FBR...I think Kelly meant, "spend money at all." Developing a real romantic relationship with someone who has regularly spent money on you as a stripper is very rare.
However, there's a difference between that regular, and the guy who's just in the club for some fun and buys some dances while you two get to know one another. Or, tips for your time, etc.
Point is, when I am working, ANYWHERE, in sales, I am not going to spend any time at all with someone who straight away says, "I don't do dances." And, if I do spend a few minutes with him and like him, but he says, "no, I don't do dances" I'm outta there no matter how hot he is.
Does that make sense? A custy doesn't have to spend exorbitantly or over time for a relationship to occur if there is chemistry. But if a man is in MY club and is all smug about not getting dances but wanting to waste my time, he's immediately placed onto the DEALBREAKER list.
Its the same way in my business, and I imagine, in your business. When I speak to prospects that make it clear they are unqualified to buy, I finish up my time for them and send them on their way. In my case now, its with a "sample" of my product that costs me no time or energy to give in order to appease. In stripper time, its usually, a very polite brush off, maybe a chaste hug and air kiss.
Re: drug dealers. That's a totally separate thing. Really, dealers aren't typical customers. They are working as well. And they usually know lots of people at the club and are a part of the social scene for the workers. And of course some dealers get free dances and extras..in exchange for drugs. The dancer would be otherwise buying the drugs, so its still an exchange of services, just not cash directly.
I've never done a lapdance for drugs. But, I've gotten tipped in drugs before on top of the dance price.

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