrated with bra sizing recently. I'm up to a 34DD according to most bras now, which kind of sucks, cause when they're that big, they aren't all that sexy anymore; it's more about support and reining 'em in than being pretty.

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    ^^ So true... I don't like having big boobs bc I cnt find any cute bras... Now I just buy ugly plain ones a slap some colored lace on em they actually look really nice... as long as they don't have that inch wide shoulder strap...

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    Go on YouTube and look up "show 'em to me" by Rodney carrington. It's an awesome and funny song about the fact that men don't care what they look like, they just love tits!!!

    Seriously though - find outfits that flatter you, moves that suit you, and beyond that, it doesn't matter. Confidence counts for far more than cup size!
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    I'm a 34A and men love my natural boobs. guys love tits in general and everyone has their own preferences.

    Also if you're feeling insecure about your boobs, I work with a girl who has one nipple with a HUGE birth mark around it...it looks like a deformed nipple, it's the weirdest and grossest thing...yet she does champagne rooms all the time and makes a ton of money. so I'm sure you're fine! there are also a lot of dancers who are mothers whose boobs are saggy from breast feeding...that's just how it is! so don't feel insecure! everyone has their own taste! embrace your boobies

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