Just wondering if you call the other girls by their stage or real names in the club?

Just wondering if you call the other girls by their stage or real names in the club?
Stage names always. I never wanted to be too friendly with other girls. I was there to work, not socialize. Also, if you get in a habit of calling a girl by her real name, it is too easy to slip and use that name in front of a custy.
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Even if I knew their real name I ALWAYS used their stage name. At one point I was dancing in some of the same clubs as my then best friend and she slipped and used my real name. She then apologized and said she was kidding.
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Stage names. Even when the dancer herself has a few customers that know her by her real name, I would never take the chance...and I would LYNCH anyone who called me by my real name at the club!
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Stage names. I actually have the opposite problems and accidentally call my friends by their stage names outside of the club, and then have to cover and say I had a brain-fart.




Stage names. I have to laugh when I speak with customers and they tell me the girls real name. I'm like really?
Stage names... I rarely get close enough to girls to know their real name.
Some like the privacy, some dont care.




stage name always. i prefer to not even know their real name.
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+1
I call them by their stage names most of the time. Most of the people I run with know each other's legal names from making travel reservations & such, but even when its just us we use our stage names because in many ways its a better representation of who we are.
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As someone fortunate enough to share time with dancers both in and out of the club, this is a never-ending challenge to always call them by the appropriate name in the appropriate place. I spend some time with girls in work when they are around customers who know them by their stage name only and some time with girls away from the club when they are around people who may not even know they dance. There are a couple of (former) dancers I'm occasionally around and we pretend not to even know each other depending on who's around and their proximity. It can get even worse if you are talking about Asian dancers, many of whom have a birth name, an "American" name, and one or more stage names. Its not always easy to keep them all straight.
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I've had guys think I must either be a bitch or really new because I don't know all the girls by their real names.
There's around 100 girls at my current club, I usually switch clubs every 6ish months (for travel), there's A LOT of girls that will only work in a club for 1-4 weeks. I struggle to keep track of stage names let alone knowing real names as well. Sure there are some I socialise with outside of work and know by real names but as others have already said I'd prefer not to know as I don't want to slip up or have them slip up in front of a customer.
Plus I've worked with quite a few who are adamant about their privacy and as far as I know NO dancers know them by their real name and if they contact dancer's outside of work it will be through their dancer persona's e-mail.





Stage names but I remember when this girl had the stage name of "sandi" and I was drunk, I would randomly wander onto her stage. It didn't help that we both danced to KMFDM, Slipknot, etc
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OMG Bem you ar so right, LOL! Most of the girls I know stick to stage names, even OTC unless they're really pretty close. Sometimes it gets so bad that MM will say "hey, Alexis is coming over" and I'll say "Who?" and she has to remind me of the girls' stage name. Among close friends they're almost interchangeable at this point; MM and our GF have stuck with the same couple of stage names long enough that even around the house we'll all use either/or, lol. One of their closest friends accidentally introduced our GF(who she's known longer than we have) to her dad by her stage name. Her dad thinks his daughter (our friend for those getting confused in all this) had quit dancing ages ago and doesn't know our GF still dances or ever did. Now we all have to remember to call her by her stage name in that particular house, lol. It gets annoying!
Stage names.




stage names. I dont know any of the girls real names.



I hate it when they say "oh but my real name is...." when i first meet them and then i forget which is her stage name & the next time i come or i'll call and i ask if "so and so" is working.. and they wonder who the hell i am talking about lol




^ which is one of the many reasons custies shouldn't ask for real names.
i once worked with a girl who danced by my real name (it was her real name also). oddly enough, i never had a problem with it, because i didn't use my real name in the club at all. in the club, i was *stagename*.
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At the last club she worked at, MM worked with several girls for months before they all realized they had the same real name - 5 of them in all - and it is by no means a common name, LMAO!
As an owner/manager I know all my girls by both their real names and stage names. Some of my girls have become close friends. Because I am so in the habit of talking about them to clients using stage names I find it very hard to use real names when we catch up outside of work.
One of girls (close friend) is also my massage therapist. Everytime I go to her rooms I have to make a considerable conscious effort to say my appointment is with "real name".![]()
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given that i almost never knew their real names...i called them by their stage names.





I have a few regulars who have stayed with me through the years and a few of them know my real name. These tend to be the ones who booked me for many parties through the years and a relationship of sorts developed. The one customer who became a boyfriend actually said to me he can't even remember my stage name because he's been calling me by my real name for so long.
When I first started dancing, my sister and I worked together at the same club. I never even thought twice about calling her by her real name while we were there. It's just safer that way. And courteous.
Definitely stage names, even with the few who are good friends of mine. It's a good habit to get into, otherwise you might slip up at the wrong time--not sure I could live with myself if I did something like that. There are too many crazy-ass-psycho-obsessive customers out there.





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I use stage names at work because your real name is noone else's business. And outside of work if I don't know your name I will just say hi or give the nod. I will never forget being at the mall with my dad and having some girl yelling "So Fine Divyne, So Fine Divyne! Girl its Cherry from GC.So Fine Divyne!" I wanted to slap the shit out of her. I never looked up and kept ignoring her. My dad goes "So Fine Divyne? So thats what you call yourself at that place?" What if he didn't know? Thank God my folks are cool.
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