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    Well I know I only mentioned this once before but some of you know I care for my sister part of the time because she has had stage 4 Ovarian cancer and has been battling it for over 2 years...well yesterday they told us it is now in her lung and no further treatments would help. We are meeting with a home hospice person tomorrow and it sounds like they will just send her home for her last days. Our parents passed years ago so it is just her and I soon to be just me I'm so sad and tearing up even now. I know this isn't cam related but you all are so awesome I just needed to let it out. Somehow this week I also need to make 100 bucks to pay my overdue rent and keep my lights on. Getting on cam and trying to act like everything is normal is going to be really tough. I will be ok but this all really is heart wrenching. All I can say is nobody should have to suffer with cancer of any kind. It's a horrible disease. Thanks for listening....

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChrissyBBW View Post
    Well I know I only mentioned this once before but some of you know I care for my sister part of the time because she has had stage 4 Ovarian cancer and has been battling it for over 2 years...well yesterday they told us it is now in her lung and no further treatments would help. We are meeting with a home hospice person tomorrow and it sounds like they will just send her home for her last days. Our parents passed years ago so it is just her and I soon to be just me I'm so sad and tearing up even now. I know this isn't cam related but you all are so awesome I just needed to let it out. Somehow this week I also need to make 100 bucks to pay my overdue rent and keep my lights on. Getting on cam and trying to act like everything is normal is going to be really tough. I will be ok but this all really is heart wrenching. All I can say is nobody should have to suffer with cancer of any kind. It's a horrible disease. Thanks for listening....


    This is horrible...I'm so sorry, Chrissy!

    You're a very good sister, and I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Continue to be the wonderful sister that you are, and remember that you have a group of friends here at SW who would give you a great big hug right now if we could.

    Also, maybe you can try www.chipin.com and/or www.gofundme.com.

    Your regulars of the cam site(s) you're on may even be willing to help you out. *HUGS*
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    So sorry that you are going through this. Sending you lots of love right now. Stay strong. x

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    Thanks so much to both of you and I am going to look into both of your suggestions Brown Fox. I didn't know about either one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChrissyBBW View Post
    Thanks so much to both of you and I am going to look into both of your suggestions Brown Fox. I didn't know about either one.


    No problem, Chrissy. I've seen that some girls on here have their ChipIn link in their forum signature, and I was thinking about starting one of my own.
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    wow, i am so sorry to hear what you are going through
    you are a strong woman and you are in my thoughts
    **hugs**
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    I am so sorry for everything you are going through. I hope you can push it all back for at least an hour or so to make the money you need and be able to focus on your sister completely. ((HUGS))

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    Thanks everybody I am truly going to try to suck it up and make that little 100 whenever I make it back home to my apt. The supportive words are so appreciated!

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    Hi there,
    Many blessings & prayers to you & your sis. I have been a caregiver, it's rough. Please take care of yourself too, as much as you can. Good luck.


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    Yes Chrissy make sure to take care of yourself too. I am so sorry. If I could reach out and touch you, I'd be giving you the biggest hug ever. You and your sister are in my prayers.

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    I'm really new here, but I'm here to tell ya, cancer sucks.
    My dad died of Glio Blastoma (sp?) two years ago this month, and my husband's ex now has vaginal cancer. (trust me, you don't want to know what they do if you have it.)
    I'm so sorry you're going through this. (and of course I'm sorry your sister is too.)
    Be as strong as you can, and turn to others when you can't.
    Best of luck to both of you...

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    I'm so sorry to hear that! This must be such a hard time for you - you and your sister will be in my prayers tonight.

    You are such a strong woman to take care of your sister and be there for her - I'm sure you can draw on that strength to make all the money you need to take care of yourself..I know you can do it!!
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    I'm sorry to hear this about your sister. *hugs*
    Taking a break from all unproductive shit will prove to be the best choice you can make.

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    *Big Hugs* So sorry to hear what you are going through. Stay strong for your sister, and for yourself.

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    Wow that's awful... I'm really sorry. It's very hard losing family members. I'm sure you'll get through this. Just take it day by day and draw on your inner strength to pull through.

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    ((Hugs))

    I'm so sorry to hear this. A BIG ol' hug from me.

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    Lots of love from me. It's so hard doing what you are doing. I'm in the middle of it myself. Put a chip in link on your post. For camming, when I am down, I crank some music that I know won't mess with my head, and it helps the time pass no matter what they guys think of my personal music choice!!!!!! HUGGGGGSSSS Katie

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    )-: Sorry to hear that xxx

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    How awful for you. Stay stong, sending healing thoughts your way.

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    Thank you to you all for all the positive vibes you have been sending our way. We just got home from the hospital and they have brought in a hospital bed, a special chair that lifts to help her stand up and a whole lot of other helpful items. She is now officially on home hospice and a nurse will start coming tomorrow. This is rough but I am going to stay strong and you all are the best!
    Much love and hugs.

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    Aww honey, soooo sorry to hear this. I can only echo what everyone has said, and tell you that you are in my thoughts. Definitely take care of yourself, even it's just just a bubble bath with a nice glass on wine.

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    I am very sorry. I know those words can't change anything, but I know exactly what you are going through. It is hard, but just know that you do not have to go through it alone. You and your sister will definitely be in my prayers tonight. Mucho love.
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    Chrissy, I am so very sorry to hear this. BIG hugs to you. And when you're with her..just be present in THE moments. Don't think about the future stuff..she is here NOW. So enjoy your precious hugs, conversations, special times. We are here for you. xoooxx

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