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    Have any of you guys ever been violated by a customer in VIP? Last Sunday I was in VIP with a customer and he decided that it was okay to grab me by the waist while I was bent over and lick my ass hole. I have had another night when a guy came all over himself while I was straddling him (and no, he didn't have the courtesy to forewarn me). I always make myself clear about what they can and cannot do and I've still been in two situations where I have felt very violated. I'm learning slowly but surely to not turn my back on a customer for any length of time and minimizing grinding time.
    Does this stuff ever happen to you too?
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    wow how pathetic (them not you). especially the guy that came. but yeah you just have to be careful and not ever trust them

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    Yeah. Had a customer cum his pants. I was fucking disgusted and shocked. I think he thought I did not notice. I've learned to not grind consistently for a long period of time. I take breaks so as to throw off the rhythm. Lol. A guy licked my boob before. Some nasty scums of the earth try to sneak in touching my pussy when I get up when the song ends. Unfortunately there's not much you can do and these fuckwits know that. I used to take more bullshit but now I just end the dance and demand my payment. Once this guy was wearing short shorts and his dick "popped out" the bottom. I got up right away and walked off (I had already been paid). Luckily these things don't happen that often. Especially now that I work at a low contact club with bikini dances. I'm hesitant to work somewhere that offers topless or nude dances. It was more chaotic.

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    I know I can't be the only one this shit is happening to... and you're right, can't ever trust a customer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BunniHops View Post
    Unfortunately there's not much you can do and these fuckwits know that.
    That's what kills me. So what if VIP ends sooner or I get up from a dance... the damage is done. Whats the worst that can happen? They get 86 out of the club?
    I'm so sorry to hear about nasty sweatpant guy. They shouldn't let guys dressed like that in the club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by renaissancelove View Post
    Have any of you guys ever been violated by a customer in VIP? Last Sunday I was in VIP with a customer and he decided that it was okay to grab me by the waist while I was bent over and lick my ass hole. I have had another night when a guy came all over himself while I was straddling him (and no, he didn't have the courtesy to forewarn me). I always make myself clear about what they can and cannot do and I've still been in two situations where I have felt very violated. I'm learning slowly but surely to not turn my back on a customer for any length of time and minimizing grinding time.
    Does this stuff ever happen to you too?

    I would have said something like, "Dude, thanks for getting that dingle berry...it's been driving me crazy..." or.... "hmmmm...did you like the taste of my fart?"

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    Ugh..I HATE men that do this kind of crap...I work in a strict no contact club, and we STILL get guys trying to pull this shit. I always get my money up front now, and if any of that happens, I'm done.

    Worst one ever - a guy was in the club (not my current one, a much more contact-friendly club) and for some reason he had a lollipop (I think they were selling them in the bathroom with cologne and stuff.) and I bent over and he tried to stick it up my ass!!! EEEEEEWWW!!
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    ^ Oh my.. thats a first. Men are just different creatures when in a SC..

    Im sorry that happened to you. I always watch them.. never take your eyes off them.. I did at times or let my gaurd down.. then there goes there slipping hand - great. Plus men think just cause our back is toward you doesnt mean we cant feel your damn hands getting closer to areas you arent allowed to touch! If a guy ever des that, take the money upfront or try to, make them know it was wrong and you feel harassed (we're human, and doing the pity run on them makes them feel like shit). Whenever a guy tries to slip his hand in or something, I always start backing away from them making the dance worse.. Man are just ughh, You'll overcome it.. it happens and its just sick how men think its ok to do that! Just keep your eye on them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Worst one ever - a guy was in the club (not my current one, a much more contact-friendly club) and for some reason he had a lollipop (I think they were selling them in the bathroom with cologne and stuff.) and I bent over and he tried to stick it up my ass!!! EEEEEEWWW!!
    0_o I can't believe that! What ended up happening after that?

    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    I would have said something like, "Dude, thanks for getting that dingle berry...it's been driving me crazy..." or.... "hmmmm...did you like the taste of my fart?"
    Those are good ones! Too bad this guy was foreign. Didn't speak much English.

    He got a nice punch in the face. Wasn't much time for chit chat

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    I turned around and slapped him. Hard. I already had my money, and then he got kicked out of the club. Perverted dickhead.
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    I once worked at a club very briefly (and it'll be known soon why briefly) where men were allowed to masturbate during VIP rooms. We get to the room and the customer was disappointed I refused to get full blown naked. Basically the idea was that if a customer paid more a dancer would go nude. I wasn't interested in nude anyway (we didn't receive any of this money) so I didn't. Anyway I started dancing and he pulled it out. I moved away from him and he tried to come on me. Eww. As it turns out he came on the floor and I got him a towel to wipe himself.

    As it turns out from that club the dancers didn't receive the VIP at all because they paid us and considered that money theirs. So out of spending an hour in the room (or less) I lost money. I went home that night with about $100 and I was pissed (this was all tip money, not table dance money).

    The other clubs I worked at threw out guys if they pulled it out. This club was in a known brothel area so I wouldn't be surprised if the other girls were turning tricks.

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    It happens to the best of us unfortunately Even the strictest security measures can't stop guys from being complete douchebags on the odd occasion. Its horrifying and scary and reminds me why I no longer get drunk at work. It justifies a sharp stiletto to the balls in my opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by renaissancelove View Post
    Have any of you guys ever been violated by a customer in VIP? Last Sunday I was in VIP with a customer and he decided that it was okay to grab me by the waist while I was bent over and lick my ass hole. I have had another night when a guy came all over himself while I was straddling him (and no, he didn't have the courtesy to forewarn me). I always make myself clear about what they can and cannot do and I've still been in two situations where I have felt very violated. I'm learning slowly but surely to not turn my back on a customer for any length of time and minimizing grinding time.
    Does this stuff ever happen to you too?

    Both, tongue in arse (not a lick) and Guy came. I was drunk, I thought it was my sweat so I kept dancing untli I realised. I was getting so smashed that I danced for Mr Blow his load again the next time he came in- guess what? he did it again. BARF!
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Oh yeah, and the other week i danced for a guy whose shirt was hanging over the front of his shorts, not long after I noticed those shorts were halfway down his arse so no doubt his cock was out and hidden by the shirt- Gross
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    I would have said something like, "Dude, thanks for getting that dingle berry...it's been driving me crazy..." or.... "hmmmm...did you like the taste of my fart?"

    hahahahaha



    Im so sorry that happend to you!! Glad you punched him in the face to! Creep.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kellydancer
    I once worked at a club very briefly (and it'll be known soon why briefly) where men were allowed to masturbate during VIP rooms. We get to the room and the customer was disappointed I refused to get full blown naked. Basically the idea was that if a customer paid more a dancer would go nude. I wasn't interested in nude anyway (we didn't receive any of this money) so I didn't. Anyway I started dancing and he pulled it out. I moved away from him and he tried to come on me. Eww. As it turns out he came on the floor and I got him a towel to wipe himself.

    As it turns out from that club the dancers didn't receive the VIP at all because they paid us and considered that money theirs. So out of spending an hour in the room (or less) I lost money. I went home that night with about $100 and I was pissed (this was all tip money, not table dance money).

    The other clubs I worked at threw out guys if they pulled it out. This club was in a known brothel area so I wouldn't be surprised if the other girls were turning tricks.
    Holy fuck. That is wrong beyond words. Sounds like that club needs to be burnt to the ground with the management inside!

    So glad I've never had stuff THIS bad happen to me. Worst was on one of my first EVER nights I had a guy run his finger up over my pussy (not in thank god). I had no idea what to do. He left straight away, he was quite ashamed of himself.

    A few friends of mine have had guys shove fingers in them (anally in one case), one girl was almost raped in a VIP room by several large guys but managed to scream loud enough to get someone's attention.

    Men are pigs. This thread has made me angry now.

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    The worst I've dealt with was when I was new, I went to VIP with a weird English guy who kept trying to bite me. I didn't know how to get out of there without making a scene and I was afraid of not getting paid, so I laughed it off. I felt so disgusted, though.

    There aren't enough bouncers at my club to oversee all the dances, and I couldn't count the number of times guys have licked me or groped me. My club is high contact and guys are such sneaky assholes. I used to be afraid that telling them off would hurt my income, but I realized that it's worth it to keep my sanity. Plus, there are always plenty of guys who spend money and follow the rules.

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    Quote Originally Posted by renaissancelove View Post
    Have any of you guys ever been violated by a customer in VIP? Last Sunday I was in VIP with a customer and he decided that it was okay to grab me by the waist while I was bent over and lick my ass hole. I have had another night when a guy came all over himself while I was straddling him (and no, he didn't have the courtesy to forewarn me). I always make myself clear about what they can and cannot do and I've still been in two situations where I have felt very violated. I'm learning slowly but surely to not turn my back on a customer for any length of time and minimizing grinding time.
    Does this stuff ever happen to you too?

    Those things have happened to me and it upset me every time. I stopped grinding for more than 2 seconds at a time and that doesnt happen anymore, and when I bend over, and I sense a custie bringing his face closer so as to lick my ass, I move really fast. My reflexes have really gotten quicker from dancing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amareth View Post
    Holy fuck. That is wrong beyond words. Sounds like that club needs to be burnt to the ground with the management inside!

    So glad I've never had stuff THIS bad happen to me. Worst was on one of my first EVER nights I had a guy run his finger up over my pussy (not in thank god). I had no idea what to do. He left straight away, he was quite ashamed of himself.

    A few friends of mine have had guys shove fingers in them (anally in one case), one girl was almost raped in a VIP room by several large guys but managed to scream loud enough to get someone's attention.

    Men are pigs. This thread has made me angry now.
    Luckily the club closed long ago. It was never stated, but I often thought it was a whorehouse. It was located in a known whorehouse area and I long suspected he probably thought he was going to get more. But yes, they were allowed to masturbate which disgusted me. I only worked there a week because everyone there were gross.

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    The other day a guy just came up to me out of the blue and asked me for a dance so I was like awsome no freaking work tonight! We get into vip and this fucker has sweat pants on, so I m like shitty I'm going to suck it up and make my money. This loser pulls out his dick and has the nerve to tell me I did it while I was danceing and I sure know I was giving about two seconds worth of grinding! Oh yeah then he asked me if I was enjoying it?! I hope that man knows he has a tiny pecker. Sorry ranting lol.

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    I did a VIP a few weeks ago and when I turn around the guy has his cock out. I hop up, hands up and lean far away on wall and said put it up. He goes I was trying to wake him up, he's sleeping. This guy was not American and was slightly drunk. He was so nice at first. Burned up 10 mins telling me about himself and yadda yadda yadda. Ended up sending him in the bathroom so he could wake himself up and come back. Whaddaya know? You only have 7 mins of your VIP left. Security comes by and I have my feet on couch resting my eyes. They say ,"Are you done already?" I say,"No, he was having issues so he had to go to bathroom to resolve them." I can just imagine this 21 yr old kid in the bathroom trying to be quiet so the bathroom attendant doesn't know he's masturbating.
    Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.

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    I've had two issues like that before. I've had three or four guys pull their dicks out but it didn't bug me because I wasn't touching them at all when they did it, and I do fantasy booths with customers so I see them masturbate on the other side of the peepshow glass regularly. My club says it's legal, I don't know if it is, but I don't care because it usually takes 2-3 minutes tops and I make good money off it.

    So the two issues I had were unrelated to guys pulling their dicks out. Mostly guys cumming in their pants. I just refuse to talk to them anymore, period. You live and you learn.
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    is it just me, or does there seem to be a recurring theme of arsehole-licking on this site? lol.

    sorry to hear what you went through. be advised, though: violations like that can and do happen even in Fortune 500 companies. (Translation: damn, i should have sued. what was i thinking?!) like Laurisa said, "You live and you learn."

    Specifically, you learn to always have enough cash on hand and connections to get a lawyer if you need to press charges and/or sue the sh*t out of someone for bad behavior and/or if you have to beat the sh*t out of someone for bad behavior.
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    Quote Originally Posted by renaissancelove View Post
    Have any of you guys ever been violated by a customer in VIP? Last Sunday I was in VIP with a customer and he decided that it was okay to grab me by the waist while I was bent over and lick my ass hole. I have had another night when a guy came all over himself while I was straddling him (and no, he didn't have the courtesy to forewarn me). I always make myself clear about what they can and cannot do and I've still been in two situations where I have felt very violated. I'm learning slowly but surely to not turn my back on a customer for any length of time and minimizing grinding time.
    Does this stuff ever happen to you too?
    This. Yes happened to me on NYE in champagne. I was like, "WTF?!!! Ewwww!!!" I told him if he didn't give me $300 for that mess then I was going to have him kicked out. Cha-ching Then he came (lol) in the next night, took a different girl up there and proceeded to tell her that she should suck his dick because the girl last night (me) did. Uh-huh

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    Okay here goes....

    I don't want to scare anyone but it's important to avoid bodily fluids at all costs :/ Like someone said KEEP your eye on them...

    Do nude dances with underwear on or avoid heavy grinding.

    It's easy to contract HIV b/c your body does not recognize it as a virus.

    If there is even a chance you might have been exposed to it contact your MD (right away )and get a prescription for AZT drugs.

    It doesn't hurt to be extra safe :/

    I also suggest we all get our Hep vaccines.

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    I don't mean to offend anyone with either of these diseases. I think you would agree they're not easy things to deal with.


    Let me put it this way... a nurse is sent to the ER if she is even pricked with a used needle she is at risk for contracting HIV. It has happened many times over :/ You don't ever want someone to cum on your labia even if it is through his pants... (He might not know he has contracted a given virus)
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