I just started dancing again after a year off & I must say, the girls are just as petty, if not even worse.
Its been about a week since I started & its been a week of straight up hell. I work at an upscale gentlemans club and I'm one of five black girls that work there. You'd think that because we're in the minority, the black girls would at least try to get along but OH NO,its been drama from the start.
Night before last, I was sitting at a table with 5 guys. The tables really small so I couldnt get to the customer's lap so we were conversing across the table. Another black girl (kim) came & plopped her ass on my guys lap, which was rude but I didn't make a big deal out of it. She eventually got like 8 dances from this guy....dances I could have had, but I didn't wig.out or get mad. I didn't even mention it actually.
So last night, Kim was sitting with a customer & I was on stage. He sent her up to tip me. I got off stage & headed to the table to say thank you, and he asked me to sit with him; mind you, Kim was sitting on the opposite side of him. So me & this guy talk for maybe 15-20 mins & kind feeling pretty left outbecause he's no longer interested in her. She left the table & came back asking for a dance & he said he was enjoying his conversation & he might get one later. I eventually talked him into getting a dance from me & just as I was about to bring him upstairs I was called to the dressing room.
When I get there, kim, my house mom, & Paul (general mgr) were sitting up there. She told the house mom that I had cutthroated her. To me, the definition of cutthroating is if a dancer comes to a table uninvited. I feel as though I should be invited by either another dancer or the customer; in this case, the customer invited me to sit with him, so I did. So my mgr says if its ever a problem again he'd fire one of us...so now I'm like WTF? Now I have management up my ass & I didn't even do anything wrong.
When I go back downstairs, the customer had already left, which just added to my frustration because I missed out on money entertaining this bullshit with Kims whining ass. I was so frustrated, I wanted to whip her ass but instead of reacting that way I was really reduced to tears...i had 300 dollars stolen from me earlier this week (another dancer dipped in my money bag while I was doing pole tricks & couldn't see her, she was fired but I didn't get my money back), another drunk dancer was testing my patience & instead of knocking her ass out I just let it roll off of my back, & now this bullshit. I got really overwhelmed with being the bigger person in every situation and I just cried in the bathroom.
I really wanna know guys...was I wrong for sitting at the table with the guy after he invited me over? I cnat help who's attracted to me. I even apologized to Kim but I feel like i didn't do anything wrong. I'm really angry at the situation especially since a) I missed out on money over this shit, b) she CLEARLY cutthroated me the night before & I said nothing, and c) I don't like being portrayed as a bitch or an asshole. I try to be fair with everyone.



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