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    it has for me. old friends text me to come out lately and i decline. i would rather be cozy at home and work the next night....or chill with a guy or close friends at a house. after stripping...the thought of bar/club or meeting new people isnt as appealing as it used to be. seems i'v lost touch with old party friends. any of you feel this way?
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    Yep, but part of it is my age. Back in my 20's I went clubbing often. Actually I should fess up and say around 17 I started clubbing because the one club let in pretty girls without carding. Anyway I spent my 20's clubbing then when I got into dancing I still clubbed but not as much. Now though it holds no appeal for me.

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    Default Re: has stripping turned u into a homebody?

    I'm a massive homebody - I enjoy being home, cooking, watching TV, cleaning etc. I don't like going out a lot because work is 'going out' y'know? If I do go out it's usually fairly calm - movie, dinner or drinks at a favorite hangout.

    If I didn't dance I'd probably be more eager to dress up and do the clubbing thing, but because we do that so often I can see how many dancers just like to chill at home on nights they're not working.

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    Agreed with Kelly - its part stripping and part age!

    Spending half my nights in a loud club, talking to random guys and staying up till 2-3am, I don't really want to spend the other half doing the same thing, but spending money rather than making it!! On that same note, I don't really want to put on heavy makeup and dress "sexy" to go out, and I especially don't want to do this and then have some guy hit on me (thats partly for my sake, and partly for his...after dealing with it all week, I know I can be a bitch). I value good food and good company where I can have a real conversation (and some decent wine, too!).

    BUT when I first started dancing, I went out a LOT....and it was my late teens, early twenties (in the UK, where you can drink at 1. I think that even if I had never started stripping, I would still be slowing down on the club lifestyle as I get closer to 30...
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    Yeah same here we really don't go out to clubs..... I've been around it for so long I'm numb to it.
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    ^ Oh, that's another big one for me. I HATE being hit on outside the club. It actually upsets me sometimes (essp. if the guy doesn't even offer to buy me a drink or anything). 90% of the time I get hit on when I go out without the boyfriend. So irritating. Yet one more reason to stay home.

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    I always wanted to go to bars/club to dress up, have fun and meet guys. After working in a Sc... None at all. I generally hate being hit on, or talked to by strange males so clubbing is something I wont do again, unless its with a bf as men dont bother me when I go with a male. Plus clubs generally disgust me.. I mean girls are drunk, and the guys are just trying to pick something up. When you want to go for a girls night out at a club.. its very hard, because 80% of the males will try something. Im also disgusted by the male behaviour at clubs.... I dont deal with that esp for free.

    I look at stripping as a club in a manner, where girls get paid to be naked and guys need to pay for fun/entertainment. Last time I went to a club with my bf... some chicks were grinding their life away on strangers... My thought "I get paid for that shit.. why do it for free?"

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    Default Re: has stripping turned u into a homebody?

    Same here.
    I dont really go out anymore lol & Im only 20
    I like to stay home or just do something mellow. I hang out with my son alot too, so thats part of it. IDK the party thing just doesnt have much appeal these days

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    Whenever I've been working at the club regularly (which isn't too often since I'm a student with another job, so my stripping time is fairly limited), I feel less inclined to go out to the bar or out drinking with friends. I just want to chill at home, so stripping definitely makes me a homebody.

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    i def have my nights when i wanna be home too or i think if im gunna be in the bar and deal with guys and getting hit on then yup i might as well be getting paid for it too. Im single right now so im trying to find a nice guy that i can stay home with and chill or do some nice dinners out and maybe some short trips away......

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    oh i can so relate to all you guys. yea after being in a strip club all night its like ugh why go to another club on my free time.
    and missred....im looking for the same thing right now too a nice guy to chill with or maybe just stay single.
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    ive tried to explain this same phenomenon to a friend of mine....i told her "if you were a massage therapist would you really want to give random people massages for free when you werent working"

    since ive started dancing ive defientely cut down on the amount that i go out, and if i do i want it to be more of a girls night rather than a im-single-looking-to-meet-someone type of thing. i would rather be at home reading than club hopping usually. ive gotten so much dorkier since ive started dancing. i get all of the partying/flirting/attention i need from work so i dont feel that i need any more, especially for free outside of work

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    ^ Oh, that's another big one for me. I HATE being hit on outside the club. It actually upsets me sometimes (essp. if the guy doesn't even offer to buy me a drink or anything). 90% of the time I get hit on when I go out without the boyfriend. So irritating. Yet one more reason to stay home.
    Me too. I hate being hit on by guys in nightclubs and they are never good looking normal guys. They are either extremely old and/or obese, married, or just creepy. The few times I was hit on by attractive men it usually ends with them asking for sex.

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    God, I hate being hit on, too... but I have a lot of friends outside of the club who don't get it. My best friend loves the attention men give her when she goes out, whereas it just makes me homicidal. Two different worlds. I flirt with gross men all day, plus I have a boyfriend... if that's what you want, you better damn well pay me.

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    For the first year or 2 , I partied hard then I stopped, I only really go out on birthdays etc or when on holiday.
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    Yes. I socialize for a living in a bar. I am not even slightly lonely. I act dumb, flirt w guys, do lap dances and have guys hitting on me all night.
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    Absolutely! I used to go out as frequently as possible when I was stuck in an office all week... but, after getting dressed up all the time I really enjoy just hanging out and being domestic. Drinking wine in front of the TV or on the balcony with some friends....

    At the same time, on the rare accounts I do go out... It's usually to the gay bar.. which my bf is really cool with (thank god). I really enjoy being able to go out, not get hit on yet told I'm beautiful..... and dance for myself.. which is usually really awkward and goofy as opposed to always trying to please everyone else.
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    I was already kind of over going out cause I was 27 when I started dancing, but it has for sure made it worse. I hate "clubs"......you couldn't pay me to hang out at those douche markets. If and when the hubby and I do go out, it's usually to a little local pub up the street from our house. I went through my club phase when I lived in San Diego and go that scene out of my system way quick. I'm more of a dive bar kind of girl. All I need is cheap drinks, good food, and a good juke box and I'm happy.

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    Definitely don't like loud bars.

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    no. i wouldn't say i've always been a homebody, but i have always hated clubbing and parties and stuff. i like to be out, but not to go "fun" places. "fun" is really boring to me.
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    Absolutely. I got all the partying out of my system before I turned 21. Even though I live in one of the party capitals of the world, night clubs and even bars for that matter don't appeal to me. The only time I go to the strip and party is when I have family/friends in town. I'd rather stay in bed with my boyfriend, play with my pups or read a book...and browse StripperWeb of course!

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    Not me... my husband used to joke that my theme song was "My girl wants to party all the time". I love going out. Wether it be restaurant, pub, night club, house party, or even strip club. If I have a fri or sat night off no way I will sit at home. Working in the club has given me horrible taste in music though.

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    defs. apart from seeing my bf, the highlight of my week has been buying 4 movies and popcorn [wild child, marie antoinette, maos last dancer and george of the jungle] and sitting in bed with tea and smokes an laptop n that.
    i try really hard to avoid spots id get hit on coz i really hate it OTC, im not gonna deal with it, theyre not paying, why should i?

    only when my bf is on my side all night will i wear something skanky and go out drinking. but considering i got hit on at 5am at mcdonalds with no makeup in trackpants, i dont think another man present would stop them.

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    Right on! I feel like I should be getting paid to get dolled up!

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    The thrill of going out for me has completely been extinguished. On my days off, I stay home wearing sweats and don't put any makeup on at all. If I do go out, it's with my girlfriends and I'm sort of stand-offish towards men. I also don't like getting recognized outside of work. It has only happened twice but I'm paranoid that some custy is gonna come up to me and be like, "Heeeeyyy!" and be all over me and shit. Fuck that.

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