Hello everyone. New to SW but not new to this...
I found this site yesterday and surfed around on it before I decided to join. I'm gravitated to the 'Customer" forum, and I wasn't so much surprised at most of the questions posted, so much as I was disappointed. There are way too many "How do I pick up a dancer"/"Can I date a stripper" posts. I'm still relatively young (30 y/o), but I've been in SCs and the real world lomg enough to know that regardless of environment, if you treat peoeple with respect and are nice, good things will happen. I truly believe that. I'm apologize in advance if this turns out to be a long post, and I don't mean to bash my brethren, but there is way too much good advice on here that is so helpful for male customers to still not "get" it.
This is an entertainment driven business. Guys, yes these women are beautiful, and yes they dance better than most of the women you meet at a regular club, and yes they talk to you regardless of whether you think you're good looking or not (well most do), and yes you can see them again (in the club if you behave) if you want to. But we need to understand that this is a businnes, they are working hard for their money, and they are great entertainers who can provide some of us with a fantasy that we may not otherwise be able to reach in our "normal" daily lives.
I'm just going to give a few pointers here, because I could write a really long article for advice, but I just want us all to get a gist of what will make your trips to strip clubs more enjoyable.
One of my first pieces of advice to all guys is please come correct to the club. These women put in effort to look good, so why shouldn't we? I'm not saying to always dress in a shirt and tie (although that may be appropriate for some higher end clubs). What I'm saying is just make sure you are clean, smell good and have decent clothes. You don't necessarilty have to dress like you're going on a date, but by the looks of most of these posts on here, you might as well. Another thing is be respectful to the staff. Not just the dancers, but the bartenders, waitresses, the bouncers (a must), DJ, and anyone else there who works there that isn't YOU. I can't tell you how many times I've seen a dancer I like and asked a waitress or manager to get her after she's disappeared from the floor. I think this shows that you are a savvy customer, and it also protects you from the pathetic scene of being that guy chasing a dancer around the entire club. After doing this, it might also be a good idea to tip the person who got the dancer for you.
Attitude towards the dancers. These ladies is the club's most precious commodity. Guys would still go to SCs if it was BYOB because you go there to see the hot women, not for the drinks, or even the music. Treat them the way you'd treat someone you were interested in at a regular bar or club. Do not grab them, any part of them, unless they tell you it's ok, or unless they say you can grab them on said body part. Not only will you get slapped for unsolicited contact, but you'll get your ass kicked by the bouncer and probably the manager on duty too. Shit, other customers might join in to kick your ass for the fun of it. And if you're too drunk to be a gentleman, drink some water and go home, or at least sleep it off in your friends car. Do not drive home drunk.
Another thing I wuld say is talk to them while they're dancing, and please make eye contact. I love strippers, but I at least like trying to make some sort of connection with each dancer I meet. We both know why I'm there. And any game I try to spit she will have heard dozens of times before on that night, and most likely double that if it's a weekend. Be that guy that can handle himself in front of a hot naked woman. Be that guy you wish was smooth, attractive, intelligent and genuine. Women can pick up BS from guys very well, and most strippers have a Masters Degree is Bullshit Detection.
This is long I know, and I think I'm going to write a Part 2 because there is more I have to say. I do want to add that this advice in no way shape or form will get you a date with a stripper. That is very hard to do, and don't even think about this as being your objective when you go to the club. The main thing I want to get across in this post is that the dancer in front of you does not want to make you her girlfriend. Want she wants to do is be good at her job and make sure you are happy with the entertainment. Be good, be nice, and most of all, behave.


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