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    Why date a stripper I ask? So many guys want to do it. Why? Do you really want your girlfriend/potential mate stripping? I see the allure, b/c they are beautiful, but you know once you got them you'd try to force them to stop. Maybe they would but probably not. Just saying.

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    Fantasy is fun while is lasts, when it becomes reality it isnt fun for the male partner.

    So many males say they wanna date a stripper.. blah blah blah.. that its hot and BS. When it happens, sure its fun and you can brag to your friends but later on you try to convice your stripper girlfriend not to dance anymore due to the low self-esteem. So leaving it a fantasy is always better. Many men bullshit of dating strippers, being friends and such.

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    I've been friends with 3 strippers and know one from another forum. 2 were a little off, the forum girl was bonkers, but one was fine. I wanted to date the one that was fine for awhile. That was before she stripped.

    I think that guys want to fall in lust, make lust for awhile and maybe invite her stripper friends. lol

    But in all honesty. What kind of boyfriends do strippers have? How can you not ask your girlfriend to stop stripping? I don't think it's a jealousy thing. Is it? Would you want your boyfriend showing his package of to girls at a club?

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    Quote Originally Posted by guysmiley View Post
    But in all honesty. What kind of boyfriends do strippers have? How can you not ask your girlfriend to stop stripping? I don't think it's a jealousy thing. Is it? Would you want your boyfriend showing his package of to girls at a club?
    i think this is based strictly on personal preference and the strength of the relationship. as for the 'what kind of boyfriends do strippers have?' question...really? um; i have a normal boyfriend. one that's supportive and loves me for me. that's what kind of boyfriend i have and i've had him for 8 years. and for your last question, no it would not bother me if my boyfriend wanted to be a male dancer because just like i come home to him every night, he would still be coming home to me at night.
    that is all.

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    See was it because that girl became a stripper, you didnt want to date her anymore? She is most likely still the same person, if she has a good head on her shoulders, then she knows this is a job only, and her personality will be the same. I dont see what should change whether in asking or not asking to date.

    Stripping is a job.. we're students, mothers, career-woman, normal females.. whateany everything inbetween. We date men who we want to date, so we all have different likes and taste. There isn''t a "stripper boyfriend" excluding the pimps. lmao. You can ask your GF to stop stripping, will she? That depends. I think jealousy does play a strong role on the factor of your GF stripping, I do believe jealousy is part of the factors.

    No, I wouldnt want my boyfriend to show his package off.. Why? Im not jealous. I understand its a job and he will be doing it for money, but mainly because I never found a male to be interested in becoming a stripper.. and Im not interested in a male strippers due to most of them being gay. My ex-BF always joked on calling me a "stripper" etc.. then I became one, he asked me to quit, he became jealous, insane with his thoughts, and mainly had low self-esteem and trust issues over me being a stripper. He still thinks I shouldnt be one.. That I am "better than a stripper" but you know what I am happy doing it, I havnt changed one bit, gained confidence here and there.. but I am still me before. I think the average joe wouldnt be able to date a stripper.. before and after of knowing her, it takes a lot of trust and communication between both.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kisca View Post
    He still thinks I shouldnt be one.. That I am "better than a stripper"
    that's the statement! that's what confuses me. what makes a girl turn to stripping? is it only money? and when you make the money you needed what next? not the dancing. is there an addiction, thrill of some sort I don't know about?

    just trying to gain perspective here. new to the forum. and i would date a stripper just fyi. i probably wouldn't like it, but if i liked her i'd try. and that one girls becoming a stripper had no influence on anything. we just grew apart and i moved on.

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    Default Re: Why date a stripper?

    why does one strip? lots of reasons. normal jobs suck. flexible hours. the money can be great (really great). no micro managing boss. to pay for school. to save for a new house/car, boob job, etc. the list goes on.

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    Why date a stripper? Cause she is a female with a vagina. I also date bartenders, bank tellers, Walmart cashiers, accountants and auto mechanics (she is amazingly hot).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kitten Foster View Post
    why does one strip? lots of reasons. normal jobs suck. flexible hours. the money can be great (really great). no micro managing boss. to pay for school. to save for a new house/car, boob job, etc. the list goes on.
    I guess I meant is there more to it than that? those are all monetary reasons except for all jobs suck... if you are lucky enough to snag one these days. It has to be personal preference. I couldn't put myself out there like that. But maybe that's insecurity. I've heard of strippers having insecurities too though. Maybe there is no core answer? It's just I need some cash and I'm not afraid to show off my body to strangers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by guysmiley View Post
    I guess I meant is there more to it than that? those are all monetary reasons except for all jobs suck... if you are lucky enough to snag one these days. It has to be personal preference. I couldn't put myself out there like that. But maybe that's insecurity. I've heard of strippers having insecurities too though. Maybe there is no core answer? It's just I need some cash and I'm not afraid to show off my body to strangers.
    well sheesh dude. it's like asking anyone why they would choose any profession really. seriously. why does a cop become a cop? or a soldier become a soldier? just because stripping isn't socially acceptable to most doesn't mean that it's not a job or about money. i mean really; everyone that has a job does it for the money no matter what kind of job it is. bottom line. i don't really know what you are trying to get at here honestly. nudity is not a big deal. we were born naked for pete's sake. stripping only seems like a big deal because people make it a big deal.

    also wanted to add that some of us just simply like to strip.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kitten Foster View Post
    nudity is not a big deal. we were born naked for pete's sake. stripping only seems like a big deal because people make it a big deal.

    also wanted to add that some of us just simply like to strip.
    well if nudity wasn't a big deal you wouldn't have a job. but, if i were to ask my sisters what would you do if you needed to make money. their response would not be go stripping. i don't get the mentality. i am grateful for the strippers, but i still don't get it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by guysmiley View Post
    well if nudity wasn't a big deal you wouldn't have a job. but, if i were to ask my sisters what would you do if you needed to make money. their response would not be go stripping. i don't get the mentality. i am grateful for the strippers, but i still don't get it.
    i would agree with this to a certain extent however; in other countries like in europe for example, nudity is not a big deal. thay have no shame in putting up nude billboards and such. they have strip clubs. idk if their girls make as good money but they do still have their jobs.

    anyway, i'm glad it's taboo here as there are enough girls to compete with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kitten Foster View Post
    i would agree with this to a certain extent however; in other countries like in europe for example, nudity is not a big deal. thay have no shame in putting up nude billboards and such. they have strip clubs. idk if their girls make as good money but they do still have their jobs.
    i think they also have legalized prostitution. damn them! so here's an off the wall question. if a stranger (an unattractive one) were to come up to you and (somehow respectively) ask you to flash him your boobs. would you? if not, then for an LD price? that will determine how open you are.

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    Just because we're strippers, does not mean we have to strip down upon request, regardless of how attractive the stranger is.

    I mean if you met a ballerina, would you ask her to get en pointe at intervals? Or if you met a girl who was a waitress at a party, would you demand she gets your drinks the entire time? It's just as ridiculous and annoying. Stripping is a job, like any other. It pays the bills, and for many girls, many other things as well.

    I stripped solely for the money. I don't think too many girls strip for life fulfillment. It's a hard job, but if you work hard, the money can't be beat.

    It paid for my college, and let me launch myself into a successful public relations career.

    And what kind of boyfriends do strippers have? Same as any other girl. Some are jerks, some are amazing. I have one of the amazing ones, who I met while I was still a stripper.

    He's understanding and sweet, and he didn't really care that I stripped. He knew I had bills to pay and ambitions to fund.

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    Quote Originally Posted by guysmiley View Post
    well if nudity wasn't a big deal you wouldn't have a job. but, if i were to ask my sisters what would you do if you needed to make money. their response would not be go stripping. i don't get the mentality. i am grateful for the strippers, but i still don't get it.
    They do it because they can...I did it because I could, easy as that. It is also more than just nudity, it's fantasy, seduction, attention & the good ones know how to profit from it without being ate-up by the lifestyle. I was married to one for 10 years & we were very normal. If a woman is a top tier entertainer than she doesn't have to do things that she is ashamed of & you would be ashamed of.

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    I've only ran into one guy who had a real issue with my dancing. Of course, I was always completely honest about what I did at work, and while my SO's where never invited to the club, I always told them to have their friends stop by if they wanted to see what I "really" did at work. I think my first Dom's big bro dropped by once, saw I was clean, tipped me extremely generously for leaving a regular to serve his party drinks with the waitress, and I never really had to deal with it again. If I'd been strung out or drunk at work, I'm sure this would have been a different story, since nearly every ex of mine called at least once every now and then while I was at work or even more commonly to say goodnight after I got home.
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    Why date a stripper?

    Because they are beautiful, sensitive, hard working, and fun-loving women with feelings, who want a nice man in their lives - same as any other girl.

    They just happen to remove their clothes for a living....that's all.
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    Millions of clueless guys have a fantasy about dating strippers because they think we run around in our work outfits, crawling on all fours and swinging our hair.


    Now excuse me while I get back to vacuuming the house in 6in heels and black lace garters....

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    Quote Originally Posted by kandie_kitten View Post
    Just because we're strippers, does not mean we have to strip down upon request, regardless of how attractive the stranger is.

    I mean if you met a ballerina, would you ask her to get en pointe at intervals? Or if you met a girl who was a waitress at a party, would you demand she gets your drinks the entire time? It's just as ridiculous and annoying. Stripping is a job, like any other. It pays the bills, and for many girls, many other things as well.

    I stripped solely for the money. I don't think too many girls strip for life fulfillment. It's a hard job, but if you work hard, the money can't be beat.

    It paid for my college, and let me launch myself into a successful public relations career.

    And what kind of boyfriends do strippers have? Same as any other girl. Some are jerks, some are amazing. I have one of the amazing ones, who I met while I was still a stripper.

    He's understanding and sweet, and he didn't really care that I stripped. He knew I had bills to pay and ambitions to fund.
    This is completely on the mark. I too did it for the money. Would I have done it for little money? Hell no, why would I put up with harassment for little money?

    I don't get why men often think strippers are different than other girls. The only difference is of course more open ness towards nudity, but this even varies with each girl. I never went nude at clubs and certainly didn't spread my legs. Because of being a stripper didn't mean I was more open sexually or anything else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by guysmiley View Post
    Why date a stripper I ask?
    Because you fall in love with a person, not a job title.

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    On my bucket list.

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    I've dated dancers for the same reason I've dated any other woman. I think it's an unfortunate modern tendency to pigeonhole a person by what they do for a living. I truly do not care how you make your money. If you are intelligent, well-read, have lived your life passionately and with conviction, and help others around you, then I want to talk to you. In you are this person and you happen to be a woman, it might turn into something more. I couldn't care less if you dance or drive a garbage truck.

    Both dancers I've dated in the past were awesome people, and had their shit together, and one turned out to be a long term relationship. I've also had similar experiences with hairdressers and a Sotheby's executive and a stock broker. You are not what you own, nor what you do to get paid.

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    Because for the most part they are hot, the ''im fucking a stripper'' male bravado shit, the idea that strippers are dirtier than the ''average'' girl in the bedroom. Once the fantasy becaomes day-to-day reality a lot of men (ive found) cant cope with being with me as a dancer. When g-strings and thigh highs becomes pyjamas and slippers the whole ''super sexy'' thing doesnt work quite as well lol.
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    As I have said before... we are like pet tigers. Beautiful, dangerous and deadly. We have special needs that only a very select few can meet. We require patience, a firm hand, understanding, compassion and A LOT of attention.

    For males or females that can't meet these needs a regular housecat is the solution. It still purrs but it doesn't look as pretty
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    Fortunately mine had never been around the industry so he had no preconceived notions about how strippers were "supposed" to behave. He didn't even know what "extras" were.


    and if he wanted to be a male stripper I'd have a little bit of reservations...
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