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    Dizzy have you ever been drugged at work?

    if so what were the effects? how did you find out?

    long story:

    so i've had this regular for about a year and a half. he always haw a bunch of girls hanging around him. very nice guy he always buy everyone drinks. when things get slow i sit with him bullshit and drink with him and every once and a while he does $400 to $500 in dances.

    ive been sick on and off for the last year as in stomach issues ive been to the emergency room and followed up with my doctor a few times, but they couldnt tell me what was wrong and proscribed me with zantac 150, over the counter stuff for a weak stomach. so every time i got sick after that, i figured it was weak stomach.

    after i get to know a guy for a while occasionally i will go to dinner with them before work. so i did. i get to the restaurant and its so packed that we end up at the bar at first i ordered a water and he was kind of on my case about it, well the bartender carded me so i had to get my id from the car. come back got my drink and was seated at the table. we were there from 6pm to 8:45ish had two glasses of wine with dinner. dumped out the 3rd while he was in the bathroom.

    so time for work! while driving it hits me, my thoughts were "omg i shouldn't be driving" i get into work all spiny. i get dressed walked out of the dressing room and there he is with another glass of wine waiting for me. i sit with him and sipped on my drink, he orders shots for the whole table after a few sets. i had another regular that was coming in at 10:30 and had the dj put me up at about that time. did another shot with first guy right before my set. after that i started to black out. i vaguely remember 2nd customer at stage, then in the front bathroom thinking to myself not to lay on the floor, then in the locker room bathroom throwing up, missing the plastic bag in my hands sitting on the toilet. (sorry for the graphic image)

    i start to come to, cleaned up after myself took a shower and laid in a chair til 4am, spiny the entire time. i texted both guys saying to have fun without me, i didnt want to ruin their night. well the 2nd custy texted me the next morning asking if i was ok. i was starting to piece everything together at that point. so i called him and asked what happened. he told me that i was so out of it and he thought i was drunk. he told me that someone sent over a glass of wine to the table i drank 1 drink and dumped it on the floor, laughed, then passed out in his lap for 10 min, then disappeared.

    i went to the emergency room the next night again doctors couldnt find anything but told me from how much i drank in the time frame, sounded like someone slipped me something.

    first guy didnt text me for a couple days and didnt ask if i was ok, just demanded i go out with him for my b-day. i never texted him back, i've been avoiding him like the plague. he's texted me a few other times as well. he use to come in at least once a week. seen him 1 time since it happened which was almost two months ago. and one last thing my weak stomach has gone away since he's been gone.

    so what do you think? besides watch your drink like the manager said.

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    Default Re: have you ever been drugged at work?

    I never take drinks from others. If they order one for me I watch it being made and I keep it with me all the time, if not I say no thank you.

    I think it adds up, when he went away your problems did. I call it a red flag that he was on you about getting a water. Some might say its cause they want you drunk but still its red flag to me.

    I was drugged once, but since my body doesn't have as many walls as others do I hit the floor in minute and it didn't look like I had one too many.. It also didn't help him that I don't drink do being drunk was out of the question.

    Effects can be dizziness, tipsy, headache, feeling sick, vertigo, your vision going one way and you feel like your going the other way... its large list can they can slip anything...

    I knew a girl that killed herself.. Never had a thought like that before she starting hanging out with her new at work boyfriend.. He was slipping depression pills in her drinks and food. You can figure out the rest of the story.. She was a store clerk. Just remember its not only happens in the stripclub.

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    ^^^ Evil f-ing mother f-er

    I have been OTC when I was younger never ITC- although I was suspicous of a former club regular one time just couldn't be sure. I don't watch my drinks and I need to change that habit.
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    Wow, sorry you went through that.

    Never accept drinks from customers that are already waiting for you. If they already bought you something, dont drink it and just ask "Oh can I have X instead?" and take it from the waitress/bartender.. never leave your drink unattended. If they are pressuring you to drink, be wary.

    Honestly, he seems like a fucking jerk. Take your customer, msg him, make him see you, dont drink with him and try to get all his money off him. Make that mother-fucker broke.

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    Default Re: have you ever been drugged at work?

    a very good friend of mine was drugged
    she was complaining of headaches, feeling disy, feeling sick, stomache hurt...So we all sent her up to the hotel room (we were visiting vegas)
    to lay down and feel better. The next morning another friend found her dead in the room. She had been slipped something.
    I would seriously watch your drinks and dont go around that guy anymore. He sounds like a creeper.
    Im kinda happy Im still underage! Best excuse ever!

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    This happened to me and my friend at a Christmas party a couple of weeks ago. We ran into a guy that used to come into the club and he bought us drinks. Never had any problems with him in the club. Then we both lost it. She drinks more than me so there's no way we both were that far gone at the same time unless someone did something.
    Thank god her fiance and our friends were there to take care of us, I'm not sure what would have happened with out them. I'm glad that you made it through without anything bad happening.

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    I had two firemen come in drinking GHB in liquid form (the date rape drug). It's the first time I ever turned down a room because the one who was drinking was acting really erratic. At this point I didn't know what was in their bottle. I just thought they were just hyped up for the evening. I work day shift and these would've been my last customers. I get another girl for the guy and they go upstairs.

    I'm talking to the other fireman to who my horror, explains to me what was inside their bottle. He tried to make it seem like it was just something relaxing they can drink, that they wouldn't be drug tested for. He even told me how little he would give me when his partner came back. At the end of his story, a waitress comes over and tells us his friend is being kicked out. The other dancer was offered the GHB and told the bouncer she was nervous about taking it.

    It looks, smells, and tastes JUST like water. I didn't taste it but I did get to see and smell it when the bouncer took it away.

    Please be careful, there are really sick people that we unfortunately have to encounter.

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    ^For the record I take GHB recreationally and I have also been drugged with it at work. It is not odourless. It actually tastes and smells much like nail polish remover which is what you mix it usually with a sugary drink to take away the taste. BUT that being said, if it is in alcohol you probably wont taste it. It is used as a date rape drug, but is also used recreationally all the time. Especially in the gay community. It makes you very happy and relaxed and in small doses is almost like a weak ecstasy. In large doses or mixed with alcohol it is a respiratory depressant so you can stop breathing if you overdose. Although I think it is a really good drug, people are not educated about it and it can be highly dangerous. It is a lot of sensitive and reactive than other drugs. The only saving grace is it is metabolised very quickly and does not have a cummulative effect.

    I was drugged with this at work. I know it was this because I take it and know what it feels like. The problem was I was drinking and I never ever drink on this drug. It should not be mixed with alcohol. I do not know when or how it was slipped in my drink. I knew it was GHB also because the effects lasted about 3 hours which is how long it takes for your body to metabolise about 1mL of the drug. I was on my way home when I realised something was wrong and told my taxi driver my husband would be meeting me at the taxi and I might pass out. I rang my husband and told him what happened and he came and had to carry me to the house. I tripped/passed out for about 3-4 hours but I stayed calm because I knew what it was. I didnt really want to go to the hospital because I didnt want to sit in there for hours. My husband just watched me while I was out of it and I chilled listening to my ipod. I was making faces and I couldnt talk very easily and definitely couldnt stand up. I thought I might pee my pants, but I didnt. Once it wore off I felt completely normal... thats how I knew it was GHB.

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    Yup. I don't drink at work, so I ordered this red bull and the guy went to get it and bring it over. It was after a long week of races and I was on my last shift, so I was pretty tired anyway. Then I have some of the drink the guy asks me for a dance, we dance, but toward the end of it my co-ordination is off, I can't even balance properly and he is grabbing at me but I send him out (it's a tight club with cameras and good security so I don't know what he thought he could get away with), then I get him chucked out the club (and his mates, they were time wasters anyway) and the bouncer takes them out. I went into the DR and collapsed for a bit, then it was empty so I sat at the bar sipping water. I was very angry.

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    Yes GHB tastes VERY strongly, you couldn't just put it in someone's water and get away with it. It can be dangerous to drink just out of a bottle because you only need a tiny amount and just a bit over that can really make you sick. You also shouldn't drink alcohol with it. I have done it recreationally too and if you're prepared for it, it's very fun.

    I hear people say "GHB is the date rape drug" a lot, and I just want to make a correction. GHB is used sometimes to drug people, but I think it's much more common to use Rohypnol. I guess anything that you slip in someone's drink to fuck them up is technically a date rape drug, though.

    Sorry that happened to you! I definitely wouldn't trust that guy in the future.
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    i heard that people take GHB recreationally, they said it was like XTC. sorry about your friends livingdeadgirl and sananeko. i guess i'm lucky, i dont drink too much usually, 4 drinks tops before midnight, i have a son im taking care of by myself. i wish i was more careful and was able to identify what was going on at the time. im still very shaken from the whole thing, when i saw him last i almost had a panic attack. i even told the girls what happened and to just be careful around him, he spends a lot of money at one time so i can see how if it didnt happen to them how they couldnt just stay away. one girl was a bitch about it to me after i told her. i dont care if any of them told him, i want to him to know that i know.

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    I am so, so sorry that this happened to you. What a creeper! I'm glad you are safe and have cut off contact with him... No amount of money is worth your health and safety, fuck him. People can be so sick.. it's scary to think about how many men don't give a second thought about doing this. We all just need to be extra careful and not give anyone the benefit of the doubt when it comes to leaving drinks unattended.

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    it could have been G but you mentioned several glasses of wine and shots. sometimes you just get more drunk than others. Also with the amount of alcohol you drank if someone gave you G chances are you would have be a lot worse then you were.
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    ^this was definitely true for me. when i drank i used to wonder why sometimes i could drink half a bottle of vodka and not be falling down drunk and other times i would black out with two drinks.
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    It sounds like you got drugged. Mostly because you ate dinner with the wine...had you not eaten dinner it could have just hit you harder because your stomach was empty.

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    I don't know if it's stopped, but there were girls at my club saying they were slipped something. I have seen these girls DRINK and then recreationally do whatever drugs. So halfway through the night they stop watching their drinks.
    One girl fell off her barstool and hit her head. I think one or two went to the hospital.
    What scares me for them is the amount of other stuff they do. Then some sick fuck adds to it.
    That's the thing to is the girls don't leave with the guys. So it's not like whoever is doing it is going to get lucky.
    So then you have to wonder if he's just trying to kill someone. B/c it seems like whatever it is it's not fun. Vomiting and I don't know what else.
    That's what really pisses me off about another club I worked at. They would just let a guy order a drink for you and I would see girls come over and drink it b/c he's a regular.
    Like someone said. Refuse it.. Say the ice melted and you want a fresh one or you changed your mind and want something else.
    I personally bring my own bottled water with me and keep it in my purse.
    FUCK THAT.

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