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    Ok, I'm meeting a guy at his hotel lobby/bar/lounge, where we'll hang out for an hour and then head up to his suite.

    Do I need to wear a dress/skirt and heels? It's 45 degrees Fahrenheit here, and this'll of course be at night. Plus I won't be dressed for long, will I? Lol

    Could I wear a sexy top, sexily tight jeans and knee high black leather heeled boots? (Much what I'd normally wear to go out to a bar or lounge).

    If we were actually going out, a dress would of course be non-negotiable - but this guy wants to show me his inventions in his room, as well as "play".. Lol)

    Am I right to wear this? I don't want to turn him off.

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    I think this could go in Other Work.

    But in my opinion, dress for the weather. A nice top, sexy jeans, and heels would suffice. You don't wanna be out shivering/looking desperate for his attention. You already got it, if he contacted you to meet. You can dress sensible, and still be sexy. Good luck

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    You can always ask if he has any special requests about what you wear, and as an added bonus, it might come off as you trying to go out of your way to please him even more.

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    What kind of hotel is it? If it's an upscale one, jeans in the lounge/bar would be frowned upon, and may not allow you in, which would draw some attention you don't want to deal with.

    I'd stick with the cocktail dress. It's not like you're going for a walk outside, you'll be sitting in a cozy lobby.

    More importantly, wiggling out of tight jeans and tugging off knee boots isn't sexy, and snug jeans may leave ugly indents and such on the skin. Not that that's a deal breaker or anything, but it's much sexier to slip out of a nice dress.

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    Default Re: What to Wear Escorting

    Im not an escort but here they usually dress pretty discretely. Not too flashy so it doesnt look like your being paid. Closed toe stilettos and cocktail dress, but one that is not too short or showing too much cleavage. Basically looking elegant rather than drawing attention to your body.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LibraSnake View Post
    Ok, I'm meeting a guy at his hotel lobby/bar/lounge, where we'll hang out for an hour and then head up to his suite.

    Do I need to wear a dress/skirt and heels? It's 45 degrees Fahrenheit here, and this'll of course be at night. Plus I won't be dressed for long, will I? Lol

    Could I wear a sexy top, sexily tight jeans and knee high black leather heeled boots? (Much what I'd normally wear to go out to a bar or lounge).

    If we were actually going out, a dress would of course be non-negotiable - but this guy wants to show me his inventions in his room, as well as "play".. Lol)

    Am I right to wear this? I don't want to turn him off.

    Never wear jeans! I think since a guy is (should be) paying you good money, dress nice. But not flashy. Dressing like a high end REALTOR is what I follow - I can get a little bit artsy/funky but as long as it's not going to attract unwanted attention.

    I also always try to wear a dress (with some thigh highs under) I figure his SO schlumps around in jeans and the mommy look all the time.... so that's why he's paying me lol.

    One time I had a doubles with a lady. Didn't really know her, had never met her. And she showed up wearing those neon pink fishnets, a denim skirt cut to crotch length, KNEE socks with the boot look (ie where the design is faux laces up the front and they're black and white), ankle boots with like a 6" stiletto heel, and an animal print tank top with a cheap hot pink bra sticking out all over.

    Oh yeah, and her hair was dyed this gawd awful shade of burgandy-red. It's not found in nature, probably 2 men alive think it's sexy, and it just looks like something that you get free with your first months trailer lot rent. And she had like 3 inches of nasty brown roots.

    Whew, had to vent. Anyways, this woman was a caricature of a cheap hooker and I called off the appointment rather than be associated with something that looked like that in public at noon.

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    ^^ Ha ha, I bet she thought she looked really amazing that day too!


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    Depends on the hotel - if it is an upscael business hotel I dress for the drinks and dinner in a nice business suits (jacket, shirt, skirt to the knees, black 3 inch pumps). I always ask if the client wants me to bring something for the room. Many indeed like stripper heels, fishnets, ...

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    By the way - I hope your rate allows for a cab from yours to the hotel! So temperature should not be an issue.

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    NEED to? No, very nice slacks and a well-fitting, not-too-low top could do it. Boots, however, are tough to take off in a sexy way.

    I'd dress comfortable for the weather, body-conscious but not outrageous and have fun!

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    I think a knee-length cocktail dress with some stockings and heels would be fine.

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