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    do you ever have this feeling? like you just havent met that other person in this universe that completes you?? like no one ever adds up...and it never will happen. sometimes i feel like im just floating along in life with people i cant connect with. ever feel this way? i dont know i cant explain it. sorry i have had a little wine...i have been sitting here analyzing my relationships and how i always want more....
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    Analyzing is good, no need to apologize...I would say I haven't met the woman that completes me but I'm at peace that I will. The way I look at it is, at least I know what I'm searching for & I put very high value on those attractions. So much so that I will not settle for something because I'm alone. Now I do go out & have a good time & that helps with the loneliness but I don't give all of myself just for a good time & I'm very honest about that. I also try to work on myself so when I do meet her I have something to give to the relationship.

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    Its funny bc a while back I met a guy who said that he had nothing to offer yet he liked me. He said that he figured I would just want to be with someone w alot of money or a really hot guy--(sounded like low self esteem)he was in a tough spot couldnt even afford rent bc of financial issues..Felt bad for the guy bc he knew he was too selfish and too used to being alone and doing what he wanted the way he wanted to do things. Even some women r like that but I find that trait to be highly common n men. I think its hard to meet the right man bc many people r consumed w themselves so much that they really dont want to alter things to let someone new in. ALso just like many of the females here on SW r towards men-, many men have been hurt by women and r weary of women...They think we r all evil just like we think men r the same. SO yes I do find it hard to connect w guys on a level that really does something for me. Kinda makes life lonely. Also the job of dancing isnt respected by alot of guys as we all know and that turns alot of prospects away. There is a huge price to pay for our job. Just got to keep trying..There are still a few goods guys left out there.

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    All the fucking time. I feel incapable of a serious adult relationship. Everything/everyone good I just push away, and here I am now, alone again.

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    I've never felt like i need somebody else to complete me. To be honest that seems like a lot to put on another person.

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    its just nice having someone to fall on and tell things to and make you feel loved you kno
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    It sounds to me like a little wine is making your normal desires seem a little dramatized.

    It is "normal" to want someone around to talk to about your day, to know you have someone to call in an emergency, someone to laugh at your jokes and care about your needs.

    However, I feel it is best to feel as if you complete yourself and that other people add dimensions to your life. I do understand the frustration of feeling like you aren't connecting with people though.

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