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    Default So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    I understand most dancers hate it when asked for their real name. But have you ever felt comfortable enough with a customer to tell them your real name?

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    you don't believe my real name is Chili?

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Quote Originally Posted by xxxchili View Post
    you don't believe my real name is Chili?
    Sure, I believe you. Now, can I take you out for a date, ... Chili?

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Yea... my real fake name. You men never know the difference. Beside, what's the point of a dancer telling a customer her real name? To make him feel special?? It's a strip club for cryin out loud! lol
    I'm not trying to say all men in strip clubs are bad people who are not to be trusted. On the contrary. I'm sure many wonderful and decent human beings come and go through my stomping ground. There's just no practical reason why a customer needs to know my real name. No customer is going to meet my real life friends and go on real life dates with me and meet my real life mom and dad. So why would he need my real life name?
    There's a reason why someone came up with the idea of "stripper names" or "hooker names" =] It was a good idea. =]

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Okaaay...

    Silly question, it isn't about feeling comfortable in this situation.
    There are many reasons why we have dancer names.
    Stalkers and personal privacy are the main reasons.

    We aren't ourselves at work and it should be clear why we wouldn't be.
    We're creating a fantasy... you aren't connecting with the dancer on a personal level (at least not 100%) so don't think trying to make a stripper "comfortable" will get her to tell her real name. Feel free to try though... and you might have to tip her to find out her fake real name.

    Best thing to do is just go have fun, enjoy the dance and company/entertainment of the sexy ladies. If that's not what you're there for, you and the dancers entertaining you won't be having as much fun as there could be had.

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Quote Originally Posted by xNatashax View Post
    Okaaay... <snipped>
    Quote Originally Posted by renaissancelove View Post
    Yea... my real fake name. <snipped>
    So I guess that's a no, you've never told anyone your real name (not real fake name)?

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    For me, that's a no. Never told anyone. No reason to in the slightest as previous posts state.

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Yeah, I used my real name as my stage name last club I worked at.

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    That would be a no for me as well.

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    I have quite a few times. I don't see the harm in it really.

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    I have when I just dont care, I mean I live an hour away. I dont see that harm in such a big city. I lie where I go to school and where I live though.. Whenever I dont feel like messing around with the customer, I dont care if I give away my name.

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    I told one reg my name. Stuuuupid. I never thought he would be the type, but he stalked me till I had to change phones....and get it in my parents name....and the moron still found me (aunt worked at the phone company.) It's beyond creeey to walk in your house and answer the phone, only to hear how awesome the red sweater you're wearing looks.
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    I didn't change my real name much to get my stage name. In fact, I like the way my stage name looks when I write it.

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Why are you obsessed with knowing a dancer's real name? You also started the post about whether or not dancers call each other by their real name while in the club. It is a fantasy. Treat it as such and you will be better off in the long run. I don't care if I am told any name and half the time can't remember what name I am told until I have seen them a few times. While some of the ''stripper'' names can be a bit silly or found to be annoying; the ladies should not have to provide a customer with anything they are not comfortable with. So, if you are told by ''Mercedes" that her real name is "Jennifer" than that is better for you?? Like many of the ladies have said; they often give ''fake real'' names so you would not know anyway even then if it was real. By the way, you don't even post under your real name?
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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    I don't really care about knowing a dancer's real name though all of the dancer phone numbers in my contact list are entered with their real names. Still, inside the club that sort of information is not important to me. I would certainly never ask and, honestly, I don't understand the obsession some guys have with it. To me, it's the early stage of thinking that you may have a chance with a lady beyond a customer/dancer relationship and that's not a particularly healthy approach in a strip club.
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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    maybe a couple times in almost 7 years.

    it has nothing to do with comfort or safety. i don't like games. i don't like it when people refuse to respect me. when they try to hustle me. it's a boundary, and i'm not going to cross it. even if i like a guy and enjoy my time with him. he's not getting my real name.
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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Every single guy I introduce myself to at work, knows my real name. ALL of them. Why do I tell them? Because at our club we HAVE to use our real names. Our owner finds it "classier". Which is why we don't have a pole onstage either.

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Every single guy I introduce myself to at work, knows my real name. ALL of them. Why do I tell them? Because at our club we HAVE to use our real names. Our owner finds it "classier". Which is why we don't have a pole onstage either.
    That sucks. My real name could be a stripper name, but I like having a fake real name (though my stage name Kelly sounds real too).

    To the OP, only a handful of customers my real name. The guy I dated outside the club obviously knows it (he knows everything including my last name, birthday and address, phone and email). A few guys who became regulars outside the club know my name (though not all, but a few who were regulars for years).

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Nope, I have a fake real name.

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Depends on my mood.
    Sometimes if I don't feel like putting forth the effort I just tell them my real name. Other times I tell them a "real" name that's even faker-sounding than my stage name ("Because I trust you, I'll tell you my real name... Bunny/Porsche/Diamond/whatever") and laugh openly about it to demonstrate how silly of a question it is. Other times I tell them that we should both go by our stripper-names, and I'll ask him what his stage name is or I'll give him one. Or I insist that my stage name is my real name, and often guys believe it.

    So really, ya never know what youre getting, it's a whim sort of thing

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Does it matter what her "real" name is? I assume all dancers have 3 names lol, and the only one i care about is their stage name

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I would certainly never ask and, honestly, I don't understand the obsession some guys have with it. To me, it's the early stage of thinking that you may have a chance with a lady beyond a customer/dancer relationship and that's not a particularly healthy approach in a strip club.
    You're probably right. Looks like you understand the obsession fine.

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    So long as her "name" isn't something that makes me wince or roll my eyes (like Destiny or Heaven or something equally stupid) I don't care what her name is. I just don't give a damn.

    Hell, sometimes I use a fake name.
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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    I've had many dancers tell me their real names.
    Sometimes it's mentioned on purpose, sometimes it just slips out.

    (I've lost count of all of the Ashley's & Alyssa's that work in SC's )

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    Default Re: So have you ever told a customer your real name?

    Eh i do sometimes but most people never ask for my real name. As for the whole stalking thing, i doubt they can look me up or find me with my first name... Especially since I live so far away and in a big town.
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