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    i love my mum. shes my best friend and the only person i have in the world.
    her pap test just came back abnormal and im really really worried. her best friend died of cervical cancer. im really really hoping my mummy will be fine... apparently she gets a full analysis on monday.
    im really worried for her shes my everything.

    i need a hug and some reassuring words

    but my phone just broke and im alone

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    Try not to get too worried..
    I wonder how common this is?
    My pap always comes up abnormal..
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    Dont get stressed before knowing the actual answer.
    My pap test came out abnormal too.. Doc said its normal, due to certain bacteria(s).

    Dont over worry yourself that will just make you worse, you'll get an answer on Monday. Im sure everything is ok.

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    there was some talk of cancerous cells which i didnt like
    but you guys are right, i shouldnt worry worry until i have a reason to but i still worry, its not something i like hearing
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    My paps always come back abnormal - if your mothers never had an abnormal pap before now then she's in amazingly great health. The occasional abnormal Pap is actually fairly...normal.

    Also, talk of cancerous cells don't always mean straight-up cancer. It could be something small they could remove, it could be sometime a little bigger they may use a bit of radiation on, and even in the small chance it could be worse than that there are tons and tons of treatments.

    False positives happen a lot. I had a false positive on a cancer screening for a harmless ovarian cyst.

    Don't fret about what it could be. Statistically, it's probably something small. Just know that you love and care about you Mom, and no matter what you're going to be there to help her through. You'll be alright love, be strong.

    XOXO!

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    ((hugs))

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    In 2005 I had an abnormal pap. Turns out I had precancerous cells because of HPV. I had them removed and they never returned. It's possible this is what your mom has. *Hugs*.

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    Dont' worry... my pap has come back abnormal for the last two years... it doesn't automatically mean cancer... just try and stay positive about everything (i know MUCH easier said than done) *hugs*

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    I had precancerous cells removed twice. The gyno was good about scheduling the surgery, and if I was older (my mom's age) she wouldve taken it even more seriously. Honestly the surgery took 15 minutes, I was knocked out for it, and they just cut out the bad cells. It took longer to wake up for surgery than it did to have it. The precancer cells never returned in that area, and I was just sore down there for a few days is all. If its precancer cells, they move very slowly from one stage to the next, so its usually very rare that it ends up being cancer. Its pretty much unheard of for it to be one of those things you hear about where "i felt fine one day, then sick the next, and boom i had stage IV cancer."

    I know your worried and I was too when I found out. But my mom also had some abnormal cells and because it was so minor for her, they just froze them off in the gyno's office. She wasnt put under or given a valium or anything.

    if it will help, some research on abnormal paps for statistics, when I say how low the cancer rate is and how common it is to have an abnormal test result. if it will worry you more, then just spend some time with your mom, have a girls night, etc.

    Keep us updated!

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    As everyone said, an abnormal pap and talk of cancerous cells doesn't automatically = cancer, and cancer =/= death sentence. It's very fortunate that your mum is getting a full analysis on Monday, so neither of you will have to wait long to find out what it really is. Stay strong.

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    Just sending positive thoughts your way, and I trust everything will be all right. Hope you're doing okay.
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    Hope your mom got good news. I also had an abnormal pap before and had to get a Colposcopy to investigate further but it was just slight damage to my cervix (probably from sex and a weakened cervix due to birth control). They did a follow up 3, 6 and 12 months later and all were normal.

    My bestie also had to have surgery on cancerous cells on hers and she is fine now.

    Good thing your mom went and found this. I know a lot of older women are slack about getting pap tests for some reason. *hugs*

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    yeah shes setting up an appointment wednesday now i think just so we know the severity.
    i feel a bit better, especially now that i got to hang out with her and hopefully i can post optimistic updates soon..
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    still waiting.
    however with the tests she underwent, the docs would have been able to see if she was in the last / most dangerous phase of this cancer stuff.
    now i sleep slightly better but not completely.

    i cant wait to just know, the anxiety is still killing me
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    apparently mum amazed the doctors my being perfectly healthy!!

    i am sooo happy.

    we can all sleep well tonight!

    thnx for all the hugs everyone! it was a huge rough patch

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    I'm very happy for you Edit: and mom of course, lol.

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    =] thnx me toooooo
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    aw gooood! Im glad shes alright!!

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    Beautiful.

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