Have you ever been seduced by a customer?
Have you ever been seduced by a customer?
Is this a serious question?
No. Never. Nor will it ever happen. Any customer who even TRIED that with me would be thrown out the door so fast it would make his head spin.
Sorry if this was a naive fantasy of yours...
Hahah No.
Men use the same lines, over and over again.. it truely works.


Sadly yes, in a moment of true naivety. Strip club- not a good place to meet boyfriends!!!!!!





Yes, one time but didn't work until months later. Years later I am suffering a terrible broken heart from which I will never recover so no I'd never advise this.
I only opened this thread because Big Boy is a name I call every guy I know.
Most of us learn early on that guys in the club see us as different and less worthy of honesty or respect than other women. It's a tough lesson that most dancers are smart enough to never forget. Plus, the guys that think they are suave are really usually lame as hell. As a dancer, you'll get hit on 20+ times a night on a slow night....and hear the same lame assed lines almost every time. *rolls eyes*
"I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."





The chances are your wallet will attract a lot more attention than your "suave" personality will and the affection that you receive will last just about as long as your cash does. But let's just say for the sake of argument that a dancer actually gives you the time of day. What's your goal? Are you just looking to get laid? Are you looking for a girlfriend? A future wife? Are you just looking to be able to brag to your friends and here on line that you bagged a stripper?
As she often does, princessjas raises a very valid point. Most guys view dancers with less respect than they do non-dancers. This is not fair and certainly not deserved but it is sadly true. What makes you different?
It's almost always the bragging rights they are after! It's why I've always prefered men who can be at least moderately discrete.
Seriously though, listen to yoda about it being your wallet that attracts us! As I told someone on here just the other day....You can totally buy my love....it'll take about 50-60 CR or one very large cash infusion. I'm almost certain that'd work....what say we give it a try?
*blushes* Awww!
"I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."
i see every woman the same way. not trying to be argumentative when i say this but were all human which makes us susceptible to our emotions. in other words if the guy is as good as me at getting girls and influences others emotions as i do. then he should have no problem getting a girl interested in them. i completely understand that dancing is your profession and that it pays the bills. that's great for you all!





Oh. My. God. You may not realize this, but in these two sentences you come across as arrogant and manipulative. "influences others emotions"? Seriously? Maybe I just have an issue with the idea of being "seduced"...sounds a lot like "convinced to do something I didn't really want to through the use of manipulation". When I meet someone that I end up dating (OUTSIDE the club), its a lot simpler than "seduction" and "influencing emotions". We meet, we like each other. We have fun. Repeat until relationship is formed.
On another note: I do not see men as men when I am working. Sorry. I see you as big ol walking wallets. I am probably only vaguely aware of anything that you are doing or saying, and the part that I am aware of is the part that I can use to further my sale, or close the deal. I don't remember names or faces without a real effort, and I make that effort when money is involved.
This comes up SO much in this forum - you can't "make" a dancer fall for you boys. But you can pay her to pretend she is!!
I take cash, debit or credit. I just don't take shit.
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We all know Big Boy is different than all customers, him being "suave" and all. I bet he's so suave he doesn't even buy any table dances and still gets girls.
I am being facetious of course. It's always the guys like this who end up alone and bitter.





As Ive said over and over, inside a SC it works just like OTC - it depends on the girl. There are girls that will never, ever go home with or date someone they met ITC. There are girls who go home with customers regularly (aside from the ones that do this for money). There are girls that have once or a few times and never will again; there are girls who have once or a few times and might do it again.
I pound that point over and over and over because I agree with the girls and veteran members here who see these threads all the time that it's unlikely and generally a waste of time and that the motive behind the question is tired and worn and moderately (being nice here) disrespectful. But as someone who has "seduced" (I literally rolled my eyes as I typed that) many dancers ITC and slept with or dated them OTC and who is currently engaged to a young lady I met ITC, I have to say it can and does happen.
I have never - not once, ever - gone into a SC with the intention of taking a girl home or getting a date. And since the dancers that I have "bagged" (I had to, lol) have generally been the "higher quality" (not trashy, drugged out, etc) girls that either don't do this at all or very often, I like to try and get the point across - over and over - that the single best way to "bag a stripper" is to not try and "bag a stripper".
Last edited by Almost Jaded; 01-09-2011 at 10:50 PM.



Why are you even here? You should be out using your amazing seducing powers
this post was highly amusing to me! i giggled....so arrogant who ever started this post..big boy?if you are so sauve why are you on this site ...probably stalking our posts ...and you had to post this...ugh. forgive me...i'v had a bad day...i'll prob get shit for this
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]jules








Yes this has happened to me. Yes I have been seduced by a customer.




nope. i went out on a couple dates with custies here and there, but was never "f-closed" by any. unless you count the hot barely legal one that brought out my cougar in training tendencies, but i was the one who closed that deal. but then, suave guys usually don't have a chance in hell with me, irl or otc. sets off my bullshit detector.
but of course some strippers can be "seduced". usually when they're newbs, or if they're on drugs.
one time, this guy tried to use obvious nlp patterns on me. it was really cute. he got so confused when i stopped playing along. if you're gonna pull that shit, at least make it a bit more contextual and use better segues. i almost felt sorry for him.
-love everyone but keep them far from your soul-
Im sure your powers work hence you ending up in a stripclub, PL much?





Very true and also a partial explanation for the fact the converse is true. Generally speaking, dancers have very little respect, initially at least, for a customer in the club. Can you get a date with a dancer? I guess so, but the fact you are meeting the way you are makes it highly unlikely and less likely than if you met the same girl elsewhere.
"never trust a big butt and a smile"-- Bell Biv DeVoe
If you're in your twenties and aren't a liberal, you have no heart. If you're in you're forties and aren't a conservative, you have no brain - Winston Churchill
A customer tried once, but I told him I didn't play for his team.
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Any guy looking for a date inside a SC is an idiot who will--good news for the dancers--spend a ton of money chasing a dream. Been there, done that.
Speaking only for myself, I've liked dancers for a long time, and it was only after much reflection that I came to understand the appeal (aside from physical beauty and faux hypersexuality): Because of their work, they've heard every line in the book and generally have an excellent bullshit radar when it comes to us guys. In other words, I'm asking for trouble if I pretend to be anything other than what I am. I find that freeing and enjoyable.








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