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    So in highschool I started becoming very curious abt how it is to be with a woman. There was a girl in my class who happened to be openly Bi and I would ask her a million questions. Finally,one day she just said would you rather me show you...I said yes! It wasn't anything heavy though since it was in the girls bathroom at school,but from that day I knew I enjoyed it. Although I have never persued it since then but I really want to experience the full on "thing". My problem is I like girls who are girly like myself who like to dress up and wear heels you know that sorta stuff. Not even nessicarily heels or too girly...but I like a woman who wants and enjoys being a woman. It is easy when you see butch lesbians to know what they are after or to spot their sexual orientation dead on, but with femmes(girly type) it is so difficult to tell if they are into women! I see so many pretty women that I would love to take it there with but I don't want to offend them by pursuing them. How do you know if a woman is BI who happens to be girly,how do you approach her? I liked this girl who I worked with once and I would flirt with her,she was openly BI. She would take me home and even open the car doors for me! she would also make comments hitting on me but I would clam up like a dork! Which probably made her think I was not interested. The one time I tried to pursue it I feel like the girl wanted me as a friend and was scared to take it there with me,but I don't want a relationship I just want the sexual experience...I mean,she would watch porn with me! Lol is that not a green light!? I dunno HELP.
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    Default Re: rules/guidelines to being BI?

    Go to some gay clubs meet some people and jump in! The more you go out the stronger your gaydar will develop and next thing you know you'll be liplocking a hottie!
    “What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE

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    I'm too scared! Lol
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    ^ Maybe you arent ready yet? It could be just a fantasy that happened then, and it stills keeps on mind.

    Im sure whenever your mind and body give you the green you wouldnt worry or be scared. I do suggest gay bars as well, for person to person interactions. Is there a gay area within your location? That could be easier to give off the hint. Then there is the internet. I think its best to go straight with that lead when you meet the female you want.. I think mixing it up with friends first causes more confusion between both of you.

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    Yeah, I vote find a lezzy dating site or something and just go for it. I never hunt girls up they just kinda throw themselves on me so I honestly have no clue about FINDING one. I guess it would be the same as seeing if a guy was into you, eye them up, flirt, see if they flirt back *shrug*.

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    Default Re: rules/guidelines to being BI?

    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    Go to some gay clubs meet some people and jump in! The more you go out the stronger your gaydar will develop and next thing you know
    you'll be liplocking a hottie!
    Geez....what a vivid picture this conjurs up....makes me horny just reading it....!!

    'MOP'...hun, in many ways, dating girls is pretty much the same as dating guys....it's all about confidence...overcoming shyness...the right circumstances...blah blah.

    If you're sure in yourself that you're into girls (and it sounds like you really are...) then it will happen when the time is right. Maybe you're not quite ready yet - maybe you just haven't met the right girl for you - but you will. Also.....girls are waaay more forward about this than guys.....so your gaydar will become tuned in pretty quickly.

    Like the other guys have said..gay clubs or gay dating sites are a good idea. One thing's for certain - when you do eventually get it on with a hottie....you're going to have an experience that NO man will ever match...that's a deffo!

    Girls are just sooo much softer...more gentle....sensual...smell gorgeous....and....Oh WTF. Girls are just HOT - period!
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