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    Does anyone here do couples shows? I have this guy friend I've been sorta seeing and he just got laid off from work. He is broke and I'd like him to work with me but I don't want to lose any money myself since him and I would be splitting our earnings 50/50. Will we be most likely earning double? Or usually the same? Should I charge the same price for couples shows as I would if I were solo? Or should I charge double? What's a good price to start out for Couples, $1.99 or $2.99?

    And most importantly, how do guys do it? The guy interested is worried about his performance. If we do our own thing in private and then the show is over, we have to stop, wait and do it all over again. Wouldn't he get bad blue balls? How should he deal with that? He says he might not be able to handle the pain but I don't want him to cum cause then the show is over. Any advice about couples shows?

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    I would say practice angles a LOT before you two even go on cam for customers. Kind of have some positions you've worked out with him on cam that look good. And decide beforehand how you're going to communicate with the customer. If it's NF and it's phone w/cam, put the phone on speaker so he can hear you both. If one of you will be typing to the customers in a different site, decide who will be typing and what the other will be doing in the background to keep the guys' attention.

    Just like you can fake plowing yourself with a dildo if you have your lighting/angles right, you should totally be able to fake fucking to an extent. And really make him do a lot of foreplay to you, moreso than doing things that will make him cum. Make everything look like it feels soooo good... Make him suck your tits for a long time, rub his head, moan, roll your head around. Just kind of REALLY put on a great show for the little things to distract the customer from the fact that he's not getting dick to pussy immediately, you know?

    Don't ever just try to jump into sex. Prolong everything for as long as you can. Move really slowly to change positions. Make lots of really sexy noise. If you give a blowjob, do it REALLY slow, and up close to the camera, and try to position yourself so the customer can see your eyes, and stare directly into the camera. Like, *connect* with the customer.

    Do lots of doggy style positions where you are kinda facing sideways, and angle your ass so the curve of it blocks the view of the cock actually going in and out for real. (From your avatar it looks like you have a nice, big ass so this is good). Do sexy stuff with your ass like pour baby oil on it and rub your ass all over his cock, while talking to the customer about what you're doing to the guy.

    Make it more about the illusion of sex than real sex or you'll burn out super fast. And please charge as much as you possibly can. It's pointless to risk sucking and fucking being recorded and plastered on different sites, for less money than you could get for going solo. I suggest you do this somewhere like Niteflirt or Adultwork where you get a higher percentage, rather than somewhere like streamate where you only get 30%. Keeping only 15% of any rate you could possibly ever charge (half of 30%) is NOT a good business move, by any means. But that's just me. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Blue Balls

    Why doesnt he get his own account and you do guest shows on each others cams for money?

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    "If we do our own thing in private and then the show is over, we have to stop, wait and do it all over again. Wouldn't he get bad blue balls? How should he deal with that? He says he might not be able to handle the pain but I don't want him to cum cause then the show is over"

    That "blue balls" stuff is a complete myth. Is he not able to continue after the first time?

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    My boyfriend just told me blue balls don't hurt! jajajajajaj

    So it's safe to go ahead and perform.

    He also wanted to make it clear that he hasn't had blue balls in a long time lol.

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    When I was doing the occasional girl-girl, we just added her usual rate and my usual rate together. Since your dude is clearly not already an internet stripper, just do double your regular rate.

    Please, for the love of all things holy.... charge a lot more than 1.99 or 2.99.

    I would totally capitalize on the fact that it's your first time doing this.... advertise it to your regs.... tell them you are about to have your on-cam-virginity taken, and they'd be lucky to see it. ;-)

    And I agree 100% with Shelly about prolonging, and paying attention to details, and not just making it dick-thrusting-in-pussy for the whole duration.

    Good luckkkk!!!

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    Actually I fibbed a little. This isn't my first time doing this at all. I've worked with my old boyfriend and he could go on forever without cumming. But blue balls seem to really exist for him. We could only do it maybe 5 times total only because the fucking and stopping thing gave him blue balls hard. We'd only be able to work for an hour. We would fake it occasionally but during blow job, I'd really be sucking. We had the BJ down. We prefer POV style where he held the cam and it shows just me sucking away. But as soon as the sex started, I'd get ready for reverse cowgirl while he's going for doggy and there was just no rhythm. That's why I was looking for advice since I'll be working with a new guy. But this guy is worried about blue balls also.

    What I meant by "will we earn the same or double" I meant should I double the price? I have a set price I do when solo and I do fantastic but if I move that price up by even .20 cents, I don't get any privates. Should I really charge more than $2.99 a minute to start out? And even though Streamate only pays me 35% of my earnings, it is the most beneficial for me. I've tried every other cam site (except for imlive and some of the lesser known ones) and Streamate is by far the best for me. Second choice would be AW but I still make a lot more on SM compared to AW. So I'm very confident this site suits me. But thanks for the advice, I didn't mean to word it like it was my first time doing couples. I am not a pro at couples though but I'm no a virgin either.

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    uhm , no.

    Dont do a couple show for %35 period. There is not a high enough rate on streamate to do that.

    The higest take your gonna make on stremate is around $1.74
    Now divide that by 2 and your pretty much making dick and ball money.

    NO.

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    Secondly think if somebody came in and recorded you for say... 2 minutes of you sucking and fucking.

    you just made a total of AROUND $4 and your shit will be plastered all over the internet.


    when you do something on cam it should be PAID $$$$$ for , and worth it in the long run. Not for a few bucks.

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    Default Re: Blue Balls

    "But this guy is worried about blue balls also."

    Just a scam to get you to finish him off.

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    Default Re: Blue Balls

    blue balls isnt a myth.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_balls

    ive had it once when i was younger, like 16 and omg its a terrible feeling. feels like your whole nutsack is the size of a watermellon and if anything touches it, it kills!

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    If it was real everyone would have it. If you are under 40 you get it up about 4 times an hour whether you want to or not.

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