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    Default Re: "You Planned Badly BC U R Dancing in Ur Early 30s and Have Nothing to Fall Back O

    It sounds like you gained a LOT from your dancing - maybe not savings, but a lot more besides!

    And it sounds like you do have something to fall back on - you have degrees! While they are maybe not worth as much as you would like, they are definitely putting you in a better situation than having no education...

    I think it sounds like you are doing just fine honey...and you are 30? Well guess what - you've got another 50 years to live, to find yourself, to change careers, try new things...don't stress about not having everything sorted out right now - like you said, its never too late...: )
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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    It sounds like you gained a LOT from your dancing - maybe not savings, but a lot more besides!

    And it sounds like you do have something to fall back on - you have degrees! While they are maybe not worth as much as you would like, they are definitely putting you in a better situation than having no education...

    I think it sounds like you are doing just fine honey...and you are 30? Well guess what - you've got another 50 years to live, to find yourself, to change careers, try new things...don't stress about not having everything sorted out right now - like you said, its never too late...: )

    Yes I am in my early 30s..a little past 30 though. Your right its better to have them even if they r lousy 2 year degrees. I am on my way. I think its hard for me to see that sometimes bc it seems like its taking me forever to achieve anything or complete anything. I dont have much patience..and if I can learn to work a little harder and realize things take time to happen Id be better off. But its hard to make urself realize all of that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shift_6x View Post
    That's true not everyone measures success in dollar increments, but it seems like the majority of the world does. Everyone judges everyone by their job which is unfair. Yet, I did buy myself alot of experiences..those were the truly fun things..Going for rides in the mountains..climbing the moutains, coming across a wild bear...I saw so many things in so many different states, I was spoiled beyond belief by certain guys..Had incredible dinners...One was almost 800 one nite...Anyways point is I learned alot..I learned that people who have money can buy people and that wasnt what I really wanted. I wanted love over money. It seems like a no brainer that being with someone bc of what they can give u isnt going to last. But coming from nothing--being poor the allure of material things was reeling...And once one person has spolied u the other comes in and tries to provide alot...And then I ended up loving someone who told me straight out I cant spoil u like everyone else..I dont have the money. I respected that he wanted to be with me but couldnt offer the things the former bfs could. I chose love over maybe someone who could provide more monetarily.

    I really experienced enough almost for an entire lifetime in my 20s. Now I want to settle down..But its hard to find the right person..Its hard to find a workable match. Some guys r intimidated or feel "Ive been around" too much prior to them..but thats life and they had also been a few years younger than me so thats usually what someone who has a couple years on u has--more life experiences. I find that only guys my age or a little older really get my point of view...There r the exceptions I suppose..But guys my age usually have been married, r married or have kids..I cant relate to them in that aspect and I dont mesh w alot of guys my age due to that..which is y I end up w younger guys who have not been married and have no kids--
    The more you post, the more you sound like me. Regarding guys, I have found out myself that even though I am older than you (I am 39 for two more weeks) there are still decent guys out there. I was worried that I would only find divorced men with kids, but am finding that there are never married childless men even into their 40's and 50's. Sure they are hard to find, but they are out there. In the spring there is a singles group I am going to. However, I doubt I'll ever tell any man how much I've been around (though not as much as would be expected). I don't know where you live, but most of my friends didn't marry until their 30's and quite a few are still single.

    One thing I don't judge men about is what they do for a living. In fact I generally try to go after men that don't make a lot and the reason is they tend to be more down to earth about jobs. Also, these men generally aren't as chauvinistic as many men with money. Maybe because they know they won't get as many women as the wealthier men so they are often more open to having a working wife (my big issue with dating). In the past I dated a few guys with money and sure they could spoil me in the long run they were selfish men.

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    In the past I dated a few guys with money and sure they could spoil me in the long run they were selfish men.[/quote]


    Yes they were very selfish men. But what Im finding is that this is true with men who r attractive like my bf--and he really isnt all that in comparison to others. He doesnt have alot of money, but he knows he has his looks. That makes him very selfish. Id be a lying hypocrit if I sat here and said that I wasnt selfish as well. Bc I am selfish too. But Im alot more giving than him. Hell Im needier too. I like a man who needs a woman and is all about her. So many guys r into their own things and their friends and although this is healthy it isnt the kind of guy I want. I want someone whos obsessed with me not someone who is obsessed over hanging out w friends or trucks or motorcycles..Especially when the guy doesn't want me included. I dont like that at all. I want to feel welcome all the time. SO many men dont understand women..Ill just leave it at that. When Im with a guy hes number 1 and i want to be number 1 to him as well.

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