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    So in highschool I started becoming very curious abt how it is to be with a woman. There was a girl in my class who happened to be openly Bi and I would ask her a million questions. Finally,one day she just said would you rather me show you...I said yes! It wasn't anything heavy though since it was in the girls bathroom at school,but from that day I knew I enjoyed it. Although I have never persued it since then but I really want to experience the full on "thing". My problem is I like girls who are girly like myself who like to dress up and wear heels you know that sorta stuff. Not even nessicarily heels or too girly...but I like a woman who wants and enjoys being a woman. It is easy when you see butch lesbians to know what they are after or to spot their sexual orientation dead on, but with femmes(girly type) it is so difficult to tell if they are into women! I see so many pretty women that I would love to take it there with but I don't want to offend them by pursuing them. How do you know if a woman is BI who happens to be girly,how do you approach her? I liked this girl who I worked with once and I would flirt with her,she was openly BI. She would take me home and even open the car doors for me! she would also make comments hitting on me but I would clam up like a dork! Which probably made her think I was not interested. The one time I tried to pursue it I feel like the girl wanted me as a friend and was scared to take it there with me,but I don't want a relationship I just want the sexual experience...I mean,she would watch porn with me! Lol is that not a green light!? I dunno HELP.
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    Default Re: Rules/guidelines to being BI

    Just talk... I'm bi but I'm blunt.. If a girl wanted to know, its better to ask than waste time you could of been doing something..

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    Default Re: Rules/guidelines to being BI

    That sounds pretty green light-y to me!

    I'm totally with you. I'm a deeply feminine don't-leave-the-house-without-heels-and-a-skirt kind of creature, and when it comes to women, I'm attracted to the same. Like, uh, my best friend. oops.
    Generally I'm pretty open with them about my attraction, even if it's purely sexual. It takes guts to openly like other women in todays society (Which is such BS!), so use more guts and just tell her.
    It might be awkward, but it's honest.

    OHOH! And if she's openly bi, then she's been through the bi-curious/sexual stage. I feel like it's necessary. Because of that, I'm sure she'll understand completely, and because she's a woman (yaaaaay) that means she'll REALLY understand. We're compassionate creatures.

    Anyway, good luck and have fun

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    Thanks too bad I don't work with her anymore!
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    Please keep in mind to only start one thread on a single topic. If you aren't sure where to put a thread, put it in the category you think fits best, & a moderator will move it to the correct category if its wrong.

    With that said, the internet would be a great starting point for you, Craigslist or any dating site. There are plenty of bars that cater to lesbians (for example Her Bar in Denver), but the thing is that sometimes straight girls go to... which if you are new that could put you in an awkward position if you make a wrong assumption. I would also strongly encourage you to get involved in the swingers community like Kasidie. The women who swing tend to be very girly & are often bisexual.
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    I saw your pic... You can come visit me in PA We want to add some chocolate to our vanilla and caramel and vanilla swirl

    I like chicks with cute pussies that like to get down and dirty.

    I can do without pseudo hippies and emos. -_-
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    My last girlfriend was a pseudo hippy vegan who was hooked on heroin. The bitch was neurotic as hell and gave Klingon a whole new meaning that had nothing to do with Star Trek. If I like a chick I go up to them and ask if they want to fuck me and Chris. Easy as pie. Uno, dos, y tres
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    I'm getting confused.....didn't I just post in this same Thread here...??

    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthr...85#post2032185

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    Quote Originally Posted by pussyinboots View Post
    I'm getting confused.....didn't I just post in this same Thread here...??

    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthr...85#post2032185

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    No, you aren't confused. She posted twice, which was why my response included:

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