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    Default Regular told me he wanted to rape me...

    If it would have come from a first-time customer, I wouldn't have freaked out but a devoted regular texted me last night before our cam show that he wanted to rape me. I was drunk at the time and told him so beforehand, and I think he took that as "I can say anything I want"

    I had to reschedule our show because I was just too freaked out by it. He was such a nice guy for months and then randomly asked me to dress up as a school girl and then told me he "wanted to rape me so bad"

    Has anything like this ever happened to you and freaked you out? Because I just can't look at this guy the same way again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rookie2010 View Post
    I know about rape fantasy, but this is someone that's never brought it up before until last night. He said it in such a passive way, too. I also never told him that I had a rape fantasy myself, because I don't.

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    Default Re: Regular told me he wanted to rape me...

    I can't tell you what to do or what you should do, just saying maybe he is into that but has been waiting for the right time to say something

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    Default Re: Regular told me he wanted to rape me...

    I get what you're saying. I'm just asking if anyone else had a similar situation happen to them...

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    Default Re: Regular told me he wanted to rape me...

    It kind of sounds like he meant it in the way that people say it when they think someone is hot like "OMG Justin Bieber is so fucking hot I want to rape him."

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    Quote Originally Posted by strippername View Post
    "OMG Justin Bieber is so fucking hot I want to rape him."
    Sorry this is a hilarious example.

    Yeah Dancing days it does sound a little bit like he was just saying he wants to you know...take you and have his way with you. It's weird but it has become a pretty 'acceptable' thing to say, loads of my friends use it all the time, just meaning they want to have sex with someone. I don't use it because...meh. It troubles me, I know people who have been raped and I'm just not happy with the casual use of it.

    I think maybe leave it, and see if he brings it up again, if he does, then you will be able to properly see if he actually has a rape fantasy or if he was just using it in a casual way.

    I had one guy come into my room telling me he wanted to rape me, so I banned him promptly. I have also had people jokingly use the term rape to me, and I usually jokingly put them in their place.

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    Default Re: Regular told me he wanted to rape me...

    Also, I don't know for sure, but if this guy is a regular to you, and you seem to jhave known him for a while, I would hope that, as he knows rape fantasy is a fairly taboo topic, he would discuss it with you first? I mean I know a lot of guys aren't that sensitive, but in my experience (which fair enough is quite limited, I'm still a newbie) most of the guys with quite taboo fantasies, tend to be very subtle and cautious when discussing the fantasies with me. So this makes me think that maybe he was just using it in a casual way as well. But I don't know.

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    Default Re: Regular told me he wanted to rape me...

    ".....most of the guys with quite taboo fantasies, tend to be very subtle and cautious when discussing the fantasies with me. So this makes me think that maybe he was just using it in a casual way as well."

    sounds like basically he's never brought it up with anyone before, and he's just being a guy, and knowing that you're drunk maybe thought that he would take the oppurtunity to say it and see how you react.. doesn't sound threatening- just something a [horny] guy would say. also, he could just be coming to terms with this fantasy- not knowing what to do with it/how to approach it or act it out. hth! <3

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    im sorry thats quite disturbing. im hoping your only contact is virtual contact and not in person contact?
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: Regular told me he wanted to rape me...

    Quote Originally Posted by Dancing Days View Post
    If it would have come from a first-time customer, I wouldn't have freaked out but a devoted regular texted me last night before our cam show that he wanted to rape me. I was drunk at the time and told him so beforehand, and I think he took that as "I can say anything I want"

    I had to reschedule our show because I was just too freaked out by it. He was such a nice guy for months and then randomly asked me to dress up as a school girl and then told me he "wanted to rape me so bad"

    Has anything like this ever happened to you and freaked you out? Because I just can't look at this guy the same way again.



    LOL. See, what gets me is the fact that he actually said "rape" when he could've just said "I wanna fuck you so bad!" or "Girl, I would fuck you so good!" MOST guys would've just said something like that instead, which still conveys the message that he's horny and thinks you're fuckable.

    It's normal for guys on MyFreeCams to say they wanna "fuck you so bad" or whatever (guys on there are pretty bold about what's on their minds), but I don't recall a guy ever using that "rape you so bad" line.

    If he's a regular that you're happy with, you should continue to take his money (hehe), but stick to your guns about never meeting up with him in person, no matter how much money he offers (if the subject were to ever come up).
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