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    i work in a club that is mid-high level type. we get fully nude, lap dances are $10, and we get lots of regulars. the girls range from mid to hot.

    however, i feel 1 bouncer watches me like a hawk. i NEVER EVER EVER do extras, if a man pulls me into his lap and literally uses his weight to put my ass on him up and down, I GET IN TROUBLE. i don't even get the time to tell the guy to stop!

    while at the same time, a girl next to me will be grinding all over a man, i just don't get it!

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    That sucks. Do you tip him well? Whether it's warranted or not, he could just be being a brat because he feels you don't tip him enough.

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    i tip the best.. to everyone their max. maybe because i'm new to the club? i dunno... but literally girls are grinding all over the place and i get in trouble when someone grabs me? ugh

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    he may be like that towards all the new girls so that they know they are being watched so they hopefully wont get out of hand. or maybe there was a new girl before you that was giving extras. maybe he doesnt want to let his guard down around you until he can see that you will last and that you arent an extra's girl.

    i would try and chat him up a little when its slow or something. try and be friendly. kill him with kindness

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    Will do- apparently he is jaded himself and hates his job according to 1 regular who facebooks my fake dancing profile....

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    maybe he has a crush on you? weird, lame.

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    Quote Originally Posted by teaze View Post
    ugh I remember this happened to me for 3 whole months when I was brand new to dancing at my first club. I gave light contact while other girls were full on straddling and grinding custie's. Every time I would head to the dance area with a customer in stow this one bouncer would literally follow behind us and watch us throughout the number of dances we did. Other bouncers were more relaxed but this one bouncer in particular was ridiculous and I tipped everyone out well. Sometimes he would hide behind a vip booth and try in a desperate attempt to "catch me" doing something wrong in vip. I literally thought he had it out for me and didn't like me. Hahaha I'm laughing as I write this because his behavior was completely crazy and to this day I still think "wtf did I do wrong??"
    I am dealing with this right now. A while ago a customer told me about this manager, "He doesn't like you, when he is outside he talks about how he doesn't like you."

    He wouldn't give me specifics but he *assured* me that the manager doesn't like me.

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    that really sucks... i can't wait to quit dancing to tell you the truth. too much drama, and the only reason i'm dancing is my family had emergency financial problems that happened over new years.

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    Ugh why cause drama there is enough as it is in our line of work!

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    If you tip him plently, he can go fuck himself.

    Seriously, you're doing your job right, so dont worry. As long as he doesnt say anything, I would ignore him and tip. If he says something, I would just smile and say "I wasnt doing anything illegal.. Here's your tip" and walk away. If you;re new he could just be staring to watch newer girls, or just new himself... Overall I wouldnt worry, do let the customers know the rules, and watch their hands all time.

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    i'd start tipping him the minimum instead.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kourtney View Post
    I have to tip him 1 dollar a dance and I always tip exactly that amount. He is so useless though, this one time a customer told me he was going to the atm to get cash after we did a couple dances, and I sit down and wait for him and notice him leaving the club! I told that stupid bouncer what happend and he just let him walk out of there. I was ready to walk out into the parking lot in my heels and bikini but unfortunately he got away.
    always go to the atm with the custy. and if he has to go to his car, make him leave his cell phone or something with you. the trustworthy customers usually understand that a lot aren't trustworthy. the only ones who'll get all indignant are the ones you shouldn't trust.
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    Default Re: annoyed at a bouncer

    That sucks - but it may well be because you are new. My DJ (who watches the cameras) will watch new girls like a hawk for the first month or so to make sure that they are not the type to do extras - after they have been there for a while, got to know him, etc etc, then he'll ease up.

    I would just keep doing what you are doing, and maybe chat him up a little when its slow - act as though nothing is wrong. And if you do get into a situation again where a guy grabs you and he comes over, thank him profusely! Say something like "thanks so much for keeping an eye on me - he just started grabbing me and I was going to call you over to help when I saw that you were already on your way - thats awesome, thanks. I hate guys like that". You could also, if you have a dance with someone that you are having issues with (grabby, asking for sex) mention it to this guy - say something like "that was really hard to keep his hands off me - maybe you should keep an eye on him with other girls to make sure hes not trying to grab at them too"...basically just trying to convey the idea that you are trying to stop them grabbing you...

    It should get better with time!
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