How do you guys feel about a female having to always initiate(sp) a conversation,or always being the "first one" rather it be texting or calling. Is this ok? Or does it come to a point in time where he should be getting in touch first. If a guy says he is shy does that have something to do with him waiting for you to be the first to do these things? Does it means he's just not that into you? I always though girls who text and called first always where looked at as desperate. In the past if I became tired of being the first I would just not do anything until he made a move,so then I could see how long it would take until they would get in contact with me,sometimes it would take 3 days to a week....maybe longer. If longer I would be for sure he's not feeling things. Only there's a guy who I like and I feel like I'm being the agressor or not even that...just the one who is giving more on the pursuing end. Should the guy chase the girl if he really likes her?....are there cases where a guy is still really into the girl if he doesn't chase her or even just is the one who doesn't pursue more?.....I think my problem is I don't know how to be a friend first....I always expect the guy to be head over heels right away and want to see me everyday type of thing. I've only had one boyfriend...people never believe me though...because I guess I'm considered "hot" that one bf screwed my perception up of how relationships work...which makes it even more difficult to pursue an adult relationship the right may for me. Any advice?



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