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    So sick of organising get togethers with the dancers in my club. Sat at beach bar for an hour and a half, noone shows up (they said they were going to) no calls, no text. Bitches! Apparently I'm only useful when I'm closing your sale for you, sharing my regular, recommending you to another customer or saring my regular with you- Fucking Bitches!
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    It sounds like your kindness is unappreciated. Make a mental note, learn, and move on. It's all just the raw material that makes up experience and wisdom.

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    ^ I am so unappreciated in my time....... zah. Its true that you notice whats not quite right in your life when you raise your standards and behaviour.
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    A lot of people, not just dancers, will be your friend when you make it easy for them. The minimum amount of effort is all they are willing to give. Being a true friend is about giving, not taking. If all they are interested in is what you can do for them it's best to keep it superficial. Be civil, even friendly, but don't invest too much emotion. Nothing hurts worse than finding out that someone you thought was a friend was really just using you but it is all to common. This is by no means an affliction that is isolated to dancers.
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    Our industry has a particularly high number of self-centred peeps. Everything is all good as long as you are helping them or doing what meets their own agenda. Lets face it, our job is to sell fantasy/facade, so its not suprising when "friendships" wind up being fake.

    Over the years, and more so since running an agency, I like to be friendly to everyone, but I'm friends with very few. If you're not at least a little picky about who you make friends with (especially in our industry) it can turn you into a jaded, callous and cynical bitch fast. And no-one wants that to happen
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    I'm sorry about that, that's a shitty position to be in. Try and take it as a learning experience and just know now to bother with them next time.

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    You're going to run across plenty of phony or unreliable people in life, but I think SC's have more than their fair share of them, be they either dancers or customers. Nearly everyone in there seems to be there specifically to satisfy some personal need.
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    Time to stop hooking the ones up that can't remember to return favors.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxtc View Post
    Our industry has a particularly high number of self-centred peeps. Everything is all good as long as you are helping them or doing what meets their own agenda. Lets face it, our job is to sell fantasy/facade, so its not suprising when "friendships" wind up being fake.

    Over the years, and more so since running an agency, I like to be friendly to everyone, but I'm friends with very few. If you're not at least a little picky about who you make friends with (especially in our industry) it can turn you into a jaded, callous and cynical bitch fast. And no-one wants that to happen
    It's too late! I am jaded, callous, and cynical.

    I think it's been 11 years now--maybe 12 I need to figure it out for sure. I started Christmas night 11 years ago.

    I think breaks are the key--but you need more of them than a DJ can afford to take. There are always wolves outside the door waiting for your job.


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    Apparently I'm only useful when I'm closing your sale for you, sharing my regular, recommending you to another customer or saring my regular with you- Fucking Bitches!
    I do think some clubs are a lot better than others with this. Mine right now is better, but there are always a bunch you can't count n in any club. That goes for the guys in the business as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxtc View Post
    Our industry has a particularly high number of self-centred peeps. Everything is all good as long as you are helping them or doing what meets their own agenda. Lets face it, our job is to sell fantasy/facade, so its not suprising when "friendships" wind up being fake.

    Over the years, and more so since running an agency, I like to be friendly to everyone, but I'm friends with very few. If you're not at least a little picky about who you make friends with (especially in our industry) it can turn you into a jaded, callous and cynical bitch fast. And no-one wants that to happen
    This. I was friends with a few, but most in the industry drove me nuts. Running an agency (I'm sure you had this problem) I dealt with so many unreliable dancers. I'd book one for a party and they'd never show. I'd have interview days and have one show up, though 10 were scheduled. I'd book a dancer for a party, and she'd show up drunk or stoned.

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    be sure to check out
    cut throat bitches thread in stripping
    am i too nice for this industry

    i have the same problem too.
    i dont know, sometimes i cant organise stripper friends on the weekend coz everyones bummed from fri sat night or do school for the entire week and enjoying their days off

    however if the only interaction you have with these 'friends' is sitting with them in vip with your customers i reckon only pick girls to take to vip who do the same for you or at least try to otherwise cut everyone off from your customers until you see any improvement other than trying to suck up to you to get the spenders back....

    monday night i did wonder just how rotten and soulless some people working must be based on the shit they pull with me, custys and other dancers. how do they sleep well at night??
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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxtc View Post
    Our industry has a particularly high number of self-centred peeps. Everything is all good as long as you are helping them or doing what meets their own agenda. Lets face it, our job is to sell fantasy/facade, so its not suprising when "friendships" wind up being fake.

    Over the years, and more so since running an agency, I like to be friendly to everyone, but I'm friends with very few. If you're not at least a little picky about who you make friends with (especially in our industry) it can turn you into a jaded, callous and cynical bitch fast. And no-one wants that to happen
    + 1

    you said it sister.
    the more time i spend at work i realise just how stupid i been thinking these people like me and are my friends.i am really, really really disappointed
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    The flipside of all this is... the friends I have made are totally awesome. And it makes for very interesting get-togethers when I mix my industry and non-industry friends together.

    @Kellydancer - Oh I'm hearing ya about unreliable dancers. I have one of the smallest dancer lists in Melbourne, because I have standards and a zero tolerance for non-professionalism. I tell all the girls looking to get on my books (toppys & showgirls):

    "I don't care if you are in this industry full-time or part-time, when you are out representing my name and my business you will be professional or you will not get work"
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    This is why my birthday is cancelled this year. Every year I try to organise something, and every year most people phone to cancel at the last minute. Last year I organised a spa trip for the girls at work. We waited outside in the cold for half an hour calling people up. Its amazing how many strippers are uncomfortable being in a bikini in a spa. Only half turned up and this year I can't be bothered with the hassle.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitinboots View Post
    This is why my birthday is cancelled this year. Every year I try to organise something, and every year most people phone to cancel at the last minute. Last year I organised a spa trip for the girls at work. We waited outside in the cold for half an hour calling people up. Its amazing how many strippers are uncomfortable being in a bikini in a spa. Only half turned up and this year I can't be bothered with the hassle.
    I totally LOVE my birthday.. seriously I'll be the crazy old lady in the old folks home running around singing "its my birthday, its my birthday"

    I always organise something very simple, because inevitably there will peeps who are a no-show. So generally the plan is to find a good pub, with food and space. Invite everyone, whoever turns up has a good time, and I'm not disappointed because I didn't have to go to any major hassle.
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