



This is what I don't get, they seriously think we are robots that can't hear or something. Especially when we're on stage. I had some stupid girls sitting at my stage and I heard one of them say loudly to the other "she needs to eat something" and I went over and was like "um, I can hear you... you're like three feet away from me. watch your mouth!'





I don't approach ANYTHING with a vagina at work unless I know them, or they specifically approach me and ask me for a dance.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest

Most SCs make the majority of their money from tip outs, dances, and vip, not drink sales. Do they not realize it affects their own bottom line? Doesn't make sense.
New Years Eve at the nice club was again chock full of women. No dancers would go on the floor because they knew there was no money and didn't want to be playthings for little princesses. The couples and groups of girls just sat there staring at each other like idiots. It was like the whole system came to a halt. If management could not see a problem they must be blind.
Female customers: If you were at a bachelorette party with your friends would you want your man sitting next to you holding your hand while a male stripper was gyrating in your face? I'm guessing no because it would be awkward and a little less fun.





*Gasp* I'm woundedYou hurt my feelings. Next question. I'm also busy counting my feria that was NOT from you and in the end I could give a rat's ass if any females approach me. Most of 'em are a pain in the ass to dance for anyways. 50% are glaring at the dancers, hanging onto their man like a damn dryer sheet while the boyfriend is drooling, the other 45% come in groups severely intoxicated, cackling like a pack of hyenas shit talking and trying to "outstrip" the strippers. They think because they're females they get some kind of a free pass to grope us and act like idiots. The remaining 5% are the ones that approach me. The conduct themselves like ladies. those are few and far between.
Last edited by tempest666; 01-04-2011 at 02:44 AM.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





Ok, see dancers in BC have a different attitude. There are no table/lap dances on the floor here they are done in a private room. There are stage shows so that's where everyone can tip for of course, but dancers also get paid a flat fee by the club for showing up to perform there (because except for one club on the coast it is strictly a travelling dancers province), so before she even gets on stage she knows how much she can expect to be paid, everything on top of that is a bonus. So dancers here don't usually care about women in the audience.Besides, the girls in my town are NUTS, they are all louder and tip better than the men I swear to god. And I swear to god dancers can smell me from a mile away because if I'm at the tipping rail they just come over and hang out and chat with me in the middle of their set,lol.
So I can understand you guys hating it being overrun with women, but depending on WHERE you're dancing it can be a really great thing too.










Hahaha, excellent! You can come play with me, yaaaay!





My club gets like this. Sometimes the girls are actually encouraged to get on stage. Fuck that. This happened on Halloween. The girl thought she was being cute and got on my pole during my set. I walked up, said "do you work here?" she giggled and said no. I said "then get off my fucking stage." She gave me the finger. I promptly swung into a pole trick and knocked her on her ass. Highlight of my dancing career.




Whatever. It's not like it's impossible to make money without hustling groups of insecure 21 year old women. Of course there are couples that come in and spend well, as well as actual lesbian and bisexual customers, but women who are just there to look "cool" and aren't really interested in women aren't good for more than a dollar on stage and MAYBE one lap dance anyway.
Hell, I am bisexual and was dating only women most of the time I danced and I didn't approach female customers ever. It just was not worth the hassle. If they want me, they can find me. Otherwise I would rather spend my valuable time seeking out a customer that will actually spend on me.
A few things, ugh...
The club I work in ENCOURAGES female customers (lower door fee, giving them free shirts if they get up in stage with the dancers), which would be fine if all female customers were there to spend money and have a good time.
However, when female customers go up on stage they distract from the dancers, and often can be dangerous. I'm not trying to be a bitch, but when I'm on stage in big platform shoes, I've got to be way more careful if I have a drunk girl who doesn't know what she's doing up there to watch out for too.
Recently, I've had two incidences happen that really irritated me.
The first was when one of the girl's boyfriend's baby mama came in with her friend and proceeded to loudly put every girl on stage down, one after another. By the time I got on stage, they had made 5 girls before me feel like crap. Apparently they didn't think we could hear them because when I got in stage and they started I said "I can hear you. We CAN ALL hear you. You need to either shut up and enjoy the entertainment or get out of our workplace." After which these girls got all huffy and complained to the bouncer "Are they allowed to yell at us!?!?" To which he replied "Not really, but y'all need to leave".
Second, one of my regulars (he's young, 21 yo) came in with a bunch of his buddies who also brought their girlfriends. One of the girls kept telling me she "wanted to be a stripper" so I figured I would entertain her questions, since she is friends with a guy that typically gets at least 6 dances when he comes in. However, she just wanted to ask really fucked up questions to see if her man/man's friends were messing with girls itc. "How many guys have you gone home with?" "You really can't fuck/suck/give a hand job ANYWHERE IN THE CLUB!? You're lying. All strippers do that." "How many guys have you fucked here? You must at least fuck in the Champagne Room." Etc, so on. Come on girl, for real??
Rude, just rude. Please take your preconceived notions about me and my co-workers elsewhere.
ALSO, the whole. I'm just here with my man, and we shouldn't have to tip you for two people because we're a COUPLE. Or, I shouldn't have to tip you because I'm a pretty princess and I should be allowed to take up room at the tip rail that is usually reserved for paying customers.





"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
eww i hate it when girls do that!
and i hate when they sit at your stage and give you a dirty look the entire time including when you dance for them.
get off my stage before i make you stand up, pull your skirt up and let the whole place know you have nasty ass meat curtains!!!!! Slut!

I give a ton of credit to dancers that will still approach women & couples that at least appear that they are at the club to spend some money and have some fun. I would hope that a dancer would be able to see the body language and tell the difference, at least in most cases.For some dancers to completely ignore ALL women customers is kinda sad. But that's their choice and it means more money for the dancers that WILL approach couples. More power to THEM!
Sorry, I don't see the wrong in this. To each their own....some like the female customers, and it works out for them, and them for some, it doesn't. Neither is right or wrong. I am also like this, I have been burned too many times.....I have given the women that come in my club many a chance to be cool and it just itsn't happening....so sorry....I also do not approach anything with a vagina.
OMG! Do we work at the same place? This was my NYE at work, word for word.





*singing*"Hit the road jack and don'tcha come back no more no more, hit the road jack"
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





I almost forgot: I never said I ignore vaginas, I just don't approach them. They approach ME.And when they do they are usually not inebriated college coeds trying to show how cool they are. Last time it was an uber-hot 30 something housewife with a backpiece who made a point of telling me when her husband was going to be out of town. So I prefer quality pussy over quantity.
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"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





^ hey T, nope Ive never heard of that club, where is it babe?





According to Wikipedia it is referenced in "girls girls girls" and is in BC.
The song references several strip clubs, including, The Tropicana, The Body Shop (both located on the Sunset Strip in Los Angeles), the Marble Arch (Vancouver, BC)[2], the Dollhouse (Ft. Lauderdale) the famous Crazy Horse in Paris and Tattletales in Atlanta, GA.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest




When I go to clubs I always try to be polite and tip. I never understand why people goto a club and complain.. or try to belittle the dancers.. I met up with a friend once that did that and not tip believe I lost my temper with her quickly..





You're cool though.... and most dancers that go into clubs as customers understand proper etiquette and protocol. I don't go in to clubs very often as a customer but when I do I tip, I sure as shit don't think I'm better than the other dancers, and I don't get offended if they're leery of me (ahem)
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
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