hi.. I tried dancing for the first time back in the summer and I like it. I'm going to start dancing soon to save up money.
I just had a big fight with my bf of four years about it. He said that I should be very shameful about wanting to do it..because he is shame of me. I am very hurt by what he said. We never really have the greatest relationship. He is one of those type of guys that are very brutally honest. .. I need some support from you girls... If your bf ever tell you that he is very shameful of you being a stripper...What would you do? Could handle of how your bf view you and still dance? ...I broke up with him because of that... I really need the fast cash for this whole year...and he cant help me financially anyway. I don't think I could handle it mentally. He was also criticizing me about getting all these ideas that there are strippers that put themselves thru school, started business, and so on.. BECAUSE I've been reading this site. He thinks all strippers are drug addict, prostitutes, and so on...even if they are not, they will become eventually.....
I don't think so. I think many of you girls on this site are quite intelligent..
Have anyone picked stripping over a relationship and become financially stable? Anyone regrets it? Please share some insights.... I'm so hurt and lost at the moment... I don't know who else to talk to...as I don't know any dancers..



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For the longest time I felt that I could never be good enough for him
so i think he is so not worth it move on. If i had not found some one like I did I would not be able to be in a relationship while dancing. I only dance during the breaks I just started the summer of 2010 and plan to do it only on breaks if I can and have a normal job in between thus far it seems to be working

I think I may have to break up with him in September because I need to work and our lives appear to be going different directions. If you love him very much, as I do my boyfriend (we live together) then get a pole and practice at home for the big day when you can carry on. Sigh. Men are so boring.

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