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I don't get that too much at my club, but because of how small my club is, it's easy to see who is selling dances to who and who isn't. If I see a girl with a very different look from me sit with a guy and then get up and not sell dances, I'll be more inclined to try and hustle him than a guy who had been sitting with a girl who has a similar look to me who didn't sell him dances. As for girls explicitly saying that a customer doesn't have money, well, I'd probably do the same as you. If it's busy, I'd probably go for someone else first (especially if that girl has a similar look to me), but if it's quiet then I try and hit up everyone anyway, because you never know what they're looking for, or maybe if you just have better timing. Maybe just thank her for the tip and ask her to wish you luck if you want to be polite. I feel like the intention is good, where she doesn't want you to waste time when she did (or maybe she's bitter about not making money and doesn't want that customer to get any more "free" company), but just because one girl doesn't make money doesn't mean none will ALL the time.
I've had a couple of experiences with girls stopping me before I approach a customer and telling me the guy is cheap. One time, this girl was on stage and three guys were sitting there, and apparently they only tipped her a couple of bucks. She told them off and walked off stage in the middle of her set. Then one of the guys approached me and asked for a table dance, so I sat him down and started. I was maybe halfway through when the other dancer came by and tapped me on the shoulder (while I was still dancing) and loudly said I shouldn't waste my time dancing for such a cheap douchebag. Well, I ignored her and finished the dance, and the guy tipped me $40. I was on stage next, and each of the three guys tipped me $20's. And then they all wanted private dances. I ended up making a couple hundred off of them. Maybe they would have spent that money on the first dancer if she hadn't been so high-strung and bitchy (though she admittedly was not very attractive).
I've also had a few instances where a girl would point out a particular guy to me and say he was broke, but I would approach him anyways and he would spend mad money. He would mention to me that the other dancer had gotten very territorial with him cause he'd once spent good money on her, and he suspected that she was intentionally driving other girls away so she wouldn't have to share his money. There were several girls at my last club who would do this frequently; in fact, they usually had multiple customers in there at once, and they wanted to hit each of them up, so while they were occupied with the first customer, they would convince other dancers that the rest of the customers there were cheap. It's like putting a "Customer Reserved" card on top of these guys.
So, you never know. A dancer who tells you that a guy is broke may believe she's correct; maybe he didn't spend any money on her, and she assumes that means he won't spend money on any dancer. Or maybe she KNOWS he has money, and doesn't want other girls to find out. Regardless, I can usually tell pretty quick if a guy has money and is willing to spend it on me, so I don't really have much to lose by approaching a guy and spending a few minutes with him. You really never know.





I wouldn't spend too much time worrying over it - you'll have the sane chance with them that you have with everyone else...just jeep giving them a try anyway!
I usually don't pay much attention the other girls opinions of customers unless it's positive. The exception that that is if a girl is complaining about a handsy customer - then they are usually being honest.
I've had situations where a girl has told me a customer is spent out and I've got a VIP off them! Just make sure you are polite when they talk to you - say thanks, and maybe add "worth a shot, right?" in a joky way...
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There are very few people in this industry whose words I listen to or give advice to when it comes to how much money is in a customers wallet. About 9.5/10 a dancer can tell me a guy is cheap/doesn't have money etc, & I'll be giving him dances minutes later. Some entertainers simply don't know how to sell, & I'm not going to believe what they tell me regarding a customer's wallet. On the other hand, I will RARELY ever tell another entertainer that a guy is broke/cheap. If I tell her that either she is a very good friend & hustler, or she's a sweetheart & a totally new dancer... so I don't want to see her waste time - which could lead her to get frustrated & quit. I know a lot of dancers want as few girls in the club as possible, but personally I care more about making sure that the people I work with are reasonably nice - so I'll do what I can to get the nice ones to stick around.
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Stay away from those negative dancers! They are like black holes and will try and suck every positive ion out of your body so that you can be on their low level. When they have something to say, smile, nod, then leave. Try your guy anyway, no matter what they say.
Customers often refer to "I don't have any money" line when they don't otherwise know how to tell a dancer that she is not his type or that he just would rather spend time with someone else. I can't tell you how many times I have gotten VIP's with custys after they told others they didn't have money.
Guys DO NOT go into strip clubs without money for the most part. They know what's up. There is ALWAYS money in the club. Somedays you have to hustle harder to get there, but trust me, it's there.

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There are customers who really do come into the clubs without money... some so broke that they only have $20 in their bank account. Not ever customer lies about having money. Over time though you slowly learn to differentiate between the types that do & don't have money. I couldn't say exactly why they come into the clubs, I suppose sometimes when you are down on your luck just being around other people helps emotionally.
There are also customers who purposely leave their ATM/debit cards at home, so if you don't get them when they first start spending, chances are they'll run out of money & you won't see any of it.
Others really do lie. The real test though is learning to tell all of these customers apart.
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I would never say that.. cause how would you know unless you looked in their wallet.. But I would tell a dancer I know or a girl just starting out if they are grabby or looking for sex... Or they like to wave their flag. Sometimes little known facts can help keep the club mood right.
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