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    Hello everyone. New to SW but not new to this...

    I found this site yesterday and surfed around on it before I decided to join. I'm gravitated to the 'Customer" forum, and I wasn't so much surprised at most of the questions posted, so much as I was disappointed. There are way too many "How do I pick up a dancer"/"Can I date a stripper" posts. I'm still relatively young (30 y/o), but I've been in SCs and the real world lomg enough to know that regardless of environment, if you treat peoeple with respect and are nice, good things will happen. I truly believe that. I'm apologize in advance if this turns out to be a long post, and I don't mean to bash my brethren, but there is way too much good advice on here that is so helpful for male customers to still not "get" it.

    This is an entertainment driven business. Guys, yes these women are beautiful, and yes they dance better than most of the women you meet at a regular club, and yes they talk to you regardless of whether you think you're good looking or not (well most do), and yes you can see them again (in the club if you behave) if you want to. But we need to understand that this is a businnes, they are working hard for their money, and they are great entertainers who can provide some of us with a fantasy that we may not otherwise be able to reach in our "normal" daily lives.

    I'm just going to give a few pointers here, because I could write a really long article for advice, but I just want us all to get a gist of what will make your trips to strip clubs more enjoyable.

    One of my first pieces of advice to all guys is please come correct to the club. These women put in effort to look good, so why shouldn't we? I'm not saying to always dress in a shirt and tie (although that may be appropriate for some higher end clubs). What I'm saying is just make sure you are clean, smell good and have decent clothes. You don't necessarilty have to dress like you're going on a date, but by the looks of most of these posts on here, you might as well. Another thing is be respectful to the staff. Not just the dancers, but the bartenders, waitresses, the bouncers (a must), DJ, and anyone else there who works there that isn't YOU. I can't tell you how many times I've seen a dancer I like and asked a waitress or manager to get her after she's disappeared from the floor. I think this shows that you are a savvy customer, and it also protects you from the pathetic scene of being that guy chasing a dancer around the entire club. After doing this, it might also be a good idea to tip the person who got the dancer for you.

    Attitude towards the dancers. These ladies is the club's most precious commodity. Guys would still go to SCs if it was BYOB because you go there to see the hot women, not for the drinks, or even the music. Treat them the way you'd treat someone you were interested in at a regular bar or club. Do not grab them, any part of them, unless they tell you it's ok, or unless they say you can grab them on said body part. Not only will you get slapped for unsolicited contact, but you'll get your ass kicked by the bouncer and probably the manager on duty too. Shit, other customers might join in to kick your ass for the fun of it. And if you're too drunk to be a gentleman, drink some water and go home, or at least sleep it off in your friends car. Do not drive home drunk.

    Another thing I wuld say is talk to them while they're dancing, and please make eye contact. I love strippers, but I at least like trying to make some sort of connection with each dancer I meet. We both know why I'm there. And any game I try to spit she will have heard dozens of times before on that night, and most likely double that if it's a weekend. Be that guy that can handle himself in front of a hot naked woman. Be that guy you wish was smooth, attractive, intelligent and genuine. Women can pick up BS from guys very well, and most strippers have a Masters Degree is Bullshit Detection.

    This is long I know, and I think I'm going to write a Part 2 because there is more I have to say. I do want to add that this advice in no way shape or form will get you a date with a stripper. That is very hard to do, and don't even think about this as being your objective when you go to the club. The main thing I want to get across in this post is that the dancer in front of you does not want to make you her girlfriend. Want she wants to do is be good at her job and make sure you are happy with the entertainment. Be good, be nice, and most of all, behave.

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    The new guys here who don't know this stuff, and make the "wanna date a stripper/does she like me?" threads, are a source of entertainment, and give the dancers a chance to exercise their humourous, sarcastic chops...a noob rite of passage so to speak. On the other hand, a lot of the guys on this site are strip club, and StripperWeb veterans, and likely rolling their eyes as they read this. Just sayin.

    Not sure what your intention is here exactly, but welcome to StripperWeb dude.

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    Welcome OP! ou sound great and I'm sure I'll like you.


    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    The new guys here who don't know this stuff, and make the "wanna date a stripper/does she like me?" threads, are a source of entertainment, and give the dancers a chance to exercise their humourous, sarcastic chops...a noob rite of passage so to speak. On the other hand, a lot of the guys on this site are strip club, and StripperWeb veterans, and likely rolling their eyes as they read this. Just sayin.

    Not sure what your intention is here exactly, but welcome to StripperWeb dude.
    All the threads asking "does she like me" actually remind me of me. I'm sure if this site was around when I was active in the clubs some of my customers would be on here. Who knows, maybe some of them are. I've never understood the idea that some men go to strip clubs for girlfriends then get upset when they find out that the dancer never liked them. Since I started talking about my situation I've gotten several pms from guys asking if they think she likes him and in most cases after reasing their story it doesn't sound like it.

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    Welcome to Stripperweb! I'll wait for part 2, to see where this is going...
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    Good 1st post! So far, you're well into"doesn't suck" territory. Keep it up, lol.

    Sum it all up in a lot less space as: Be a decent and respectful patron, and don't go to the club looking for a date or a hookup - there are websites for that.

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    Welcome not2bad.

    Also feel free to post your words of wisdom in the Strip Club Junkie forum, where many less than reputable blues could certainly benefit from your sage advice.

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    I knew some of this before I first went to a SC and the rest was obvious on my first visit.
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    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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    Dammit, I've sensed that I have been off the reservation for quite a few years. I've broken every one of these rules so eloquently issued and now understand why I have been rejected so often. My eyes have been opened and I thank you for that.

    I'm thinking that maybe I should make this thread a stickie.

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    Haha

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    that made me laugh

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Dammit, I've sensed that I have been off the reservation for quite a few years. I've broken every one of these rules so eloquently issued and now understand why I have been rejected so often. My eyes have been opened and I thank you for that.

    I'm thinking that maybe I should make this thread a stickie.

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    Thank goodness for this intervention....lord knows where you could have wound up otherwise!

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    See what I was talking about not2bad? You've already helped a number of blues, as well lopaw - our highly regarded resident purple.
    The problem, however, is that many blues, who would no doubt benefit enormously from this information, do not often leave the "basement", which is what the Junkie Forum is called around these parts. And many that do wonder up here do not post in pink, and hence cannot fully benefit from any meaningful back and forth dialogue regarding your many enlightening points. Just think of how much more good you could do for the customer community by sharing this wisdom in the Junkie forum.

    I noted that you are preparing a Part II, and I eagerly hope that you choose to post it where all of the blues may fully engage in a meaningful discussion about its many helpful lessons.

    I for one now rue all of the wasted time in clubs, where I groped like a blind man for the path to true club enjoyment, and I have no doubt that your additional posts will provide a true learning experience.
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    Thanks for the advice. I always wondered why some of the guys were very popular and others were ignored. One gem of advice someone gave me one time is to always have clean polished shoes. He told me that if a girl sees you have dirty shoes she may think you don't wash your penis either. Then you're not likely to get lucky with her.
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    ^^^Haha...I'll be sure to shine up my shoes more often now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TinkerBall View Post
    One gem of advice someone gave me one time is to always have clean polished shoes. He told me that if a girl sees you have dirty shoes she may think you don't wash your penis either. Then you're not likely to get lucky with her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    Thank goodness for this intervention....lord knows where you could have wound up otherwise!
    Ha! probably in a similar stripper Hell as you

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    ^^^Haha...I'll be sure to shine up my shoes more often now.
    LOL I had no idea that shiny shoes are a mileage factor.

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    So i'm guessing this means my standard move of shoving my thumb up their butt and going "crickey!" is probably a serious etiquette faux pas?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TinkerBall View Post
    Thanks for the advice. I always wondered why some of the guys were very popular and others were ignored. One gem of advice someone gave me one time is to always have clean polished shoes. He told me that if a girl sees you have dirty shoes she may think you don't wash your penis either. Then you're not likely to get lucky with her.
    TinkerBall, does the same thing apply if I prefer to spend my time in the club barefoot?

    Keep up reading in the basement, not2bad.

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    I was going to do a part 2, but after reading the comments I figured no one wants to hear about how good people could be, they just want to read about what assholes people are.

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    This surprises you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TinkerBall View Post
    Thanks for the advice. I always wondered why some of the guys were very popular and others were ignored. One gem of advice someone gave me one time is to always have clean polished shoes. He told me that if a girl sees you have dirty shoes she may think you don't wash your penis either. Then you're not likely to get lucky with her.
    Actually, she's probably to be more concerned with whether you have money to spend if that's the best you can do for footwear.
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    Normally when i walk in i like to get a drink or two first before being hounded so i tried wearing cheap clothing so they would think i had no money, lol.
    did not work, i prefer it now though, you never know what you're gonna get on you, especially when alcohol is involved and you never know when some girls going to be covered in glitter or something else, i hate that shit. cheap clothing it is
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    In our house, glitter is referred to as "stripper herpes" 'cuz it never, EVER, goes away entirely, LMAO.

    When a couple of ladies dragged me to see the 1st Twilight movie, I got huge laughs from the other viewers (and more than a few things thrown at me from others) when I yelled out in the middle of the movie - the big scene where Edward first steps into the sunlight where Bella can see the sparkles - "YOU ASSHOLE! YOU WERE IN A STRIP CLUB LAST NIGHT, WEREN'T YOU!?!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by not2bad View Post
    I was going to do a part 2, but after reading the comments I figured no one wants to hear about how good people could be, they just want to read about what assholes people are.
    I'm still trying to digest part 1. I'd be anxious for a part 2 though.
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