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    I started camming in September because I couldn't drive myself to the club anymore. (DUI) I really like camming, but sometimes I just can't be bothered. I have been working in the adult industry for seven years doing different things. I want to do body rubs. I would like to work in a place where it is pretty much the same exact boring thing one after another. I applied to four places so far that I found on Backpage and haven't gotten a single response. I didn't think I was that gross. The only thing I can think is that I come off too professional. MaYbE iF i WrOtE lIkE tHiS Id GeT a JoB fAsTeR. I don't really know what I am asking for...anybody have any advice for getting into body rubs and making money while doing them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by strippername View Post
    MaYbE iF i WrOtE lIkE tHiS Id GeT a JoB fAsTeR.
    umm actually, tHiS should be DiiS. just saying that is all the advice I can offer.

    I tried it once. Guy came in from town for work. Lightly screened him. Did an outcall. Thankfully it's a lot tamer than escorting. Made a quick 140. I would keep doing it now, if I made the time for myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by strippername View Post
    Anybody have any advice for getting into body rubs and making money while doing them?
    Upcharge upcharge upcharge.

    In Toronto girls get $40 for just the massage. You could charge more depending on what you're willing to do, but remember bodyrubs can be screens for brothels and they're a cheaper way of getting some things, like body slide/reverse nude/bjs/daty/bdsm stuff. Bbbjs/daty/fs/bdsm go for a little more than time with an escort in our area ($250/h average).

    Is there a review board in your area where you can figure out what the service levels are like?

    Also, if other girls at your massage parlour are offering an extended 'menu' and you don't you won't get as many clients (like stripclubs) and you run the risk of being arrested by LE.

    I'm surprised you can't get in. Maybe stop by the one with the best reputation and apply in person? There's decent money to be made if you're willing to work hard, build up a fan base of repeat customers (this is an aspect of the industry where you can get away with "Next time, we'll go xyz further!") and avoid carpal tunnel.

    Let us know how it goes

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    Quote Originally Posted by TeeBaby View Post
    umm actually, tHiS should be DiiS. just saying that is all the advice I can offer.

    I tried it once. Guy came in from town for work. Lightly screened him. Did an outcall. Thankfully it's a lot tamer than escorting. Made a quick 140. I would keep doing it now, if I made the time for myself.
    DiiS! Thank you for that. It looks like knowing that is the only way I'll ever get a job around here.

    Quote Originally Posted by beckatron View Post
    Upcharge upcharge upcharge.

    In Toronto girls get $40 for just the massage. You could charge more depending on what you're willing to do, but remember bodyrubs can be screens for brothels and they're a cheaper way of getting some things, like body slide/reverse nude/bjs/daty/bdsm stuff. Bbbjs/daty/fs/bdsm go for a little more than time with an escort in our area ($250/h average).

    Is there a review board in your area where you can figure out what the service levels are like?

    Also, if other girls at your massage parlour are offering an extended 'menu' and you don't you won't get as many clients (like stripclubs) and you run the risk of being arrested by LE.

    I'm surprised you can't get in. Maybe stop by the one with the best reputation and apply in person? There's decent money to be made if you're willing to work hard, build up a fan base of repeat customers (this is an aspect of the industry where you can get away with "Next time, we'll go xyz further!") and avoid carpal tunnel.

    Let us know how it goes
    Thank you for that, Beckatron. I am willing to work hard, but I don't really want to give blow jobs or fuck. If I wanted to do that I would just go to an escort agency. I don't want anyone dining at my Y either. Thank you for the little hustle tip. I REALLY can't get arrested because I already am on probation. I do not know why nobody has called. It really makes me feel like I look like a dumpster.

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    I don't know where you are located, but i do remember some posts you made in the past about how you hated the industry, I can completely relate...... I make more money than I did dancing, and it's way easier on my emotionally, mentally, psychologically, etc. I'm just saying, you shouldn't subject yourself to rubbing down some nasty old man for a couple hundred bucks, save your sanity! I make on average between 300-600 $ for each policy I sell (insurance) and it takes me an hour or less to close a deal. If you're interested, PM me and I can find out what resources you have in your area. I don't get anything out of it, but if I can help someone else get out of what's becoming one of the nine concentric circles of Hell, I will.
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    Just so you know, most of the time when you turn in an app at bodyrub places, the other girls are sure to throw your app in the trash, especially if you look good. Competition can be fierce. And if the place is any good, most girls won't leave, which means they never have openings. It's not like a club where they can just hire as many girls as possible. Most of these places only have a couple of girls per shift.

    You have to keep applying again and again, pretty much.

    Sooo, don't let it get to you or feel bad about yourself. Either keep bugging them for a job, go solo and do FBSM as an indie or take JD's idea.

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    Quote Originally Posted by strippername View Post
    Thank you for that, Beckatron. I am willing to work hard, but I don't really want to give blow jobs or fuck. If I wanted to do that I would just go to an escort agency. I don't want anyone dining at my Y either. Thank you for the little hustle tip. I REALLY can't get arrested because I already am on probation. I do not know why nobody has called. It really makes me feel like I look like a dumpster.
    If you *really* can't get arrested I'd be really really really careful. Don't work at a spa where extras are going on at all, verify this on your local boards, don't carry even a condom in your purse, etc. There are frequent busts and inspections. Even if you're not the one offering the extra its damn tough to prove you aren't. Best to avoid the situation in the first place!

    I've seen your pictures, you're the opposite of a "dumpster" - more likely than not some jealous girl read the emails instead of the owner.

    It sounds like you're burned out on the adult industry in general. I love love love it but its not for everyone, maybe try taking a straight job for awhile and see how it feels. I took one last year and it sucked so badly I'm glad to escort every day! Or maybe like JD you'll find something that works really well for you...

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    I got offered a position at a gentleman's spa/massageparlor but itwas listed on sexyjobs.com, plus you don't even have to be certified or licensed... is that a bad sign? lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    I don't know where you are located, but i do remember some posts you made in the past about how you hated the industry, I can completely relate...... I make more money than I did dancing, and it's way easier on my emotionally, mentally, psychologically, etc. I'm just saying, you shouldn't subject yourself to rubbing down some nasty old man for a couple hundred bucks, save your sanity! I make on average between 300-600 $ for each policy I sell (insurance) and it takes me an hour or less to close a deal. If you're interested, PM me and I can find out what resources you have in your area. I don't get anything out of it, but if I can help someone else get out of what's becoming one of the nine concentric circles of Hell, I will.
    Thank you, JD. That is so nice of you.

    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    Just so you know, most of the time when you turn in an app at bodyrub places, the other girls are sure to throw your app in the trash, especially if you look good. Competition can be fierce. And if the place is any good, most girls won't leave, which means they never have openings. It's not like a club where they can just hire as many girls as possible. Most of these places only have a couple of girls per shift.

    You have to keep applying again and again, pretty much.

    Sooo, don't let it get to you or feel bad about yourself. Either keep bugging them for a job, go solo and do FBSM as an indie or take JD's idea.
    I didn't even think that someone would delete my emails.

    Quote Originally Posted by beckatron View Post
    If you *really* can't get arrested I'd be really really really careful. Don't work at a spa where extras are going on at all, verify this on your local boards, don't carry even a condom in your purse, etc. There are frequent busts and inspections. Even if you're not the one offering the extra its damn tough to prove you aren't. Best to avoid the situation in the first place!

    I've seen your pictures, you're the opposite of a "dumpster" - more likely than not some jealous girl read the emails instead of the owner.

    It sounds like you're burned out on the adult industry in general. I love love love it but its not for everyone, maybe try taking a straight job for awhile and see how it feels. I took one last year and it sucked so badly I'm glad to escort every day! Or maybe like JD you'll find something that works really well for you...
    I tried searching for message boards, but I couldn't find anything for the NYC area.


    Thank you all for the great advice. I am REALLY motivated to just work and get the fuck out. Or work, save a lot, go to school and then get the fuck out. I think my tattoos may hinder my chances of getting hired ANYWHERE.

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    Ewwww! I just went back and forth with one of the places that I emailed. They wanted more photos and information. I sent them some. Here is a quote from their last email:

    "If you are hired and decide that you are interested in the position there will be a test/training session set up with my partner. To answer your question on why we have test sessions: First, this is to ensure you are not affliliated with any law enforcement agency. Second, we started to screen all our practitioners through this format as we have run into numerous problems where we were told one thing during the interview and when the practitioner starts working we get complaints on the services provided and we have to let the practitioners go.

    Since you have never been in the business, this will also serve as a quick training session. "

    Is that normal?! I am not wanking anybodies partner for free. It sounds like the equivalent of a free cam show and I have done enough of those working for Imlive.

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    No I have worked as a massage parlor/rubdown/studio girl for many years in different cities and never had to do a show/session to get hired. IMO - Fuck them.

    Also, strange that any place is hiring by email. I have always been hired in person.

    It is not unusual for a place to hire you in person and ask you to strip down, even strip clubs do that. They wanna see your body (tats, piercings, etc.) and more than likely LE would never strip down. But never to do a free show.

    Unless you know for a fact that they have a great reputation and the girls are making bank, I would move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    I don't know where you are located, but i do remember some posts you made in the past about how you hated the industry, I can completely relate...... I make more money than I did dancing, and it's way easier on my emotionally, mentally, psychologically, etc. I'm just saying, you shouldn't subject yourself to rubbing down some nasty old man for a couple hundred bucks, save your sanity! I make on average between 300-600 $ for each policy I sell (insurance) and it takes me an hour or less to close a deal. If you're interested, PM me and I can find out what resources you have in your area. I don't get anything out of it, but if I can help someone else get out of what's becoming one of the nine concentric circles of Hell, I will.
    Actually would you be willing to make a thread about this...it is technically "other work" after all and that sounds like great money! I know nothing about selling insurance though and I dunno if I'd be a good salesperson since I'm not that outgoing, but hey, you never know who might benefit from it.

    Not trying to hijack this thread though. I have to say, the whole "training" thing sounds bogus and sketchy as hell. If they try to pull that on you from the get-go then they're probably a crappy place to work for overall.

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    Strippername, that "training" thing sounds like total BS. I don't know anyone that was ever hired by email. They were always hired in person.
    I love boobs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    No I have worked as a massage parlor/rubdown/studio girl for many years in different cities and never had to do a show/session to get hired. IMO - Fuck them.

    Also, strange that any place is hiring by email. I have always been hired in person.

    It is not unusual for a place to hire you in person and ask you to strip down, even strip clubs do that. They wanna see your body (tats, piercings, etc.) and more than likely LE would never strip down. But never to do a free show.

    Unless you know for a fact that they have a great reputation and the girls are making bank, I would move on.
    I have been contacted by two places (out of probably 8-10). Both of them said that there would be "training", if hired. I am replying to ads off of Backpage. WTF is going on? I really feel like a zero. I can't even get a job to be a wanker.

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    I would pick up a local paper that has ads in the back and just start calling numbers.Many local papers that have an escort section also have a massage section too. Most places put ads on the net, but really they don't answer the emails. You just need to call.

    I do niteflirt and cam on some sites and do some dancing right now. However I have done massage too. I have also been involved with escorting.



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    I would seriously suggest to go in person. See the owner, girls, clients, the place for yourself. I havnt worked in that industry, but know places here do want a "trail" for your first time, as in training you, BUT they still pay for it, as they pair you up with their regular/trusted clients that agree with teaching new girls.

    I wouldnt trust the owner in the email.. I would suggest you go in person, call the owner first, ask them to set up an interview and come in. If they ask you to do something for free, leave.

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    Don't get discouraged. It's not you, it's them. Seriously. You're hot and that has nothing to do with your applications being ignored.
    Sometimes things just turn into a series of somewhat unfortunate events. You know, sort of like breaking a mug in the kitchen 2 seconds after your doog pooped on your carpet which happened JUST after accidentally hitting your head on the kitchen cabinet.

    I'd say stick with camming until you find a decent place for body rubs. I don't have experience in the industry, but hell no, I wouldn't accept "training". What are they training you for, to not accidentally rip the guys cock off? It's wanking, for heaven's sake, you're pretty and you've got hands.

    Whatever you decide, pursue this or some other option, good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MistyRose View Post
    I wouldn't accept "training". What are they training you for, to not accidentally rip the guys cock off? It's wanking, for heaven's sake, you're pretty and you've got hands.

    sooooo funny!

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    The legit phone calls and emails poured in today. I have two interviews tomorrow and will make two more calls tomorrow if I don't get hired or I need more places to fill my schedule. Thanks for all the help and I will be starting a blog about it. I couldn't find any.

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    Strippername, you seem like one of these people who make quick decisions, and just GO for it.
    Good luck to you!

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    That is very true, Leyla. I know what I am doing and this is the best decision for me at the moment. Do you think it is a bad thing? Just curious.

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    Now I sound like I am getting defensive, but this is true. I have been thinking about doing this for a while and the only thing that held me back was having a boyfriend. I told him that he has to deal with it or piss off. He isn't paying my bills.

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    Not at all! I escort and cam (when I have time) and might consider body rubs very soon. I personally don't really like camming, I find it very boring and tiring.

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    I have never heard of "training" for bodyrubs. Those places are full of shit.

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    I questioned those places that mentioned training outright. I thought they meant they would help you brush up on some massage skills. Not penis massage skills. It makes me sick that some poor, naive girls are falling for it.

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