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    Question Helping a dancer remove her outfit?

    I typically go to topless clubs. When given the opportunity during a series of lap dances I enjoy helping a girl remove her top and/or take off her skirt. Kind of like unwrapping a present.

    Don't do it often as I tend to let the girl take the lead (she is dancing for me in the end) and frankly often forget to ask.

    Some faves recall that I enjoy this and will remind me by pausing and saying "wanna help me out with this?". Those are in the minority, others just have a habit of getting (half) naked as quickly as possible and don't like to be slowed down.

    Guys, is this something you like or do you prefer the girl to do her thing?

    Gals, is this something you permit or encourage?

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    Default Re: Helping a dancer remove her outfit?

    I like to help but I always let the dancer take the lead. If she happens to unbutton my shirt while removing her outfit that's OK too...
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    Default Re: Helping a dancer remove her outfit?

    Here in Sydney (and a lot of other Australian clubs) if you're a customer, touching a dancer isn't really permitted. If it's a licensed lap dance club, we can touch you (to perform a lap dance and lean on you only!) but not the other way round.

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    I prefer not to be helped unless I ask. I have a couple of longline bras with about 6 clasps that sometimes get caught, in which case, to save myself embarrassment, I might ask for a helping hand. Otherwise, I have certain points in my dance at which I like to remove each item of clothing and I dn't appreciate a customer interfering with that. I am always polite about it though.

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    I almost always let my customers undress me, but only in VIP. When I'm out on the floor I never want to encourage touching in any manner.

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    Depending on the customer. If he seems to enjoy doing that, yes I do - but only if he isnt grabby. I've had guys try to take off everything within a second and I dont follow that, as I like to do it step by step as it looks sexier. Also its always good to ask the dancer, I had guys help me, but in the end ruin my things or by accident go for that route.

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    Default Re: Helping a dancer remove her outfit?

    I prefer to have the dancer do her own undressing.
    The last thing I need in my frenzied sexual state is to fumble with a stubborn tied knot or to get accidentally entangled in her fishnets.

    Come to think of it....the fishnet thing might not be so bad

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    I asked a dancer once if I could take off her g-string. She took too long to take it off (forgot) and I prompted her and then asked if I could do it. I sort of did it to relieve some of the awkwardness. I had to ask her how to undo the first clasp lol. I've thought about asking other dancers since then but I always forget to ask during the LDs. That first dancer was an outstandingly beautiful and sexy girl so I felt the impulse at the time to take it off for her.

    I have to wait until the dancer is about to take something off herself before asking if I can do it or it will look like I am being impatient and they probably like to choose how soon they take each item off. Some dancers take it off in a fun or exciting way, so sometimes I would prefer to let them do that, but others just stop and whip their gear off casually, which isn't necessarily exciting to watch.
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    Default Re: Helping a dancer remove her outfit?

    My fav has no problem letting me undress her, and I love to do it. It's like unwrapping a christmas gift every week. I'm like a kid who already knows what he's getting by the shape or "rattle" of the box. It's still a thrill to open it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    ..I have to wait until the dancer is about to take something off herself before asking if I can do it or it will look like I am being impatient and they probably like to choose how soon they take each item off.
    Definitely. But I would never try to direct things or move things along. When and only when she starts to remove some part of her outfit I'd ask "can I help you with that?".

    As I said I almost always forget, get mesmerized or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tdonuts View Post
    My fav has no problem letting me undress her, and I love to do it. It's like unwrapping a christmas gift every week. I'm like a kid who already knows what he's getting by the shape or "rattle" of the box. It's still a thrill to open it.
    Sounds like we think very much alike on this topic.

    Gotta meet your fav sometime!

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    Default Re: Helping a dancer remove her outfit?

    I simple " May I ? " would be appropriate here as you reach for a string or something. Some of my outfits untie and I hand the guy strings to pull till they fall off.

    I have had custies grab at my bra like 1 second into a dance though. Don't do that. Ask first and don't ask right away. Be a gentleman .

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    Default Re: Helping a dancer remove her outfit?

    I wouldnt mind up in VIP but I don't really like to be touched AT all on the floor.
    Helping a girl get dressed is cool, too. Yesterday my guy helped me slip my heels back on when we took a bathroom break..that was sweet. :]

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    Helping a girl get dressed is cool, too. Yesterday my guy helped me slip my heels back on when we took a bathroom break..that was sweet. :]
    I've handed a girl her shoes or parts of her costume but can't recall helping a girl put her clothes back ON. Somehow the unwrapping part is a lot more fun!

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    I would definitely offer her help but i'd forget lol, and even if i did i'm probably too drunk and would completely de-thong her and most likely get a slap in the face!
    it's better to keep my hands off the clothes

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rookie2010 View Post
    I would definitely offer her help but i'd forget lol, and even if i did i'm probably too drunk and would completely de-thong her and most likely get a slap in the face!
    it's better to keep my hands off the clothes
    Under the right circumstances, if she's cool with it, de-thonging could be fun!

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    Little pissed me off more than custy taking my clothes off, it always meant they weren't going to respect my body and go for groping.

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    Default Re: Helping a dancer remove her outfit?

    I don't really mind when customers help me take things off, but then again pretty much everything I wear ties around the neck and back or has hooks and eyelets up the back. They can't really disrespect my body much if they are undressing me while I'm sitting with my back to them. Oftentimes I then get a back massage, too (in a CR of course)

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    Little pissed me off more than custy taking my clothes off, it always meant they weren't going to respect my body and go for groping.
    Hopefully custys taking the girl's clothes off w/o asking and then groping are the exception rather than the rule.

    What I'm referring to is politely asking "may I?". If the answer is Yes undoing a top or removing a skirt doesn't need to involve a lot of touching let alone groping. Now if she's into that, that's a different story!

    And once in a blue moon a girl will ask "wanna help me?", doesn't happen often though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 59 View Post
    Hopefully custys taking the girl's clothes off w/o asking and then groping are the exception rather than the rule.
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    alas, no.

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    For me the holy grail of clubbing is being allowed to take off a dancer's panties -- only with permission of course and no extra touching ever. Actually I equally like putting a dancer's panties back on, and for whatever reason the dancers seem to like it. I guess it saves them the trouble of bending over to pull them on and it shows respect and courtesy. A number of times a dancer has thanked me for doing this. I know all about SS and these thanks seemed genuine enough.

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    Stuff with strings other than g. Stupid bikini top I'm gonna look awkward reaching around to do. Stupid tie side stuff, things with multiple strings. I let clients make themselves useful. Always hold my hair up take their hand and say would you help me out of this honey, baby, whatever. Makes em feel good also. Closet to touching they can get other than the thank you hug.
    Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.

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    ^A hot girl taking her bra or pants off never looks awkward. Why is it difficult to undo knots (bow) or clips at the back of your bra or sides of your pants?
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    Because you have to tie the bow usually into a knot to keep it from slipping down if its those shorts that are supposed to be on the hip or low rider look. If that doesn't happen some guy will gently pull it if it trails when you walk by him so he can see you. As for bikini tops I have found that they fit better if tied slightly to the side instead of middle of the back, but the end of the bow migrates around so when you feel a string you just pull. You don't know if you got the bow part of string or the end, and if it's the middle you now have a know where you don't want one.Bra clips can be a bitch if its a pushup or really decorative one since they tend to be firmer in the cup than reg bra. This means you have to put your people in then fasten while they are damn near touching your chin which makes reach around harder. If you flip the decorative ones down and fasten like a reg bra rhinestones, sequins, mirrors, whatever dec will usually scratch/pinch/stick you. It's so easy to let the guy help to make things less time consuming and more fun for him.
    Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.

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    For me the holy grail of clubbing is being allowed to take off a dancer's panties
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