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    i was talking with some girl friends this weekends and they asked asked me what i thought about what really happens in the vip rooms. i told them after reading posts in the forums, a stripper doesn't do anything she doesn't want to do, but if i want to suck off or fuck some guy for 100.00 bucks I will. it is probably expected by most guys throwing around money. what does happens, what is allowed and how do you deal someone that wants you to do something you might not want to do?

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    "but if i want to suck off or fuck some guy for 100.00 bucks I will" i said that to my pretend virginal friends for shock value. (i don't know why they act so innocence, two of them sucked and fucked a couple of college guys in the pool house at a party we went to over the holidays) i told them i need to take charge of my life and make something happen. i'm not going to depend on mommy and daddy for money.

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    Default Re: Going down in the VIP Room

    three simple rules:
    1. Never do anything you're uncomfortable with
    2. Never do anything that could get you fired
    3. Never EVER do something that could land you with a criminal record

    I have to ask are you actually a stripper? Because you're OP sounds like you know nothing about it. You really just assume loads of girls go down there giving cheap extras?

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    sorry, i don't know much about it other than what i read here. i know i want to be a dancer and i'm just trying to get an idea of what to expect.

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    if you wanna suck and fuck anyone for any amount of money, that's your prerogative. keep that shit out of the strip club, though. don't bring down the quality of a club because you feel like being a whore. that's what the internet and brothels are for

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    Escorting would probably be better for you... they make way more money and it doesn't put a club or dancers in jeopardy as far as undercover LE is concerned.

    I have no problem with escorting because the true escorts do their business OTC.

    A skank will suck and fuck for any $$$ amount showing no consideration for herself or others.

    Ask yourself which category you would like to fall into.
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    I hate strippers who are really whores. When I worked at clubs with VIP/Champagne rooms it was either dancing or talking. Actually, I think it was usually more talking and many of these men thought by getting a room I would actually fall for them. I know at one club I worked at men were allowed to masturbate but that was the extent of it (and no I didn't touch them). I heard at one club I danced at that the rooms were to offer extras but it was never mentioned to me and I never offered extras.

    I have no problems with real escorts who don't work in the clubs because they aren't competition.

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    i'm really not trying to piss anyone off. i looking for info. i think i've been listening to people that really don't know what the fuck they're talking about.

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    ^ Truth. A lot of people who have never been to strip clubs will say things like that, that strippers are whores and all kinds of insane things go on in the VIP room. That's not saying that there aren't strippers who do give extras in the VIP, but it's certainly not the norm or what is expected of a stripper. I would recommend going to visit a strip club as a customer and buying a lap dance if dancing is something that interests you. There's no better way to get info and idea of what to expect than seeing for yourself.

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    Default Re: Going down in the VIP Room

    in the VIP room, you talk & dance, period. Its a place for one on one time, Not sex. You know the Chris Rock song, 'theres no sex in the champagne room'? well its true! some clubs are diff than others, some will look the other way while girls do extras, while most will fire someone on the spot if caught doing any sexual activity. if you "want to suck or fuck someone for $100" do that on your own time, outside the club. if caught doing anything extra in the VIP or chamapagne room you will be Humiliated, Fired or even Arrested by an under cover for merely Talking about prices for extras. And another thing, Know Your Worth. $100 to suck or fuck is an Insult.
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    i pulled that $100.00 at my ass trying to defend myself. i kinda wish i had left it there.

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    why don't you just visit a club?

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    @Elektra
    I know you're just curious....when you are a new dancer there are a lot of misconceptions that go along with the sex industry. Extras are a reality that you should be aware of. They do go on in most clubs, but what constitutes extras in one club may be perfectly normal behavior in another.

    For example when I came from Albuquerque to PA I was shocked that touching was allowed. (No kitty, no sucking, no fucking) but I have seen plenty of boob grabbing and ass grabbing. In Albuquerque that would have had my mgr flipping the fuck out. Do I allow it out here? A reluctant yes, but under very specific circumstances. Only in the CR.

    I think you need to figure out what part of the sex industry you would like to work in...I don't know too much about escorting beyond what I have read on the "Other Work" section but I can tell you that the "ProEscs" on here are very knowledgeable and smart women who can give you better advice than me.

    Good luck in whatever choice you make and remember you're worth more than $100!
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    Basically what every girl has said. Dance, talk, sip (or fake sip in my case) champagne or drinks. They get my undivided atention. Lots of dancing and talking. The nice guys love every second. The douchebags hate me and give me a hard time for not doing this that or the other. To them I say fuck you, ya shoulda went to the brothel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elektra Luxx View Post
    i was talking with some girl friends this weekends and they asked asked me what i thought about what really happens in the vip rooms. i told them after reading posts in the forums, a stripper doesn't do anything she doesn't want to do, but if i want to suck off or fuck some guy for 100.00 bucks I will. it is probably expected by most guys throwing around money. what does happens, what is allowed and how do you deal someone that wants you to do something you might not want to do?
    Since you've been here you've read that we don't do anything we don't want to do. That's what you'll have to really think about and work on. Ask yourself why you want this job. Can you stand up to the expectations of abusive men who'd bully you? Right now you sound like you'd fold to any little pressure. If you will, then you don't want to dance.

    You're going to need the support and respect of your friends if you make the controversial decision to dance. How much of your desire to spite your friends makes sense? Saying you'll chuck your usual morals for a hundred bucks is gonna scare the crap out of them! If you want to escort do it elsewhere and research it thoroughly so you don't end up in a horrible legal or physical situation.
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    If you do dance then you need to draw a line to what your comfortable with, and never cave no matter what. if you cave a few times and do something you dont want to do, then you will probably start lowering your standards and do whatever it takes to earn that 100

    . A lot of customers will try and say "well-so-and-so-did-this" to try and get you to cave to oral/bj/etc. Which they would probably be going after them most of the time if they knew it was a guarantee. Or if one girl once had sex with a customer 20 years ago in some random state, then they will assume that dancers do have sex in the champagne room.

    Usually its a closer lap dance, maybe a little more grinding, and talking.

    ive given shoulder rubs in there, had a guy give me a back rub, or foot rub, etc. every dancer has different rules. you may be comfortable with boob grabbing while another dancer will grind the whole time on a guy. some may just touch themselves a little and let the guy watch from across the vip room. it depends on the girl and the customer and club.

    ive gotten in trouble for a customer taking off his shoes once (not fined, just the bouncer pulling me aside) because it is a health code violation and if the health department came in, the club would be in trouble

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    i notice she is from texas, if it's houston,that does go on as everyone knows. so maybe her friends are right if she's from that part of texas.
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    In my experience, I would say it is fairly common (although not as common as a lot of perverted men think), but what everyone is saying is correct: Don't ever do it.

    Even if you don't get caught, and management turns a blind eye, the vast majority of the other dancers in your club will hate you for it, and there is nothing like being on the outside looking in... it makes your time at a club pretty miserable.

    There is one waitress at a particular club in Dallas who was/is known for simply getting too seductive/touchy/sexy with patrons. She's not even doing "extras" per se, and she's disliked in a serious way by most of the dancers.

    Simply put, she's a waitress not a dancer, and she is taking income away from those who are supposed to be the ones raking it in from these guys... just like a dancer who gives extras is taking away from the other girls who are there to do what they are supposed to do.

    If you do decide to do it, no doubt you will run into a few like that, but just stay away from them, and stick to NR-17 erotic entertainment. Leave the XXX stuff to the other girls, they rarely last long anyway. ;-)

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