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    i need to rant / possibly get advice and i dont know if its the right section?

    i had the worst night ever at my club. it was a monday which is bad enough and the only girls working were me, a cutthroat bitch from my club, and two cutthroat bitches from the other club we have [owned by same people, you can work at any or all.]

    the club the two girls come from, its the norm to have girls walk up to you and your customer mid-hustle and try to push you out of the conversation to make sure the customer pays for them so i really shouldnt be surprised at the way they act in my club, which is a lot friendlier and girls work together to get more of the customers money in double-team.

    so i was sitting with the only group of guys in the club and skanky #1 from other club takes the stage. i try sell a shower show with me to the custys im sitting with and one of them says they like me and the girl on stage so if i can get her to come they will pay for both of us. so i tip the girl with the custys money and ask her to join us after her stage. when she gets off, i get put on stage right after so she sits with my customers and invites her skanky #2 friend to join them all. when i get off stage skanky #1 &#2 try to shut me out of the conversation and interrupt whenever i wanna join in on the hustle on MY customers. i told my manager who agreed it was not nice but proceeded to do nothing.

    so i move on.

    the club is near empty, i find this suit from london and think $$$ so i sit with him for while while we watch skanky #1 on stage. suit agrees to come for a dance after my next stage rotation. while im on stage, skanky #1 rubs her tits in suits face [NOT allowed] and tells him she will cut him a discount if he takes her instead of me. suit looks at me for a sec then disappears out the back with skanky #1.
    by this point im so angry i consider jumping off the stage and ripping out skanky #1's spinal cord to strangle her with, but i dont wanna get in trouble with my club, which is the best in my area and i have three more years of dancing to go.

    i go out for a cigarette after my stage and i see my suit upstairs after the show so i pretend nothings wrong and invite him to dance with me. after some nagging he agrees. we walk down to reception and the staff inform him he now has to pay full prize for the dance coz the club got busier. suit says hes only allowed to spend a certain amount on his company card blah blah bullshit bullshit and walks out!!!!!!

    now i really consider leaving or pushing some fat bitches down the stairs.
    i figure i get through the last hour n half of the night anyhow.

    i know i been posting here a lot about being too nice, coz when i started i promised myself im not going to change as a person and become a nasty cut throat bitch like those skanks but at the same time im really sick of people taking advantage of me if i dont act like im a cut throat bitch myself and put me down and fuck with my money.
    and even if im a bitch right back in their face, theyre better at it than i am coz im naturally a nice person.

    but im sick of it, i want people to fuck off and let me make my money.

    i will be working at their cut throat bitch club with no rules on friday and i still dont know how i will cope but i will take mine, and their money for sure.

    questions, comments, concerns??

    id appreciate any help thanks ladies xxx
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    Ahhh gotta love the MG skanks! They certainly play very rough...
    Just mention it to our manager, give their names, and see if he can email head office to ban them from working at our club. He's done it before, for seemingly lesser complaints. Give it a go
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    Keep them on your shitlist and when it's time to attack rip the shit out of them 10x harder. I know how it feels bc I'm a nice person myself, but when someone fucks with me I never forget it and I wait for the right time..could be the next shift or a shift 3 months from now..I make sure they get theirs, even if I have to break the rules at my club a bit. But fortunately for you it would be easier to make cut-throat moves since your manager didn't really seem to care. Muster up the courage and give those c**ts a taste. They won't fuck with you again once you do. Girls at my club sometimes prey on nice girls bc they think they can get away with it. And once you do show your "hard side" you will feel so good.

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    ^ haha thats good but im sort of out of ideas how i do that coz im usually a nice girl like i said and i never bullied someone in my life [though that was something people always always done to me]
    ill do it at their club, so if i get banned from there which i doubt coz they seem to have no rules anyway i can still work at mine. if i had nothing to lose in regards to working at my club i so would but hey...


    HI EVA how kind of you to make your presence known
    yeah but rob wasnt in only the other managers idk they didnt seem to care. or maybe they told the girl and she got so mad at me she just attacked my customers to get back at me for complaining?
    either way ima play it their way at MG's on fri. i got nothin to lose, and money to make and some bitches to fuck with, so wish me luck!!


    has anyone on here fucked with dumb bitches money before if so plz teach me knthx
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    For example, there were a few times at my club where a girl was sitting on a customer's lap who he was definitely not interested in. He was eyeing me as I went from guy to guy and was even looking over as I gave a lapdance. Due to the rules in our club a girl cannot go over to a customer if another is already seated with him, unless he calls another to join. Basically if you see that situation where a guy is eyeing you and one of those bitches are sitting with him, walk over and just introduce yourself to him with a big flirty smile Don't bother acknowledging the other girl either. Most likely she'll remember the bs she did to you. If she confronts you, kill her with kindness and say something like, "like the taste of your own meds?" or maybe just don't say anything at all. LOL! I'm sure the customer will thank you for saving him from her as well and you can also use that move to your advantage to hustle a nice tip I hope it all works out.

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    it depends, at my club if theres two or more custys if theyre sitting with a girl you can go up, you just cant do that if one guy is sitting with one girl unless hes a reg, or told you to come over... at the club the skanky bitches are from, the last time i worked there and talked to a customer i had three girls come up one by one try and push me out of the convo with the customer so i assume there are no rules of any kind there. its a two faced kind of environment, i dont even know who my true friends are. i only trust a handful of people with my customers. i had this conversation with my most trusted friend from there and yeah i love the girls but theyre all just using me for the $$ i get them when i do doubles....
    either way, in the end i have enough friends but right now its like an unexpeced kick in the balls, that after tonight girls i knew cut me off so im pretty sure no one considers me a friend apart from a select few. and the ones that dont are reallly realllly good at hiding it too
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    Unfortunately you gave them the go ahead to walk all over you when you left the first table. Now you will have to cut twice as deep to make them leave. Or get them banned.
    I won't teach you how to cut throat. You don't need to cut throat, you need the self confidence to know that you can do your job with everyone else. You need to have the confidence to take responsibility for your own actions, own up to your own bad nights. Once you have this confidence the other girls will naturally leave you alone. Wolves pick off the weaker of the pack, it is a natural instinct. Your not "nice," your weak. Let yourself grow up and you will be ok.

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    PS I guarantee friday will be bad for you, why? Because you are focusing on them instead of making yourself better. Get a new do and some hot shoes. That is a good strippers weapon, not vicious flirting.
    Stupidity like this is how I can make a grand in a night while everyone else walks out with a hundred.

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    Quote Originally Posted by susie2 View Post
    Unfortunately you gave them the go ahead to walk all over you when you left the first table. Now you will have to cut twice as deep to make them leave. Or get them banned.
    I won't teach you how to cut throat. You don't need to cut throat, you need the self confidence to know that you can do your job with everyone else. You need to have the confidence to take responsibility for your own actions, own up to your own bad nights. Once you have this confidence the other girls will naturally leave you alone. Wolves pick off the weaker of the pack, it is a natural instinct. Your not "nice," your weak. Let yourself grow up and you will be ok.
    so you think i wrote this entire passage and felt awful for a whole night coz im in denial about being shit and just having a bad night? i think you completely misunderstood me and now trying to have a go at me for something you obviously know nothing about so i wont even bother explain any further and let you take your advice and shove it up your ass and wait here for someone useful who has more than half a dead braincell. kthnxbai
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    Quote Originally Posted by AriahsPariah View Post
    For example, there were a few times at my club where a girl was sitting on a customer's lap who he was definitely not interested in. He was eyeing me as I went from guy to guy and was even looking over as I gave a lapdance. Due to the rules in our club a girl cannot go over to a customer if another is already seated with him, unless he calls another to join. Basically if you see that situation where a guy is eyeing you and one of those bitches are sitting with him, walk over and just introduce yourself to him with a big flirty smile Don't bother acknowledging the other girl either. Most likely she'll remember the bs she did to you. If she confronts you, kill her with kindness and say something like, "like the taste of your own meds?" or maybe just don't say anything at all. LOL! I'm sure the customer will thank you for saving him from her as well and you can also use that move to your advantage to hustle a nice tip I hope it all works out.
    That is totally wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right.
    If a guy is sitting with a girl and he is "eying" her, she waits till the other girl leaves to make her move not interrupt their conversation.

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    its still irrelevant as we are not allowed to sit on customers laps. and personally id rather the dude got up and got a dance with someone else than waste my time making me think hes gonna buy then an hour later disappear with the other dancer while i do my stage / go to loo.

    so apparently im looking for tips not how to be a raging psycho bitch, but to be bitch enough so people stop thinking my clients/money is fair game
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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    That is totally wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right.
    If a guy is sitting with a girl and he is "eying" her, she waits till the other girl leaves to make her move not interrupt their conversation.
    The OP is a nice girl. If she plays politely, she will continue to get trampled on by those who did it to her. And like what another poster said, she needs to step up her game and build the courage to give back what those bitches deserve. It's not about two wrongs not making a right, it's about proving to them not to fuck with her because really, what comes around goes around.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anouk.oui View Post
    so you think i wrote this entire passage and felt awful for a whole night coz im in denial about being shit and just having a bad night? i think you completely misunderstood me and now trying to have a go at me for something you obviously know nothing about so i wont even bother explain any further and let you take your advice and shove it up your ass and wait here for someone useful who has more than half a dead braincell. kthnxbai
    OP, I don't think she meant it that way with replying to you. I actually agree with Susie2. I was just like you when I started and had bitches step on me from left to right. It's a doggie dog world with dancing. Everyone's there for one reason and most girls will step on toes to get to that reason. You changing will come from more experience being in this business. If I were you, be more protective of your money from now on. For example, when it's your time to go on stage and you're with a customer, tell them to sit up on stage with you so they'll be "off the market" for everyone else; especially if you KNOW that they have alot of money to blow. It's fine being nice once in a while but these girls aren't your friends. Yes, if a guy asks for another girl I won't hold on to him & I'll just give her him. Any other situation, until I feel like I milked the shit out of the guy and he has ALOT of money; I won't let him go for shit... especially if he's into me.

    Like Susie2 said, it is like a wolf pack and they feed off the weak/can't survive= easy money to be made off of someone who is more submissive that doesn't know alot about how to hustle. In this enviroment, you're going to have to become more agressive or move to another club. Simple as that. But if you do stay, you WILL become a way better hustler than you are right now and it will work out to your benefit in the end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady Xplicit18 View Post
    OP, I don't think she meant it that way with replying to you. I actually agree with Susie2. I was just like you when I started and had bitches step on me from left to right. It's a doggie dog world with dancing. Everyone's there for one reason and most girls will step on toes to get to that reason. You changing will come from more experience being in this business. If I were you, be more protective of your money from now on. For example, when it's your time to go on stage and you're with a customer, tell them to sit up on stage with you so they'll be "off the market" for everyone else; especially if you KNOW that they have alot of money to blow. It's fine being nice once in a while but these girls aren't your friends. Yes, if a guy asks for another girl I won't hold on to him & I'll just give her him. Any other situation, until I feel like I milked the shit out of the guy and he has ALOT of money; I won't let him go for shit... especially if he's into me.

    Like Susie2 said, it is like a wolf pack and they feed off the weak/can't survive= easy money to be made off of someone who is more submissive that doesn't know alot about how to hustle. In this enviroment, you're going to have to become more agressive or move to another club. Simple as that. But if you do stay, you WILL become a way better hustler than you are right now and it will work out to your benefit in the end.

    TRUST ME.
    Agree.

    Anouk, she was trying to say that it's survival of the fittest. She wasn't trying to insult you, you know that. The best advice comes from people who aren't afraid to say whats on there mind and put emotions aside.

    It's really hard at PP with the way all the seating and tables is around the stages on the platinum side, so any of the other dancers can approach the customers when you're on stage. Really wish it was set up like the main side of the club.

    I feel weak sometimes, and know that I should act stronger in certain situations. I'm such a chilled person.
    Get yourself worked up, let your frustration empower you to say what's on your mind. You don't need to be a psycho bitch, just be strong.
    Remember, it isn't just what you say. You might be giving of signals in your body language, eye contact or tone of voice.

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    Sucks - I hate it when you feel like someone totally cut you off!!

    In that specific situation - was there a reason that you were waiting to take this guy until after your stage rotation? Why not take him then and there? Or if you were worried, throw the dj a little extra to skip that rotation (I used to do that all the time if I thought that I was on the verge of getting a CR...)

    In both these situations, it sounds like you maybe left it a little too long to close on the sale..

    In all honestly - I wouldn't advise you to start acting cut-throaty...if everyone does this, the industry goes to shit and its a horrible environment for everyone. These girls are bitches, no doubt about it, but I would try to find ways to get rid of them, not join them. You mentioned that this girl was rubbing her tits in a guys face - if this is against the rules, would that get more of a reaction from management? Or find a way to close faster, or distract attention....in both cases, you describe watching the stage show - fuck watching these skanks!!! Pull your chair over to the side so when you are engaging the custy, he can barely see the stage - get him focused on you, get to the point where he's not even aware that there is someone on stage - then he's not waiting to go for a dance with you...

    Rise above, honey...chest out, chin up, get those custys before the skanks even get a look in....give em hell by showing them how much better you are without resorting to bullshit tactics...: )
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady Xplicit18 View Post
    OP, I don't think she meant it that way with replying to you. I actually agree with Susie2. I was just like you when I started and had bitches step on me from left to right. It's a doggie dog world with dancing. Everyone's there for one reason and most girls will step on toes to get to that reason. You changing will come from more experience being in this business. If I were you, be more protective of your money from now on. For example, when it's your time to go on stage and you're with a customer, tell them to sit up on stage with you so they'll be "off the market" for everyone else; especially if you KNOW that they have alot of money to blow. It's fine being nice once in a while but these girls aren't your friends. Yes, if a guy asks for another girl I won't hold on to him & I'll just give her him. Any other situation, until I feel like I milked the shit out of the guy and he has ALOT of money; I won't let him go for shit... especially if he's into me.

    Like Susie2 said, it is like a wolf pack and they feed off the weak/can't survive= easy money to be made off of someone who is more submissive that doesn't know alot about how to hustle. In this enviroment, you're going to have to become more agressive or move to another club. Simple as that. But if you do stay, you WILL become a way better hustler than you are right now and it will work out to your benefit in the end.

    TRUST ME.
    i agree with the content the way you said it better. the way she put it is im weak, its all in my head and i deserve to get fucked if i dont step up my game so quit whinging. now it makes more sense to me what youre both trying to say. i completely understand the wolf pack and how me being nice to the girl before she took it as a weakness.

    my biggest concern is the gray area around the rules. i work in a strict club and some girls get fired for some things that others dont. i guess i try to avoid the drama and the bitchiness and giving a taste of their own medicine kind of thing is because this is the only decent club left i can work at and i have three more years of university to go, i dont have other job options in the meantime and my mum is broke so naturally i have a lot to lose. i dont want to get banned for weeks or be forced to work at their skanky bitch club but at the same time i want to delicately draw the line so people dont consider my customers free game.

    now its even harder, because i found out some people, [actually, majority of] i thought were my friends were only being nice to me because i got them in for dances before and made them money and now not only they dont return the favour, they try take the customers for themselves only. nevertheless i feel hurt and stupid, and i need to harden my ass up without getting fired. tis all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AriahsPariah View Post
    The OP is a nice girl. If she plays politely, she will continue to get trampled on by those who did it to her. And like what another poster said, she needs to step up her game and build the courage to give back what those bitches deserve. It's not about two wrongs not making a right, it's about proving to them not to fuck with her because really, what comes around goes around.
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    hah! i havent found it that hard at the cut throat club. i think its coz i didnt know any of the girls so i didnt care whether im cutting them off or not, plus if i get kicked out of there i still have my home club. i think i might try next fri but it might be harder just coz my hustle buddy wont be working so i wouldnt put it past the girls to single me out and gang up etc.

    i think the only outright bitch display i saw was at the end of the night we took a group of guys for a double girl shower show and after they paid they had three girls hang off them so we literally had to drag them in there. then some girl came up to reception and demanded they put the money in her name for some reason miss delusiounal thought they were her customers. then my friend pushed her out of the way as she brought the guys into the room. haha

    also as i had nothing to lose i was better at feeding bullshit so i did better than at my very strict home club which im so so scared of getting fired from for any reason.



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    Honestly from what I've observed, you don't even need to go out of your way to get them back. It just happens on it's own, simple as that, if you really are better than them. And it's alot more satisfying that way, too. Just remember to put yourself first, no matter who you work with.

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    It seems like a lot of clubs have rules which some can break and some cannot. It depends I guess on how well you work, the money you make the club, how long you've been there, etc. etc. Its just not a fair world. ESPECIALLY in this business. When I first started one of the girls told me outright "She would make sure I never made a $1 in the club ever". That really fucked my game up for a while, but when I stopped focusing on what she was doing, or how much more she was making than me, I got better. Rather than be a bitch back I just went in to work, ignored her and reminded myself Im just there for work, and soon enough I started doing great. I make more than her some nights, she makes more than me sometimes but I don't care what she thinks, says, does anymore. When you focus on other ppl the guys you're sitting with can tell, especially if you talk about them. That calls attention to a girl you really don't want your customer focusing on.

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    ^ true, but the problem aint that i focus so much on fucking up other girls and observing everything they do i forget to make my own money, its more im sitting with a client minding my business and these cunts come up and try and take them. different story. i dont give a fuck whatever anyone does as long as they dont fuck with my customers and money
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    waste my time making me think hes gonna buy then an hour later disappear with the other dancer while i do my stage / go to loo.
    why would you sit with a guy for an hour? Or even fifteen minutes?

    Sounds like you need to psyche yourself up with quick closing as a way around this, though you still have to get him to the back without being cutthroated (which I've had done to me by some total literal whore who makes the club so much money that management didn't do anything.)

    The only thing I would say in relation to the girls is if you think you can bring it into the conversation tell the customer that there are a few pushy girls who are known to rip off clients or go psycho and so even if they don't get a dance with you to just be careful who they go with. Don't name names but this way you come off as looking out for the client's interest, and really-- if they're cunts like that to you, likely they'll easily be cunts to the customer a high percentage of the time.

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    i didnt mean i sit with them for an hour, i mean they go an hour after i have spoken to them. so naturally i move on then see them with someone else.
    besides, the club i work in, especially weeknights you have to sit with them 10-40min to close the sale a lot of the time unless you can tell theyre ready. it gets a bit quiet and guys in the area have the habit of taking to you for awhile then booking you for aaaages. so its not hustling for one song lapdances. i usually sit with them and order a drink and sip it normal speed. by the time i finished drinking i will know whether they want to book me or not.
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    You need to tip the dj or whatever to put you elsewhere in the rotation.

    How do I know this? Because that is what the undesirables do. They know that that is how they operate so they assume others will to.

    Do it and mess up their game.

    I've done it with success and those girls left me alone after that.




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