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    Default Re: Wrong Reasons to Start Stripping?

    dude you're only 23. you sure he's "the one"? nothing about this story sounds right to me. at all. i'm 23 too and i've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. been dancing since last summer (getting ready to start at my new club in couple hours *yay*). now my guy is one of those like overly friendly people (total opposite of me b/c i'm naturally bitchy) and he can be rather charitable--BUT the only women he gives money to is me and his mom. that's it. your whole situation just sounds; off. how long have you been with this guy anyway? i mean relationships are work but you shouldn't have to worry about feeling inferior to other women when you are supposed to be #1 to him. just ain't right.

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    Default Re: Wrong Reasons to Start Stripping?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    No one deserves to have someone make them feel like they are less than anyone else.

    On the money issue, I can't answer that fully for you. If he earns it though, & his bills or portion of bills are paid, I generally feel its his right to spend it as he pleases. If he chooses to help you out at all, you should be grateful, but not expect more. A person who bestows a gift that the receiver is ungrateful for has every right to give it to someone who is grateful & shows appreciation.

    Otherwise, I'd suggest burlesque to you... it's more theatrical so you'll appreciate it. Plus, its less likely to ruin how you feel about your day job. It's hard to stay at a day job when you know how much & how fast you can earn in the clubs...
    Burlesque is a fantastic idea- and then she should go and check out some strip clubs as a patron, get a few lapdances (ask for them to be performed as if dancing for a man) and check out the scene.
    Tiny tweaks----->BIG CHANGES

    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Default Re: Wrong Reasons to Start Stripping?

    Im not going to reply to your first part, but the 2nd part of your story.. where you said you went with him to the SC. As strippers, we're are nice to everyone.. and when a couple comes in - we're extra friendly with the females when they with a male (a male whom spends that is). As other girls mentioned, strippers use sob, pity stories - any story to get money out of a customer. Does he see these girls OTC? Did he meet these "stripper friends" inside the stripclub as dancers? If he did, the girls arent his friends, he's their customer - nothing more. He needs to understand these girls will suck him dry. Texting them, calling them, giving them money is totally wrong in my book, espically if he thinks their friends - its the whole point of the job, some just go further than the rest to reach a customer.

    Also consider the fact that he took you, is great but he may not act like that, bring as much money, or do the regular things he does while he is there by himself. I wouldnt allow my BF to waste money on strippers. I enjoy the men who do - for entertainment purposes but to help them out to bill their rents and texting them is too far in my book.

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    Default Re: Wrong Reasons to Start Stripping?

    Okay, really. No matter how "he's actually really great" you say he is.... you REALLY need a lesson in "i-don't-put-up-with-bullshit." Your posts are full of excuses and compromise on YOUR part. and if you don't feel like you deserve better, all this garbage is from YOU not treating YOURSELF better.

    the minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.
    and I only say this because I've been there, done that.

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