I love my ex boyfriend and I know he loves me.
...but there's a reason why he's my EX. He is too persistent. When he wants something he will ask/harass you until he gets a YES. He is over whelming when he does this and I'm bad under pressure- he knows this. He is also extremely inconsiderate, somewhat controlling and disrespectful.
The last straw for me: one morning, I had to catch a flight. ....it's 6:45am- the time we were to leave, I notify him and he goes "We are leaving at 7." He said it was in his "I'm a dick" tone of voice. I'm disappointed because head is pounding, slept only 20 min because I couldn't sleep and the last thing I want is to get to my gate just as they are boarding- It stresses me out and I like to be at airports when I don't have to worry about the line not moving fast enough.
I say to him, "Why do you have to be controlling? This is MY flight." (maybe it came off wrong because I was stressed out) he starts calling me names, picks on me, JUST PUSHING MY BUTTONS- I ask him to stop and he keeps going and going, every word I say, he screams "she hulk" at this point I am getting very upset ...7am comes around and I tell him it's 7am and he goes- "drop the attitute."I tell him I dont have one and he continues with picking on me, calling me names, yelling at me and while he is doing this, I am screaming PLEASE STOP. 7:10 comes around and while I'm stressing about my flight this guy is picking on me and calling me names to the point I am so overwhelmed and angry, trying so hard to not lose it that I start CRYING. He goes "Are you really crying? You're sad and pathetic, this is hilarious."
This is the behavior I deal with all the time. The guys a hardcore dick- that's just part of his personality. So I pretty much ended it with him and cutting him out of my life even though I love him with all my heart.
Am I over reacting by cutting him off?



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