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    so last night when i was drunk at work i was texting greg...the guy i went and met in truckee. (i met him from my previous club in champagne room). i texted him that money is bad right now and me driving down there to see him shouldnt be free. he never texted back until tonight saying-how much do you need for the trip down? its like half hour or twenty min trip from reno to truckee by the way. i dont know if he means like gas money or me spending time with him money(as in being a stripper kinda thing).....i had a good time with him last time. i almost feel like a bitch or akward accepting money. should i just suck it up and get that money or what???ugh im so confused on what he means. you should read the first thread by the way. i reaaalllly need advice so anything is appreciated thanks.
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    You were the one who txt'd him implying that you wanted him to give you money. You said "money is bad now and you going to see him shouldn't be free"....I'd say if you were really into him you wouldn't have mentioned needing money....sounds like you still think of him as a customer before potential boyfriend.

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    I think if your going to drink.. take the battery out of your phone first..

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    sounds like you still think of him as a customer before potential boyfriend.
    This is where Im confused? I read your first post about this guy, and in that one it kinda sounded like you were interested in him. Now it sounds like your not? Decide what you want from this guy. Is he a potential sugar daddy or a potential friend/bf?

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    thats what im confused about.....im just not going to text him back and wait and see. and yea next time i work and drink the battery is outta my phone. i was just hoping you guys would be like....yea get that money! lol
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    but wasn't it your idea to have sex with him? I don't really think you should have sex with someone and then two weeks later demand money for it...

    It'd be one thing if you asked him to come see you at the club where he'd hopefully spend on you, but this is just weird and wrong.
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    i knowwww!!! i effed up! i just wanted a lil money for driving down there i dunno
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    If its just the gas money and he's asking YOU to drive down there, then sure, i'd take it. When he gives it to you just thank him and say you really appreciate it. 30 minutes there and back should only be like 10 bucks, no biggie
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    Wow! You sound pretty confused...what is it that you want from this guy?

    If you want him to be a boyfriend, then asking for a little gas money is fine, but don't expect it to be much, and don't ask him for anything else.

    If you want him to be a sugar daddy - start asking for money NOW, and make it what you expect to get from him consistently.

    If you want him to be a customer - ask him to come in to the club for christ's sake!!

    and finally - if you want him to straight up pay you for sex, then ask him for whatever is the standard in your area.

    First and foremost - don't shift the goalposts on the poor guy! If you've given him the impression that you want to date him, and then ask him for money, and then don't, and then sleep with him, and then ask him to come to the club, and then act like you want to date him.....you are screwing with him. Sorry to be a little blunt, sweetie, but I'm starting to feel bad for the dude! You can't change how you treat him depending on how much money you are making...think how you would feel if someone did that to you!

    I really hope you figure it out - it sounds like you like this guy!
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    Didn't you just let your ex fuck you in a sort of nasty way with the meth?
    I hate to be mean, but they are always saying men think with their dicks lol. Use your head, girl!

    You seem very nice, just a little confused and not very good at resisting temptation. You are not the kind of girl who should follow what is so often the worst possible advice:

    'You have to follow your heart!'

    Bullshit. Every time I've seen a woman torn by a dilemma 'follow her heart', she wound up pregnant, beaten up, dumped--or all three at once.

    I don't think it's bad for you to want a little gas money. OTOH, one good thing could come of this. If you get there and he gives you more than 50$ for gas, you are just a prostitute, in his mind. But it did sound like he might actually have liked you, it does happen even in the clubs, sometimes. It's hard to say without seeing you two together, watching the body language, etc.
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    Get your emotions straight. What do you want from this guy?
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    I felt bad for being a bit heavy there and came back to maybe delete that post or chop some out, but it's been quoted so what the hell.

    Anyway don't feel bad--I've seen many, many friends do way,way worse things. And you really do seem like a very open, friendly person which is so rare anymore. I just want you to take good care of yourself.
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    And you really do seem like a very open, friendly person which is so rare anymore. I just want you to take good care of yourself.
    ^ this! &
    I agree with pretty much everything djoser wrote on both posts. Let us know how things go!

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    i'v just quit talking to him completely, same with my ex. i feel lonely ...my best friend moved to new york and my other bf is seeing family in ireland. just concentrating on work....and old friends. and na there was no nasty fucking with the ex...just rough. well anyways....im sick of men!!! they all just want one thing....most of the time...
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    Quote Originally Posted by jules477 View Post
    ....im sick of men!!! they all just want one thing....most of the time...
    I feel ya tonight girl.
    Its probably best youve moved on from both IMO

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    Quote Originally Posted by jules477 View Post
    i'v just quit talking to him completely, same with my ex. i feel lonely ...my best friend moved to new york and my other bf is seeing family in ireland. just concentrating on work....and old friends. and na there was no nasty fucking with the ex...just rough. well anyways....im sick of men!!! they all just want one thing....most of the time...
    Good for you... Its the past move on to focus on postive things like work and school. Keeping busy will keep you less lonely. Im sure you'll be fine soon.

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