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    I had a dirtbag try grabbing at me twice. I pushed his hand away both times. Mind you, I had not done one single dance for the dirtbag and he had not agreed to buy one single dance yet. When I pushed his hands away the second time I mentioned vip again. This slimeball had the nerve to say that he never does VIP with out free samples first!!!! I told him my "sample" dance is called a lap dance and it costs $20. The slimeball said well I guess we should part ways.
    For some reason this dirtbag was trying to treat me as if I were a $2.00 bakery product that could be sliced into to 10 sample sections. Are you kidding me?! I am a human being who works at a strip club in order to make $$$. Human beings are not $2.00 bakery products that can be sliced up into sample sections.
    How many times do I have to push a guys hands away? Do guys like that honestly think that I believe, that they can't comprehend what that means?
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    I'm sorry that happened, guys can be shitbags

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    oh girl, I feel your pain.
    While giving a dance yesterday, I pushed the guys hands away and he had the nerve to say "well you know your co-workers dont have a problem with me touching them". I had just started my period and couldn't help but respond with "I dont give a fuck what my coworkers do. I'm not them." He went on to say that he wasn't going to buy anymore dances with me. FINE! GRRR. This happened up here in NY.
    The whole "sample" thing happened to me alot in my hick club down in SC/GA.

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    OMFG are you KIDDING ME?!? "Free sample"???! How about a free sample of the bouncer's fist up your face, douchewad???!!

    Ack!!! I am the most introverted and meek person out there, and even *I* would flip the fuck out on a dude who felt entitled to a 'free sample'.

    Just wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessica1001 View Post
    OMFG are you KIDDING ME?!? "Free sample"???! How about a free sample of the bouncer's fist up your face, douchewad???!!
    The bouncers can't do anything out here. We just have the illusion of fear to play on. That is a good response though. I did some research on utube. I think guys like that are narcissists. They feel entitled to treat a human like a sample slice of a $2.00 bakery product.
    I guess the girls who allow guys to do that obviously feel like they have to allow it in the hope of getting money.
    I think that could also be why vip has become more brutal now. When I first started dancing we got our money up front. We had complete control over the customer. Now in most clubs you don't get paid by the club till the end of the vip. I think that might be part of the reason why guys expect so much for so little in comparison to a few years ago.
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    It's true.
    Even in the upscale clubs, you don't get paid till after the VIP is over. So essencially, if a guy walks out 10 minutes into the hour VIP cause he couldn't take his dick out, they can and may very well give him his money back. It's happened to me before. FML.
    So now even if they do try to take the penis out, I try to distract them by taking their hands away from their zipper, start grinding sporadically over his zipper so he can't get to it, just distract him anyway that way he stays there long enough for me to be able to get paid the full amount that's owed to me. Shouldn't have to be this way but it is. I mean the club will give me my money if he stayed a reasonable amount of time but one time it wasn't even 10 mins so they gave him his money back. It really sucked cause I did nothing wrong and I wasted all that time hustling him for him to walk out cause he can't get his dick sucked? AND then I get penalized? SUCKS man.
    I love that the hostesses take care of all the money stuff cause it does make my job easier but I kinda liked getting my money up front in MY garter before the VIP started like my old club. If he walks out, oh well, too bad...I still made my money!

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    My stage show is my sample!
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    Quote Originally Posted by chanzep View Post
    My stage show is my sample!
    Ha! Awesome!

    These guys drive me nuts - esp the ones that say "flash me so I can see what I'm getting"...exCUse me? Um...hell no!!! Grrrrrrowl

    I used to try to deal with these guys, but now I just leave. They won't spend money anyway.
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    "Sample" guys are cheap and/or broke. Don't waste a second more of your time on them. Ever notice how the shittiest guys are the cheapest, and the most generous guys are usually the nicest to be around? Cheap customers need to be ignored, the more you argue or bargain with you, the more of your time they are stealing for free. I just up and walk away, leaving them mid-sentence.

    Sample my ass as its walking away...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lacy Luck View Post
    "Sample" guys are cheap and/or broke. Don't waste a second more of your time on them. Ever notice how the shittiest guys are the cheapest, and the most generous guys are usually the nicest to be around? Cheap customers need to be ignored, the more you argue or bargain with you, the more of your time they are stealing for free. I just up and walk away, leaving them mid-sentence.

    Sample my ass as its walking away...
    this times a million.

    if he was asking for a sample, he probably would've said no anyways. and if he said yes, he would've been a total pain in the ass. and more importanly, so few of these guys do say yes that i'd rather just refuse all of them than give them free samples that might pay off 1 every 100 times. fuck that.
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    Stage shows ARE a sample but then you get the guy that say "when are you going to dance"? to avoid paying for a dance. UGH.

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    ^ eh. most of them don't say it to avoid paying for a dance. they weren't going to get one anyways. and they probably won't even look at you when you go onstage. they're just mindfuckers.
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    I hate men that say that. What do I look like a freaken deli? If you want to a free sample to costco, they got free samples of food all day long!

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    I used to say ''This is not a 'try before you buy' establishment!'' Urgh men suck sometimes!
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    You did the right thing in saying the sample of your quality service starts at a $20 lappie.
    Don't buy into the various mindgames;
    "but your coworkers...." etc and if he's grabbing you on the floor and you hate it- how would you possibly feel in VIP with this person?

    You know what your standards are- You know that there are guys you wont dance for regardless of what money they do or don't have- Smile do a shimmy or a slow turn to show him the goods and politely move on.

    I guess the girls who allow guys to do that obviously feel like they have to allow it in the hope of getting money.- Loren

    I do allow a degree of "non pink" touching in VIP- I wont allow it on the main floor out of respect to those who will not allow it at all. I don't do it out of desperation. I am certain that a portion of the girls in your club who allow touching aren't desperate either but rather have a different set of boundaries than you- remember all those people outside the club with dayjobs who think we are all scummy sluts?! Different strokes for different folks.
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    I tell them that their free samples are walking around the club in their underwear and to not be a greedy pig.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Flickdreams View Post
    I am certain that a portion of the girls in your club who allow touching aren't desperate either but rather have a different set of boundaries than you- remember all those people outside the club with dayjobs who think we are all scummy sluts?! Different strokes for different folks.
    I meant girls who allow guys to grope them for free in the hope of making a sale.
    I realize that guys are always going to try to grab- especially in VIP. I never look down on any one who has a grabby custy. It has happened to me a million times. I have had guys grab at my private areas when I was just doing a regular $20 dance on the floor so I completely understand. I have also had guys try to grab at me when I was not even dancing for them. That makes me really mad!!!
    I think it is sad when girls think they have to allow some dirt bag to grab at them when they aren't even dancing for the guy. Usually those girls are really out of it. That is what I meant. Sorry for the confusion.
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    Wow. Wow. WOWWWW.

    Obviously this guy is the type to tease the girls, make them feel like they have to give him something more, or extra- and then MAYBE he'd go in a room with them. WTF?
    WHAT AN ASSHOLE. Who does he think he is?

    If I were you, I would remember that smug face of his and the next time you see him in the club, make sure all the other girls avoid his ass. Unless he gets a lap dance. Period.

    Ugh. The NERVE.
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