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    Default Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    Do you ladies think it's best to drag out your cam shows by moving slow or immediately get down to business?

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    Drag it out the first 5 minutes. Just don't make it too obvious. Be subtle about it.

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    But if the objective is to get them to stay longer (so you make more money) then shouldn't you try to drag it out much longer? Like 15 mins; or will most guys leave at that point?

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    I try to take my top off fairly quickly, so they feel like I'm getting down to business, but I try to prolong everything else as long as possible.
    I don't know if that's the best way of doing it, but that's just my method.

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    Yes , Men have short intention spans, That combined with a tight wallet equals them wanting to see what they want if there paying.

    If you try and drag it on do it by dirty talking. Never just stumbling around.
    Trust me , if there getting there dirty talking
    you can take your sweet time with everything els.
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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    I jump right in. I'm usually naked within a minute and I'll finger for a minute, then move to toys.

    I feel like if you prolong it they won't come back to you. Prvts cost guys a lot of money. I sure as heck wouldn't pay $5-6 a minute for you to take 5 minutes taking your clothes off.

    Granted some guys want the tease so I always ask at the beginning what they want. If they say toys then I don't want to waste their tokens so I don't fool around.

    Then again I'm also on MFC so I do most of my teasing in public. That is why when they take me prvt I get naked quick since they've already seen me moving around. If there is no public chat you could spend more time teasing.

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    I generally jump right in. Unless the customer indicates that hes not in a hurry. But then, I do market myself as an "Instant Action" kinda girl, thats what I am comfy doing.

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    I tend to go slow for the first few mins with teasing, and then speed up and get to it.

    However, I have a rough mental equation for speed of a show and it goes something like this:

    Speed of show is inversely proportional to number of rude/ demanding "get pussy out now bb" type comments from customer.

    In other words.... more rudeness= slower I go.

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    Quote Originally Posted by snowC View Post

    Speed of show is inversely proportional to number of rude/ demanding "get pussy out now bb" type comments from customer.

    In other words.... more rudeness= slower I go.
    Ahahah I so do this too! Act like one, get treated like one in my room!

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    ^^ Exactly!

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    I prefer to jump right into things but at the same time I don't want to show anything until a minute passes because of the guys who go private just for 1 minute because it's free. But I also guess you can tell when a guy is going to do that by what they say in free chat and if they're asking for freebies in there...

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    I go at my own pace if I feel like rushing in I will if not I'll take my damn time too bad for the minute men. fuck.them

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    drag out the first 5 minutes or so, that way youll find out really fast if its just a guy looking to see your boobs cum and leave.

    ask questions! ask them what they are in the mood for, if their dick is hard, if they like your ass, etc. works for me.

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    Yeah, and do a lot of boob juggling just in case they are that boob-viewer who cums really quick.

    The less I have to take off my pants for minute men, the more pleased I am.

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    also talking helps 'drag' it out! damn straight I'm going to take as much of their $ as possible. This ain't no charity ! these men are LUCKY to even see us on webcam.period.

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    Coming from non nude camming it taught me how to stretch it out. So i'm really a striptease kinda girl. I go slow, but Im trying to remember to slow it down even more. Slooooow seductive movements. Lots of groping myself. Stripping sloooowly. Showing off my body. Finding out what they want. And take it from there.

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    Thanks to ImLive's ridiculous "first 30secs of pvt chat are free" rule, I've learned to not jump right into things right away. There are some guys (cheap guys) who just want a quick glimpse of your tits and/or ass and/or pussy, and then they leave chat immediately after seeing what they want to see. They're often the guys who enter chat (without saying hi) talking about "Can I see your ass?"

    I know that on ImLive, there was no way I was gonna plow myself with a toy during the first 30 seconds. Those first 30 seconds should be used smiling/talking/flirting/getting ready to remove clothing. Same thing with phone chat...just because the "I'm too horny to even say hi" guy tells you right away to call him doesn't mean you have to do it right away.

    Awhile ago when discussing AW, someone on here had suggested spending around 2 mins. focusing on one body part at a time. 2 mins. of focusing on your tits (up-close views, jiggling them and licking them)...2 mins. of focusing on your ass...etc. I thought that was a good idea, and when I had started doing that, I noticed my paid sessions on AW lasting a little longer.
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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    Sometimes I drag it out depending on the guy, but if he's not very talkative I get down to business because I feel really shy/awkward around guys who don't say much. I like the idea of two minutes of every body part though...might have to try that!

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    definately going to try the 2 minute thing, hmmmm

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    It's what's been confusing me since I started. I know they're paying a decent price for every minute, but I still think I deserve Hi, bye, thank you and similar. I don't feel like rushing to get my panties off and sinking my fingers in at the first 15 secs.
    I try to say hi and ask what sort of a show would they like. Some are more than nice and want more interaction and there's guy who'll say "I want to see your ass, bb." I touch my boobs through the bra a little, maybe pull one out, lick the nipple, yadda, yadda. It's not like I'm porn where you can just hit ffwd.

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    Default Re: Can't decide if I should go slow or jump right into it?

    Im not rushing.
    You will speak to me, or I will not budge. I will be damned if I lose my respect because you are "paying to ignore me and jerk your cock".

    once You say hello, I ask you what you want. I dont start stripteasing, but i do move around to let them know I will get active as soon as everything is figured out.

    then I tease, take out my tiny tits, and lick them really close to the cam. then I ask if they like it. then i turn around to bounce my booty, show off my hot undies for the day, and strip tease out my panties.

    then i start caressing myself.... rubbing my playground , with no insertions.

    at this point at least 4 minutes has passed. I have not cheated the man of a "show" because he is still getting one...I don't believe you should be naked the first minute. I draw the line on that.

    you teach people how to treat you.

    we are not trash.

    Half of the girls here make 35% the least you can get is a freaking "hello"or a half assed "goodbye".



    Always remember a camgirl tries to do the least for the most money and the client tries to see the most for the least money.

    play the game or get ate up.

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