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    Quote Originally Posted by Pure View Post
    Im not a "wanna dance"girl at all, but I don't want to coddle you,stroke your ego and make you fall in love with me all for a 20$ dance. The effort is not worth the return.
    Doing either of those things is a sure way to NOT get my $20.

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    I am pretty sure that guys say this when they want to reject you "nicely"
    it makes me think that they take me for an idiot. I know what this really means is "youre ugly and im too cheap to spend money on an ugly cunt like you"

    though i have had guys say "wow i expected your dance to suck cuz youre so pretty." so yeah guys do sometimes think pretty= bad dance

    but i DOUBT anyone who says "youre too hot for me" actually MEANS it. its a strip club, not a pick up bar!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    I know, it's weird, but so many guys feel this way!

    I was explaining this to one of the hottest dancers I have ever worked with friday night. She was complaining that she wasn't getting dances and all the ugly girls were.

    I've seen that happen before, but usually the ones getting dances were good hustlers, and the ones looking pretty but being ignored were not good hustlers at all. Or worse yet, insecure about appearance despite the evidence in the mirrors every night. Or worst of all both at once. But this girl can hustle.

    But anyway as I told her, and whether you are good hustler or not, there's a lot of ugly guys out there, and also some better looking guys who still don't think they could ever get a really hot girl. So for them, the fantasy they seek in the club is an average or even ugly girl, so they can believe the girl might mean it when she tells him he is so different from the other guys, or whatthehellever.
    Strange. If they believe it can happen IRL, why fantasize about it? Why pay a girl to strip for you if any girl just as nice might do it for free? I can partly understand though - customers are not solely after hot looks in a girl, but also some sort of connection (or at least the feeling of one) and perhaps the possibility of leading to something beyond the LD But I can't understand paying an ugly dancer for any reason.

    I don't care about whether a girl "connects" with me in a SC or is just pretending she does. I don't expect anything real from strippers. I don't go to SCs to connect and I don't expect strippers will connect with me. But it is nice feeling when she seems like she is connecting with me. I like a stripper who can do that.
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    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jester214 View Post
    I think the most accurate thing is this thread is what Djoser said... Often the prettiest women don't try hard. When they saunter up and 'wanna dance' you, an excuse is needed to get rid of them. Atleast, I beleive that's the case. I would just say no.

    Also keep in mind, some guys just aren't interested in the stereotypical "pretty girl". On top of that you have a theory held by some, that the less attractive will give a better or dirtier dance.

    Basically... I think most of the time guys don't mean it, it's just another way to say "no" nicely.
    I agree that some of the prettier girls don't try as hard in other aspects. For me there is more to LDs than just how the dancer looks. Although I go to SCs for the hot bodies, or me the dancer's attitude and persona are also an important part of the LD experience. I'll put up with a hot dancer being cold and limp on my lap for the sake of her body but I'll gladly buy from some less physically attractive dancers if they are exciting in other ways. But they have to be reasonably nice looking - nothing makes up for them being physically unattractive.

    No dancer is too hot for me to handle. It's just a LD and the hotter the dancer is the better. I live for danger in SCs.
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    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluelight View Post
    When I walk around the club I'm excited, full of energy, eager to flirt and totally enthralled by the variety of man candy in the club. That stupid line bursts my bubble, and sadly reminds me of the lesser men out there. It just paints you in a light that totally feminizes you.

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    P.S. I'm a top earner at the clubs I work at.
    You are my kind of stripper. I really like strippers who interact with customers in this way. Though I would not expect most strippers to be genuinely be enthralled by the customers in the club and view them as "candy".
    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    it is possible to be hot and be a great hustler, i know many many girls who are.
    sure its annoying, but sometimes i had over 40s balding fat dude assume i will go home with him, for free of course, very much implying i was in his league and at the time i was, an still is a hot 20 year old blonde.....
    i honestly dont know which is more annoying, how bout just go to the strip club for its intended purpose and buy dances or gtfo
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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    ^My purpose is to have a good time. I bring money, reasonable expectations and at least a decent attitude... I say the burden is on you to SELL dances or "gtfo".

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    ^ I think that's what she said.
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    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    Its just a rejection line.

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    +1 about just a rejection lie, though a really lame one.

    Unless she is smoking hot... Sadly some of them don't need skills, they can bank on looks alone.
    This isn't as true as you might think, especially in bigger clubs. MM & my GF is easily one of the hottest girls in every club she works in. Seriously, we look at her onstage a lot and just shake our heads that she's dating us, 'cuz we both get action but this girl is out of OUR league, she just stops rooms. Yet MM & several other girls FREQUENTLY - I dare say USUALLY, out-earn her. Her sales skills are just not there yet. She's not lazy and working on looks - she works her ass off - she just doesn't hustle all that well yet.

    On the other hand, some super hotties DO rely on just their looks - and they rarely bank, either.

    Then there's the one I mentioned in another thread that banks ALL THE TIME, she's seriously hot AND arguably the best salesperson I've ever known, lol.

    As for the "real world" - that theory about the hottest girls not getting dates? Totally true. I have a younger sister that was a supermodel - you might recognize her, though she didn't stay in the industry very long. She sat home many a weekend crying that she was ugly 'cuz her other friends had dates & she didn't. I've used that knowledge to my advantage many times over the years, going out with gals that most other guys wouldn't dare approach. I get my fair share of female attention, but I've managed to date one or two rungs up the ladder most of my life based almost entirely on this one bit of wisdom.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    As for the "real world" - that theory about the hottest girls not getting dates? Totally true. I have a younger sister that was a supermodel - you might recognize her, though she didn't stay in the industry very long. She sat home many a weekend crying that she was ugly 'cuz her other friends had dates & she didn't. I've used that knowledge to my advantage many times over the years, going out with gals that most other guys wouldn't dare approach. I get my fair share of female attention, but I've managed to date one or two rungs up the ladder most of my life based almost entirely on this one bit of wisdom.
    My dad is a "babe magnet" largely because he seems to be oblivious to looks, in that it doesn't affect his behaviour. Unlike most guys, he can sit at a table with a supermodel and behave normally. It's amazing how far it would get him if he were interested (he's happily in a relationship). The whole concept of "out of his league" seems like something he doesn't even know about.

    The interesting thing is that this is all despite the fact that he himself puts very little care into looking cool: mismatched everything is his usual style.

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    ^In my experience - take that attitude, add a dash of cockiness and a decent sense of style, add humor, and nobody is out of your league.

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    I have used the line, "I don't think a dance is a good idea because I might not be able keep my hands off you." To me that was a variation on you being too hot to handle.

    She eventually convinced me into a dance with her anyway. And no, she didn't let my hands leave the chair!

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    If I say anything other than, "No, thanks," or, "Not right now," it's because I mean it.

    I've turned down dances for various reasons from girls I found very attractive, but it wasn't ever for an out of my league feeling. Given the comments I've read here though, I should keep my compliments to myself since they won't be believed even if true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluelight View Post
    Hey guys, fyi... I wasn't starting this thread to ask why guys say this. I started this thread to simply let guys know that that line sounds very unbecoming of a man; it makes me question their sexual prowess.

    I can handle a "no, thank you" just fine. But to hear those sad words uttered by a man is just sooooooo unattractive. Things like, "minute man", and "weakling" cross my mind.

    When I walk around the club I'm excited, full of energy, eager to flirt and totally enthralled by the variety of man candy in the club. That stupid line bursts my bubble, and sadly reminds me of the lesser men out there. It just paints you in a light that totally feminizes you.

    It literally makes me question your manhood. Whether you mean it or not.

    I hope you can understand what I'm saying here.

    P.S. I'm a top earner at the clubs I work at.
    As opposed to all of the other customers who don't say this and are manly, non-PLs, handsome, and can totally get all of the attractive women they desire?

    While I've never said that line, if I did, I don't think it would even make the Top Ten List of Things That Make Me Unmanly. The way I react when faced with a spider, for example, would make the list.
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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    I go to the club, look at the women that are out of my league and then ignore them.
    Works for me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1
    While I've never said that line, if I did, I don't think it would even make the Top Ten List of Things That Make Me Unmanly. The way I react when faced with a spider, for example, would make the list.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bucket View Post
    I go to the club, look at the women that are out of my league and then ignore them.
    Works for me.

    Lmao. I thought I was the only one who did that

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    Quote Originally Posted by ZePeanut View Post
    Lmao. I thought I was the only one who did that
    LOL. Nope, you're not alone. I understand the whole "don't hate me because I'm beautiful" thing but get real.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluelight View Post
    Dudes: please don't tell me this. It makes me question your manhood.
    I would ask him how exactly he was planning on handling me since I give LD's and it's no contact (at least from his end). It's easy, you pay me, I dance for you. I'm a stripper. We're supposed to be hot.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bluelight View Post
    Dudes: please don't tell me this. It makes me question your manhood.
    Guys actually say that? You can think it but you better not say it.
    Just agree with them. Say, "You're right, I'm too hot for you. Have a nice night."

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    No stripper is too hot for me. I live for danger and play to lose. If I'm paying for "fantasy" I want it to be as unreal and nice as it gets in there.

    Why would guy go to a SC at all if they are just going to pay for "fantasy" from girls they know they can get sex from IRL?
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    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    I hate this line. It's an excuse and rejection. it's just LAME.

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    you know, it might be a rejection line, sometimes. Though it would be a dick thing to say, imo.

    but, yeah, reading, I agree with the op, it IS an unmanly thing to be saying, especially in a SC.

    BUT also, knowing how initally intimidated by SC's as I was when i was younger, I think it could also be something else.

    If a guy has low confidence or is not sure of themselves (hence the unmanliness thing) then, they might be talking about an insecurity about themselves and not the girl. They might be saying, in a roundabout way, that they don't think they are attractive enough for a hot girl, irl, so why play that game with them here.

    And by comig out with this, they might be trying to gauge the girl a little, seeing if she has a cold personality or something else. If she can engauge him in this convo, then he might start to get some confidence and begin to spend on a girl. If she outright rejects him for this, then, he's back in his hole and probably will not enjoy, nor spend in his time at the club.
    I wish I knew what I was doing...

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    Default Re: "You're too hot, I don't think I could handle you..."

    Quote Originally Posted by Chgojoe View Post
    I agree.

    I also go along with the theory that many really hot looking girls don't try very hard, don't give great dances, and act condecending and disinterested towards customers. Its the rule more than the exception at most of the clubs that I frequent.
    I think that's the way most of us feel. Although I've met some truly hot dancers that were also fun, charming and at least pretended to appreciate the money being spent on them, I've run into 5 times as many hot dancers who didn't and who treated anything other than the most expensive VIP/high value dances as an insult or waste of their time.

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