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    This is a really tough subject for me, so please don't leave any snide remarks about it. =/
    Here it goes..
    I have a small sized brown birthmark between my vagina and anus and I'm rather self conscious about it. I'm afraid men will think its shit or something and they wont buy dances. This is why I work at a topless club.
    Have any of you encountered such birthmarks while in the industry? Or know if there's any way to remove it? I don't want this to stop me from working at a fully nude club one day.
    Thanks for your understanding!

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    Last edited by Athenathefabulous; 02-25-2011 at 04:37 AM.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    It's totally possible to work in a nude club without anyone ever seeing your birthmark. If you're standing nude, no one can see that area. On stage, you can just be aware of what moves you're doing and not give full on leg-spread views. During dances, there's no need to do that either.

    Plus, the vast majority of guys won't even notice and/or care.

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    Google up a cosmetic/plastic surgery clinic in your area, and go for a consultation. I'm guessing around $300 to have it removed.

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    If you work in a lap dance club, no one may even see it. I agree with what Sia says. Have any of your partners ever said anything about it? Maybe its less noticeable than you think. I have a tiny skin tag in that area - which I didnt even realise was different then other girls until I started dancing. Granted its obvious that it is just a small bit of skin and nothing else. No one has ever mentioned it. Not in bed or at the club and I work at a spread em table dance sort of place.

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    Athenathefabulous
    I just tried it with the lights off with some candles on and you're right, it's pretty hard to see. =] I would just need to be careful on stage with the blue and red lights.

    Jessie_tinydancer
    I've only had a couple partners, and the only one who has ever said anything is my bf of a 1 1/2. Maybe it isn't too detrimental to my dancing career.

    I'll just have to avoid spread eagle or eventually get it removed like hockeybobby suggested. Hopefully the customers will be too drunk to even notice =]

    Thanks a whole bunch girls!

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    ^customers arent looking at your vagina when they book at dance anyway. So even if he does notice in the dance (which he prob wont because hell be looking right at the vagina, not the area around it) worst that happens is he doesnt stay for another dance. Or if he says something, just say... oh thats just my beauty mark... God blessed my kitty! Shes heavenly!

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    ^
    Those are cute lines. =] I'll def use them when I travel to nearby San Fran/Sacramento. That is if they even notice it! thx

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    OP, if the mark isn't raised its unlikely that a doctor would want to mess with it, or that you should. Myself & two other friends had spots "removed", I actually had three removed, all of us by different doctors & none of the results were great. All of our spots pretty much look like cigarette burn marks after the doctors "removed" them. One of mine was sort of a really dark freckle spot, which came back. The second was a dark semi-flat mole. The third the doctor called a "trauma spot", & when he said that I immediately remembered being stung by a bee on that spot when I was 4. The spot was small, but in a bad location & since it was red you can imagine what people thought! It was similar to this, but not as raised & lighter in color:
    http://www.realself.com/files/000_0140-32764.jpg

    It's called a keloid scar. Anyhow, the second two spots look horrible compared to what they looked before, & these were removed more than two years ago.

    Talk to your doctor. The skin in that area is really sensitive, but he might be able to give you a cream to lighten it. Another option MIGHT be to use the bleach used for anal bleaching. I'm not sure how close you can get that to the vaginal area though, so again - talk to a doctor.
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    Its a bummer to hear that you and your friends had such bad results. I'd be livid if I went in to remove my "beauty mark" and came out with something looking like a cigarette burn.
    Anyway, I'm setting up a gyno appt now. I'll come back and let you all know what I've learned.

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    i have a mole near my vagina and never had any problems or anything related to it ever surfaced.

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    Im not the only one then... =] Do you work at a nude club? It's funny how something so small can make your confidence go down once the panties are off.
    I feel like Goddess when my panties are on though lol

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    ^^^ Lol you are FAR from being the only one. Like I said, myself & two friends had spots, all three of us in the same bad spot. I also have a friend who has a mark like yours... its a large birthmark right between the bum cheeks. You are not alone at all.
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    Thought I'd chime in and say I have one too! It's pea sized and a bit darker than my skin tone, almost in the same area you described. It's kinda closer to my ass crack. No boyfriend or customer has ever said anything about it. And I work in a club that is nude on stage. Don't let it hold you back, it's not a big deal

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    I usually bleach my birthmarks using hydroquinine, and if that doesn't work, you could always use stay-on makeup... that stuff from the leg infomercial, right to bare legs, works really well for me. It doesn't rub off, which I like. Esoterica is good for bleaching out your birthmarks.

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    ^I'll look into that. Do you use it on sensitive areas?

    Jade: Hearing that from you makes me feel much better =] Chime away anytime!

    Again thx everyone for all the feedback.

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    Quote Originally Posted by renaissancelove View Post
    ^I'll look into that. Do you use it on sensitive areas?
    Really often, actually, and as long as it doesn't touch your inner labia/actual vag, it'll be fine. It just feels uncomfortable if you put a load of it on and a lot ends up inside your chooch, but if it's just a non-damp but delicate tissue area, you'll be fine... and I have really sensitive skin.

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    Most guys will not care. Use it to break the ice. Ask them if they WANT to see it. then they know that is what it is and you don't have to worry anymore. It can be your little $$ maker.

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    I have a very visible birthmark. No one ever says anything about it. I never worry about it.

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    yups i work at a nude club and nothing ever has come up about it, i actually forgot about it until i read this thread! no problems!

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    I have a little dark mole just behind my twinkle and to the left, i honestly never got any snide remarks from customers or girls about it and forgot it was there for the most part until one young lad said ''hehe, i just saw your freckle on your pussy!'' you probably think its bigger than it is and are far more worried than ya need to be, however, if it does honestlt bother youm maybe dont do the bendy over legs apart move during lappies without your knickers on?

    Ive always worked in fully nude clubs and its usually so dark they cant differentiate anyway hun

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    I have a little brown birthmark on my butt. i used to hate it but all the boyfriends i ever have seem to think its cute. i have gotten comments from customers but (knock on wood) nothing negative.
    I used to cover it with makeup but one time it rubbed off ON some one. YIKES

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    if your comfortable you could always ask a friend at work if they notice it, maybe when your closed or something, and pull your bottoms to the side. i would say hold a compact mirror there but most guys arent gynocologists trying to give you an exam there

    i get acne on my butt (work in nude club), and all the girls think im silly for putting makeup on my butt to cover it up-they always say"no one is going to notice". i realize it is different and smaller, but ive never had anyone say anything

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