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it makes me think that they take me for an idiot. I know what this really means is "youre ugly and im too cheap to spend money on an ugly cunt like you"
though i have had guys say "wow i expected your dance to suck cuz youre so pretty." so yeah guys do sometimes think pretty= bad dance
but i DOUBT anyone who says "youre too hot for me" actually MEANS it. its a strip club, not a pick up bar!




Strange. If they believe it can happen IRL, why fantasize about it? Why pay a girl to strip for you if any girl just as nice might do it for free? I can partly understand though - customers are not solely after hot looks in a girl, but also some sort of connection (or at least the feeling of one) and perhaps the possibility of leading to something beyond the LD But I can't understand paying an ugly dancer for any reason.
I don't care about whether a girl "connects" with me in a SC or is just pretending she does. I don't expect anything real from strippers. I don't go to SCs to connect and I don't expect strippers will connect with me. But it is nice feeling when she seems like she is connecting with me. I like a stripper who can do that.




I agree that some of the prettier girls don't try as hard in other aspects. For me there is more to LDs than just how the dancer looks. Although I go to SCs for the hot bodies, or me the dancer's attitude and persona are also an important part of the LD experience. I'll put up with a hot dancer being cold and limp on my lap for the sake of her body but I'll gladly buy from some less physically attractive dancers if they are exciting in other ways. But they have to be reasonably nice looking - nothing makes up for them being physically unattractive.
No dancer is too hot for me to handle. It's just a LD and the hotter the dancer is the better. I live for danger in SCs.









it is possible to be hot and be a great hustler, i know many many girls who are.
sure its annoying, but sometimes i had over 40s balding fat dude assume i will go home with him, for free of course, very much implying i was in his league and at the time i was, an still is a hot 20 year old blonde.....
i honestly dont know which is more annoying, how bout just go to the strip club for its intended purpose and buy dances or gtfo
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Its just a rejection line.





+1 about just a rejection lie, though a really lame one.
This isn't as true as you might think, especially in bigger clubs. MM & my GF is easily one of the hottest girls in every club she works in. Seriously, we look at her onstage a lot and just shake our heads that she's dating us, 'cuz we both get action but this girl is out of OUR league, she just stops rooms. Yet MM & several other girls FREQUENTLY - I dare say USUALLY, out-earn her. Her sales skills are just not there yet. She's not lazy and working on looks - she works her ass off - she just doesn't hustle all that well yet.Unless she is smoking hot... Sadly some of them don't need skills, they can bank on looks alone.
On the other hand, some super hotties DO rely on just their looks - and they rarely bank, either.
Then there's the one I mentioned in another thread that banks ALL THE TIME, she's seriously hot AND arguably the best salesperson I've ever known, lol.
As for the "real world" - that theory about the hottest girls not getting dates? Totally true. I have a younger sister that was a supermodel - you might recognize her, though she didn't stay in the industry very long. She sat home many a weekend crying that she was ugly 'cuz her other friends had dates & she didn't. I've used that knowledge to my advantage many times over the years, going out with gals that most other guys wouldn't dare approach. I get my fair share of female attention, but I've managed to date one or two rungs up the ladder most of my life based almost entirely on this one bit of wisdom.



My dad is a "babe magnet" largely because he seems to be oblivious to looks, in that it doesn't affect his behaviour. Unlike most guys, he can sit at a table with a supermodel and behave normally. It's amazing how far it would get him if he were interested (he's happily in a relationship). The whole concept of "out of his league" seems like something he doesn't even know about.
The interesting thing is that this is all despite the fact that he himself puts very little care into looking cool: mismatched everything is his usual style.





^In my experience - take that attitude, add a dash of cockiness and a decent sense of style, add humor, and nobody is out of your league.
I have used the line, "I don't think a dance is a good idea because I might not be able keep my hands off you." To me that was a variation on you being too hot to handle.
She eventually convinced me into a dance with her anyway. And no, she didn't let my hands leave the chair!
If I say anything other than, "No, thanks," or, "Not right now," it's because I mean it.
I've turned down dances for various reasons from girls I found very attractive, but it wasn't ever for an out of my league feeling. Given the comments I've read here though, I should keep my compliments to myself since they won't be believed even if true.





As opposed to all of the other customers who don't say this and are manly, non-PLs, handsome, and can totally get all of the attractive women they desire?
While I've never said that line, if I did, I don't think it would even make the Top Ten List of Things That Make Me Unmanly. The way I react when faced with a spider, for example, would make the list.



I go to the club, look at the women that are out of my league and then ignore them.
Works for me.
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OMG, this made me LOL so hard... Fucking awesome...Originally Posted by lestat1











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No stripper is too hot for me. I live for danger and play to lose.If I'm paying for "fantasy" I want it to be as unreal and nice as it gets in there.
Why would guy go to a SC at all if they are just going to pay for "fantasy" from girls they know they can get sex from IRL?
I hate this line. It's an excuse and rejection. it's just LAME.
you know, it might be a rejection line, sometimes. Though it would be a dick thing to say, imo.
but, yeah, reading, I agree with the op, it IS an unmanly thing to be saying, especially in a SC.
BUT also, knowing how initally intimidated by SC's as I was when i was younger, I think it could also be something else.
If a guy has low confidence or is not sure of themselves (hence the unmanliness thing) then, they might be talking about an insecurity about themselves and not the girl. They might be saying, in a roundabout way, that they don't think they are attractive enough for a hot girl, irl, so why play that game with them here.
And by comig out with this, they might be trying to gauge the girl a little, seeing if she has a cold personality or something else. If she can engauge him in this convo, then he might start to get some confidence and begin to spend on a girl. If she outright rejects him for this, then, he's back in his hole and probably will not enjoy, nor spend in his time at the club.
I wish I knew what I was doing...

I think that's the way most of us feel. Although I've met some truly hot dancers that were also fun, charming and at least pretended to appreciate the money being spent on them, I've run into 5 times as many hot dancers who didn't and who treated anything other than the most expensive VIP/high value dances as an insult or waste of their time.
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